So I finally asked out this goth girl after 5 years, and she

If you really liked her, then idk, but if you were doing it for kicks, ask her friends what she likes and give it to her.

You've taken a step. You've been rejected, but everybody has been rejected at some point Anon. This is a good chance to learn to cope with inevitable rejections later on in life, both professional and personal.

Just ask another girl, good luck!

She's just playing hard to get, keep at her.

The fact that you're just thinking of her as a "goth" girl shows that you didn't really care about her, you were just paying attention to her outward presentation.

It's fine to be attracted to that but it seems you noticed only that and not her personality. It just sounds like you didn't have enough of a bond for anything to go anywhere.

>>18721715
>>18721741
Bad advice

>>18721728
good advice.


This is the wrong advice