I told a guy whose is only interested in hooking up with me that I would sleep with him. I have now decided that I do not want to. I've been making shitty, thinly veiled excuses a lot so I don't need to hang out with him.
How do I just tell him that I'm not interested in hooking up anymore?
>''I don't want to fuck''
>''Yes, they stick out....''
"Sorry, I've decided that I actually want something serious despite what I told you earlier"
>>18722783
>>18722786
Thanks y'all
"I no longer desire your weiner"
"The need for dick is history"
>>18722779
be blunt about it, it's the only way to get it through a guy head.
otherwise he'll be clinging to the hope you're still interested. Guys are very tenacious so you'd be best of dropping him completely, if you don't desire to do so then just be blunt that you ain't tryna succ.
Offer a nice relaxing footjob instead
>>18722779
>I told a guy whose is only interested in hooking up with me that I would sleep with him
..why if you don't like him back?
>>18724216
She liked him in the moment she said it but changed her mind after time allowed her feelings to settle.
When you're phone talking a girl this shit happens a lot. Sometimes it happens when they're directly in your face too but it's usually a result of the guys failure to attempt to seize the moment by moving to a better spot or just taking the girl.
If there's a concrete reason you feel comfortable sharing, just say that. You are both honest and providing him feedback that can benefit him in the future.
If it's something outside of his control or you cannot get yourself to say it, use the excuse that you realized you are not as comfortable with sex outside of commitment as you thought in the heat of the moment.
>>18724357
So the guy's a beta that didn't took the offer while it was fresh?
>>18722779
"Hey I have this new black boyfriend who said he wants to fuck you while you fuck me. He's 6'8 and has a huge dick. Are you in?"