I'm lonely and only enjoy jerking off to my ldr ex.

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I'm lonely and only enjoy jerking off to my ldr ex. 2017-09-14 05:21:40 Post No.
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I'm lonely and only enjoy jerking off to my ldr ex. OP 2017-09-14 05:21:40 Post No. [Report]

Like the title says, I'm lonely and usually the most satisfying way to jerk off is to beat it to videos my LDR ex sent me. We "broke up" around 6 months ago and though I was a wreck at the time, my mental health has improved significantly. But ever since I met her, I couldn't get as turned on by anything else. Again, I've improved, I can at least get hard to porn or other girls now but... I don't want anything else.

We still Skype from time to time, and I'm fairly good at hiding how turned on she makes me without her trying. But she knows I'm still very into her, but the breakup was pretty mutual because the distance was killer plus other reasons.

Also, on a semi related note, I'm lonely as fuck when I'm alone. Although I see friends on weekends and shit, I feel intensely lonely nightly - probably since I got so used to talking to her every night, and though I still talk to her some nights, she's obviously not always around. I'm open to meeting someone new, but I was so attracted to her that I find I compare everyone to her. Plus I'm not exactly drowning in options anyway. How can I reset my libido, and stop relying on her to cure loneliness?

Anonymous 2017-09-14 05:24:21 Post No.18720118
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Anonymous 2017-09-14 05:24:21 Post No.18720118 [Report]

>>18720106
Cut all ties.

Get out and meet new people.

I would recommend a nofap/noporn for a few week/month. Delete all the videos pictures whatever you got.

OP 2017-09-14 05:25:11 Post No.18720119
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OP 2017-09-14 05:25:11 Post No.18720119 [Report]

Also, I don't really want to get back with her, even if I could. She's dating a short term bf right now (it's a mediocre relationship and he's joining the navy soon), so I could swoop in and even possibly visit her after that... She wants me to. And she'd let me fuck her brains out. But I don't think I want to get trapped in this again - she's great in some ways but overall the relationship is NOT what I want... I don't think. Maybe in the distant future I'd revisit it, but not soon.

Anonymous 2017-09-14 05:25:58 Post No.18720122
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Anonymous 2017-09-14 05:25:58 Post No.18720122 [Report]

>>18720119
Don't be dumb that is just so damn dumb.

OP 2017-09-14 05:28:58 Post No.18720125
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OP 2017-09-14 05:28:58 Post No.18720125 [Report]

>>18720118
Good idea overall, I cut ties for a while but since I am no longer having literal panic attacks over her sleeping with her bf I was cool with talking to her again. Like I said, I get lonely as fuck and I'm having trouble meeting people (girls) I can talk to nightly/often.

I'd love to meet new people but I'm having trouble with it as I'm a recent grad and don't have employment yet.

Trying to jerk off less, but honestly it's been kind of a crutch to deal with wanting her so bad. Like, when I jerk off my libido is zero but after a few days all I want to do is Skype her and have her not let me jerk off... Yeah.

I guess I should nofap though, and try to get out more and rely on her less. But these just feel so abstract idk how to do them.

Anonymous 2017-09-14 06:54:36 Post No.18720385
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Anonymous 2017-09-14 06:54:36 Post No.18720385 [Report]

Bumpo?

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