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but everytime we try having sex I get soft
honestly she's a 8/10, not even in a 'in my eyes' type of way.

idk how I got her but i did and now i feel like shit because I can't help her lose her virginity and i can't lose mine either because i keep going soft.

pls help
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First time nerves. Take a viagra or cialis before.
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>>18724271


like I asked in the other threads >>745218646

where the hell do I get that shit?
my doctor won't give me any prescriptions
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>>18724272
What the fuck? What kind of doctor won't give you prescriptions? Time to change doctors after reporting him.
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>>18724278

It's a walk in clinic and you're right, I need to leave ASAP. this Indian guy is annoying
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>>18724281
Go to any halfway competent doctor. Tell him your situation. He will prescribe you pills.
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>>18724288
>competent doctor
>giving pills for something what can be solved in natural way
Try again. Op isnt 50 years old fat guy.

>>18724270
Op, it is combination of your nerves, lack of experience, lack of confidence and probably too much of masturbation.

Stop fapping (at least until you manage the sex), google what foreplay is, cuddle the bitch and then eat her out. Maybe after her 5th orgasm when she will beg you for the D, your brain will realize you are in bed with sexy dripping girl and finally perform.

And if not, practice makes perfect. Stop overthinking nonsence and cuddle the bitch!
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>>18724281
ha, i had an indian guy and i didn't even need to finish a sentence before i walked out with a note for 20 pills - there was a coupon going
honestly, the boners were amazing and gave me a feel for how things work, something to shoot for. but it really is an ideal sort of boner you don't often get naturally. very persistent and hands-free.
>>18724293
everything else this bub said is right
tell her it could be a while since you're not used to it and you could use the help of cooperation, gauge her response from there

it's a long process, getting used to sex as a body-to-body thing and not automatic, sitting in a chair and working yourself to orgasm.

you'll do well to look up a great copypasta on cunnilingus. forget about boners for a while and wean yourself off porn.
don't be aggressive, just melt into the moment. enjoy eatin dat pussay or cuddling or whatever and soon you'll find it growing in your pants.
but even then, ignore it. let HER touch it if anything, or grind if it's convenient, but only when it's convenient.

if she's a real champ she'll get handsy in the morning when you pop one unconsciously
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>>18724270
Common issue. Psychological issue. Nerves worsen it, take it slow and maybe talk to her about it. Dont drink or do drugs beforehand. Lay off the porn and masturbation.
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>>18724293
You're a fucking retard. A doctor isn't going to not describe those pills to a young guy. Stop pretending you have a clue. ED does exist with men of all ages. Young first-timers aren't that rare. A doctor who isn't as dumb as you will prescribe pills to help a guy like OP.
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>>18724293
>eat out
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>>18724350
If you're OP, reconsider your stance here. Not getting hard is one thing - it's not a turn on, it makes sex loaded for her as well as for you, it probably plants a seed of doubt in her mind because society tells everyone that every man is ready to fuck 24/7... but her own boyfriend cannot get aroused to fuck her.

But that's still another issue from both not being able to get hard and not going for the things you can do to make sure she at least still gets sexual pleasure from you. Would you stay with a woman who couldn't do penetration and felt above sucking you off to top it all off?
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>>18724345
So he can experience his first heart attack and other 99 rare side effects? Really? If anything, he will check his 1st and 2nd symptomps of puberty, do blood test on hormones and other things but not viagra / cialis.

And if by any rare chance you are an old fag who uses pills for every night, check this, might help you out
https://morningsteel.com/kegel-exercises-for-men-2/

>>18724350
You must be some kind of super vanilla fag then.
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>>18724381
What part of "stop talking about things you have no clue about" was unclear to you? For some reason you think those pills are only for old fat men and with serious side effects.
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>>18724412
Sure. Teenagers dont need to figure out their bodies so they can have sex without issues decades into future. Instead give them pills so they will never overcame their anxiety and stay hooked up on cialis for the rest of their lives.

I bet you believe that the only solution for ADHD is ritalin as well?
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I was in the same boat as you last year my man. First date i went on in 6 years and i couldn't get a rock on. I was excited sure, but i couldn't get aroused. If you've done nothing but masturbate all the time then your penis will have lost a lot of sensitivity. Not to mention that you've produced a lot of misconceptions about sex. You will have been so used to looking at a screen for pleasure that irl it doesnt do it for you.

So as you can imagine my first date went shit. Next person i dated i took viagra. Didn't work for a good 2 hours so we fore played a lot and from there we did it 6 times in a night (for some reason i couldnt cum)

When i met my gf i took some viagra for about 3 weeks. Afterwhich i never needed to take it anymore.

Simply put. Having viagra help you get hard for when you have sex will have your body learn when to get hard. So when you come off the pill, you wont have issues.

Just reduce the amount of porn you watch though. Just explain to her your situation and tell her you're taking viagra for a short period until you sort yourself out.
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>>18724444
QUAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAADSSSSSSSSSSSSS
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>>18724270

Admit to her that you're nervous as fuck and make a joke of it. Laughing relaxes you and admitting it will balance out some of your fucked up brain chemistry. Being on the bottom helps too.
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>>18724443
Shouldn't you be ranting about vaccines causing autism? Like yours?
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>>18724443
You could have stopped when you revealed your ignorance to everyone. Instead you decided to double down on the stupid. You voted for Trump, right?

Taking Viagra can really help for a nervous first-timer. After he gets used to sex he won't need them anymore.
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>>18724568
>>18724577
If doctor who actually has a degree donesnt want to give you pills, it is for a reason. Read side effects for once to educate yourself. Why risk if there is risk free solution?

Also
http://lucidphilosophy.com/3-ad-hominem/
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>>18724597
You can get viagra through some websites. I used to get mine via superdrug which is a UK pharmasist. So you don't always need to go to a doctor for it.

Also my experience with viagra, this is also including 100mg dosages. I get a killer headache on the morning and that's about it. Literally every drug has some form of side effect. But my personal experience has been perfectly safe.
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>>18724350
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