Coprophagia/Scat Fetishism

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>>18720235
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The day I found it we discussed it. After an immediate short breakdown I made it clear I wasn't going to just leave her over this and I didn't think badly about her, But I did want to discuss it and undestandably in the moment she didn't have much to say. We finished our drinks and continued the evening.

I've know her about 5 years and we have had a sexual relationship for about 4 and together the last 2 years. In our end high school years when we had sex regularly and even engaged in anal she always had the typical female worry of "what if poop dick!?!?!?" And again had no cleanliness issues.

She doesn't have any other paraphillias that I know of and she isnt even keen to getting pissed on, not that I'm interested but my search for understanding is to love her because she is my 5'10" Aryan goddess and I'm not going to leave her. I have no immediate interest in shitting on her but I would like to understand and control this paraphillia before it evolves deception, infidelity or becomes a legitimate danger to our relationship or other potential health risks.

Is their anyone with experience into coprophagia/scat fetishism? Whats the attraction? What is it that turns your gears? Is it the degredation of it? Is it erotic opposition to social norms? Is it "Je ne sais quoi", a feeling you can't quite describe? I want to know whats the fascination.

>inb4 leave her
>inb4 shes too far gone
>inb4 not taken seriously
>inb4 and nigger dick comments
>inb4 everything, Not going to reddit.

>>18720238
>>18720235
I saged this because I don't care. Love your girl or dont because of some fetish she has But im pretty sure this is a made up story.

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>>18720243
Does this smell like a copy pasta? Nice to see people /adv/ are cunts just like in /b/bant/k/&/pol/ still in 4chan huh.

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Bumping and dumping afirmations of skeletor in the mean time.

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>>18720270

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>>18720272

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>>18720275

>>18720262

still staging. Also no not copy pasta but anyhting involving BBC cucking or rape is usually bait. People mix it up a bit its fucked up cause u cant actually tell whos lying . but w/e.

I just think this guy is an asshole so i dont want to help him

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>>18720281

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>>18720284

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>>18720287

>>18720235
Don't bump your thread so often, /adv/ moves way slower than other boards and it just comes across as kind of obnoxious.

I don't have any experience with a scat fetish, but is it possible she enjoys the fetish only as a fantasy and that's why she didn't mention it? I mean, I've got a number of fantasies I wouldn't/couldn't do in real life, so there's no point mentioning it. Especially if it were as controversial and potentially disgusting as scat. Maybe she thought it was crossing the line of fetishes.

Also I'm not sure what you expect to gain from this thread really. Ask her why she likes it and why she didn't tell you.

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>>18720295

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>>18720300
Appriciated,
Your thought that its only a fantasy hadn't occoured to me much, I won't fantasize about something I wouldn't be willing to do, seperate example I don't fantasize about super cars I will never drive or own. Maybe it is only erotic by proxy and as a fantasy.
Lastly I expect to gain a greater scope of understanding about the whole thing. "I find it kind of dirty and hot" doesnt explain much, a body piereing fetishist doesn't start watching snuff porn after a few needles no longer does it for you and coprophagia seems to be quite the leap in sexual enticement.

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>>18720301

>>18720235

Damn, OP. I don't have direct input, but I'd just like to compliment you on your genuine rational handling of the situation with your gf, and the project for reasonable enquiry which you've undertaken, and even the succinct articulation which you present the situation with. Genuinely impressed; more people should be like you.


Now, I personally have a mild amount of urophilia including urophagia in contrast to a generally high level of fastidiousness and hygiene in day-to-day life. I don't know if it's psychologically comparable to coprophagia, but I'll relate my psychological deconstruction thereof anyway:

For me, the sexualization of urination occurs:
-Because of it's conceptual proximity to reproductive biology
-Because of its taboo within society ("dirtiness")
-Because of its strong association to the concept of personal privacy
-Because of its relative hygiene in comparison to something like scat

The contradictory existence of this to general hygiene attitudes exists because i view sexuality in a different frame than normal life. 'The rules are different' in that specifically it's normative to break rules. For example, you wash your hands thoroughly after urinating and be sure to not inflict unwashed contact onto other people, and demand the same from them (as much as you can), but at the same time I'm completely willing to mash a person's genitals into my face if we are having sex. For the pursuit of sexual pleasure, the standards of what's acceptable are moved forward/relaxed/expanded to include a greater set of actions.

I am disgusted by scat and especially by shit-eating despite its also relatively close proximity to reproductive biology. This is because the appearance, potent unpleasant odor, toxicity, and psychological significance of feces is far too much to be accepted even the extended possibility set for what's personally allowed in sexuality.


>>18720243
Idiot.

>>18720300
(This is me, for context)

To expand a bit on the fantasy thing, as a prime example I've heard that many women have a rape fantasy (dominance, absolute lust, uncontrollable desire) yet for obvious reasons, most women don't want to live out this fantasy.

I also happen to have a bit of a piss fetish like >>18720354 and I basically agree with what he said. The taboo and (relative) similarly to an orgasm is what does it for me. Also I used to be a horny fucking kid and would jerk off most times I pissed, so that could have caused an association there. Could possibly be similar with her scat thing. Possibly.

>>18720354
I appriciate your reply and thr articulation of such as well, and in my persuit for the bigger picture of the whole situation thank you for sharing your paraphilia and your thoughts on it. The thing that eludes me is the "perverse enjoyment" aspect because though I wouldn't call it dinner conversation I dont have thoughts or feelings I wont eillingly engage. I keep no shame or guilt of my day to day actions to my sexual desires. It doesnt seem like a seperable line to me as it does seem like a prefered personal aspect.

>>18720366
I was just observing in another thread a woman who has violent sexualised fantasies towards other women but doesnt find women sexually attractive nor a pension les/fem bdsm porn but described her personal masturbation fantasies causing a massive orgasmic release. I wonder if its like that. Because desu I never seen so many pretty blondes with shit in their mouths than on her blog, they aren't fat ugly creatures playing with poop.

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>>18720522
Still here and interested in perspetive, and if (hopefully) this thread is still up tomorrow I'll be checking it.

Of course she likes shit, she is dating you.

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>>18721632
This is /adv/ you can talk about who hurt you and get help here.

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>>18720585
Thread bump, still monitoring.

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>>18723316

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>>18723322
Still monitoring..

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>>18724294

Something happened to her during her puberty/sexual awakening that gave her poo brain. Could be as simple as she walked in on someone taking a shit when she went to clean up after masturbating. Many fetishes stem from things like this.

>>18724695
To expand a bit.. Wires can get crossed easily at that time in anyones life and since she didnt/couldnt tell you exactly why she likes it it makes sense that its something like that. She likely would never know the reason she fantasizes shit in that case and no amount of questioning would be able to bring it out. Early sexualization fucks people up in immense ways. You are both lucky she isnt worse off. The only people ive met with piss/shit/diaper etc. fetishes are absolutely fucked up horrible people.

>>18724695
This is my guess too. Also surprised by the lack of shiteaters around here. We have plenty of pedophiles but apparently no shit fetishists.

>>18720235
>We have had 3somes, only FFM

you poor retard

>>18725222
>FFM
>Female/Female/Me
>>"You poor bastard"
What not enough cock for you?
Read the post, I have more than enough cock to share babyboy.

OP I don't have a scat fetish but I can definitely relate to getting aroused from stuff that most people don't even register as sexual. It is not difficult for me to picture why she would like it. After all, liking the combination of sex and poop is a pretty huge taboo. It is very easy to combine with shame/power. People don't call good sex "dirty" for nothing, everyone enjoys something that is the right kind of dirty in bed - even prudes, who might look at eye contact during sex as very perverted and arousing. This is something that hits her "good kind of dirty" button, at least when she's horny and in the mood for it.

One more thing to consider is that liking scat =/= liking everything poop related. Most people are pretty damn adamant about the criteria and turn ons/turn offs for what they like. Just ask a footfall what kind of feet they enjoy and they can wax poetics and speak with disgust about inferior types. So just because she's into some of this stuff doesn't mean that she would want to do anything and everything related to it - she might not even have any desire to try it in real life. I know from reading others talking about it that some people like the idea/look of scat, but irl the smell would turn them off, for example. Your fiancée is the only person who can explain (if she dares) what her boundaries are. But essentially just because she has this fantasy/kink does not mean that she's dying to be shat all over, and would cheat on you to get that if you didn't offer it. She's had this blog for two years. Everything you went through with her in those two years still stands. She didn't change, you just found out something about her you didn't know about yet.

Last but not least, don't be hard on her. Can you really blame her for not sharing this kink? It is very stigmatized and you are low key freaking out a bit about it now, even though you've been with her for years and you only found out that it can turn her on, not any concrete fantasy.

>>18725475
I can understand feeling blindsided by finding this out but you are not entitled to any and all of her private thoughts. There's a good chance that this is nothing to her but a personal fantasy she enjoys and never wanted to bring into the world. I read everything you said about not wanting to leave her and just wanting to know more. But again as someone who shares a weird interest, I do feel for her that you did not just "catch" her but are now voicing surprise at how she can be into this and still be a clean person.

Also I forgot to include this but wanted to mention that being afraid to poop or fart on/around you is not that surprising. Just because it might (! - she might hate the idea of being that person herself and only want to watch, for example) turn her on doesn't mean she doesn't realize it would probably turn you off. Plus many people are all the more anxious about taboo things they enjoy sexually and are actually less relaxed about them than others are.

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OP im afraid i dont really have much in the way of advice but best of luck preventing any real degeneracy from sprouting in your relationship.
I winder if any anon doesnt mind answering a somewhat relevant question for me though:
>pretty inexperienced with sexual stuff
>girlfriend and i fooling around yesterday
>dick went in ass a bit, first time trying that out for both of us. not full-blown intercourse
Now today shes a bit addled because she noticed some blood in her poo. Nothing serious, and says she doesnt hurt anywhere
Is it normal to expect some bleeding after that, especially if it was the first time? Also we really didnt have much of anything for lube down there; my dick had some baby oil on it from handjob prior to. I thought maybe the minerals in the oil might have also had an affect
Thanks mates

>>18725902
Top kek
Everything is fine you silly fuck

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>>18725946
That's good to hear, even if it's bullshit cus i dont fuckin know. Just very new to all these sort of things as it's both of our first relationship. Every time my girlfriend gets sick or notices something off about her health she starts asking me if she's gonna die lol.