Did I create a missunderstanding?

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Did I create a missunderstanding? 2017-09-13 05:13:03 Post No. 18718549
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Did I create a missunderstanding? Anonymous 2017-09-13 05:13:03 Post No. 18718549 [Report]

I met a woman and asked for her number after talking with her for a bit. After trying to ask her out by doing some random stuff and failing because neither of us has much time on our hands for anything else, I decide to ask her if she is in a relationship.

At this point I thought that my interests would be obvious, but she just answered yes and "kind of seeing somebody" and if I am in one. I tell her "no" and that I was interested in her in which she answers with "okay, but do you still wand to do [insert random thing here]?".

I told her no, for obvious reasons, but did I do something wrong here or is it her who doesn't understand the situation? I just feel like something is a bit off with the whole thing.

Anonymous 2017-09-13 05:20:55 Post No.18718569
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Anonymous 2017-09-13 05:20:55 Post No.18718569 [Report]

>>18718549

You made yourself pretty clear. But it might be that she lacks people she could hang out with and was seeking to friendzone you and to hang out as a friend. Or it could be that "kind of seeing somebody" is not official yet and she would have liked to keep you as a backup plan in the case that nothing comes of it. Who knows.

Anonymous 2017-09-13 05:22:42 Post No.18718576
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Anonymous 2017-09-13 05:22:42 Post No.18718576 [Report]

>>18718569
So what, should I still hang out with her just to try and see if it won't bother me as much as I thought?

Anonymous 2017-09-13 05:26:00 Post No.18718581
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Anonymous 2017-09-13 05:26:00 Post No.18718581 [Report]

>>18718576
It sounds like you're already bothered. Talk to other woman while you're at it. And don't invest time on her unless she reciprocates

Anonymous 2017-09-13 05:29:35 Post No.18718592
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Anonymous 2017-09-13 05:29:35 Post No.18718592 [Report]

>>18718581
It is not that I am very bothered about it, but instead that I don't want to risk ending up feeling like shit if I would decide to whatever with her, whether it is helping or just hanging out.

I half feel like I should just try and see what happens, but on the same time I feel like it is a lost cause. Maybe I should just go for it a couple of times?

Anonymous 2017-09-13 05:34:18 Post No.18718608
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Anonymous 2017-09-13 05:34:18 Post No.18718608 [Report]

You know what? Fuck it. In the beginning I offered some help with something. Nothing big, but I think I will still try and just do this once in the hopes that I don't end up in a bad circle. Should probably still make it clear that I have no interest in being just friends.

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