Gym chick has a fantastic body, gorgeous face and triceps like an olympian. I want to talk to her but I'm a sperg supreme. How do I break the ice as a stranger? I usually don't care but the fact that I think I've caught her mirin a few times makes me want to overcome my fear of rejection for once.
Fuck the gym chick, it's all about the receptionist.
>>18719088
Treat the girl like a workout.
1) don't jump right to asking her out on a date because this is like jumping straight into your 1 rep max set without warming up.
2) warm up : when you meet eyes in the gym, smile, then step it up to saying hi, then making small conversation
after this, ,you can maybe start talking about other stuff and ask her if she wants to go eat or do something.
I usually don't condone hitting on girls at the gym because i don't shit where I eat, but if she's really that hot and you're that horny for her, try this method first. DON'T BE THAT GUY THAT CONSTANTLY BUGS HER DURING HER WORKOUT.
>>18719095
this guy knows
>>18719095
This.
I watched a guy do this over about a week or so at the gym like a year. I noticed it only because I'd been eyeing the same girl and he totally beat me to the punch.
While I was watching this cutie one day and struggling to think of something to say, he starts working out next to her. She finishes a set and he made some comment to her like "Dang, you're putting up crazy weight for someone your size" (which she was as I recall). She laughs and says something like "Hey, not here to play games, right?", he agreed and dismissed himself saying he didn't wanna distract her when she was putting in work.
After that, they'd make small talk when they saw each other and eventually I'm pretty sure they were a thing because they started coming in together. Haven't seen them in a while though.
>>18719095
Good advice. I'm not looking for a one night stand, just get to know her and if she turns out crazy then jump ship.
There's one guy at the gym who bugs EVERY girl there, seeing his sad attempts makes me never want to be like him.
We smiled at each other when I passed on my way out today. So from here maybe say hi next time, then talk about something small and relevant after that like her routine, how long she's been training, goals, etc?
>>18719095
>>18719114
today I learned something, you guys are great
Normies know how to talk to each other, because they're normies.
Autistic people like us will never be happy.
Unless you can pretend to be a normie.
>>18719094
Yooooo! I wanna bend that over so bad