Giving up on pursuing relationships

You do you. That's literally it. I, for one, can't be arsed to pay attention to my girl much. Pretty sure she doesn't think she's even my gf, maybe she thinks we're just le super good friends. Buddy asked me if we text daily and shit, I told him yeah but I'm actually on 4chan when I could be out with my girl. She just asked me if we'll meet tomorrow after work, I haven't even replied yet.
Bottom like is, nobody gives a shit about you besides your mom and dad (even shitty parents care for their kids in a twisted way)

>>18718235
I don't actually see where this fits very much.
I just wanted to get it off my chest and see if someone would have a contrary opinion (and why, of course)

Do you want a family? Do you want a life long partner?

Then yes, keep looking.

I see benefits with marriage. Society favors a married couple. Especially if the female works. It's hard to live on just one income.

Good women desu though are hard to come by. Same with good men. Our society has downgraded so much.

I married a beautiful girl I met at Uni whose originally from a country outside the USA. She cooks, cleans, and is highly religious. A very virtuous woman whose HAPPY. She also works as a nurse. We're best friends too, and our relationship is one of the important things to me.

I almost gave up. I was so sick of American morals, and the degenerative behaviors in my generation. I thought I was going to die alone. I stopped looking, until I met her one day in one of my classes. Dating another culture has been really amazing. Her culture is like taking a step back to the 1950s were men were men and women were women. There's respect, and conservatism. There were cultural differences (like not celebrating birthdays???), but we learned.

There's billions of people here on Earth. Don't limit yourself to the people in your town. Don't be afraid to date outside your culture.

If you're truly interested in doing something like that then I suggest going to an international church in your area. Unless you travel frequently or live in a big city it can be difficult to meet different cultures

>>18718259
It literally answers the very first question of your post. You should stop trying to actively get in a relationship. This damages the man.

>>18718276
K den

>>18718264
That's a pretty nice story dude. Though im not exactly sure if i want to marry or not.
Marriage seems like such a hassle nowadays, specially for us men.
Just the thought of losing most of my things in divorce- like what happened with my Dads past relationship- gets me fearful as fuck.
Im also not a home settling kind of guy, you know.
I'm not some liberal hedonistic fuck but i don't see myself as a mortgage family man joe