so I see many threads on here that go like this
>seeing gril soon
>feels
>want to share these feels
>what do?
most people will reply with
>just go for it
>don't be a bitch anon
>what have you got to lose?
problem with these answers i see, what happens when "just go for it" but said gril doesn't react well and you now have an awkward moment till gril leaves
halp pls, autism is not a good thing and im worried because i have gril tomorrow
>>18716840
Sometimes you just have to deal with it in the moment. Other times, it's possible to have a plan of escape, but that should be used sparingly, as it can end up looking pathetic.
Like, if you ask a girl out, you're going to look really stupid if, after she rejects you, you say "I just wanted to be friends." Uncertainty comes with the package, and as a fellow autist, I can empathize, but it's just something we have to push through.
from my experience, never say shit unless you are almost certain. Let them say that shit first.