How do I convince myself that irl sex is better than porn?

>>18713340

Are you a virgin or have you just had bad sexual experiences?

Stop looking at porn and jacking off.

/thread

>>18713345
Mediocre-to-bad sexual experiences.
Pitiful attempted dating experiences. As in seriously embarrassing for someone my age.

>>18713348
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>Anonymous 09/11/17(Mon)23:43:25 No.1871

Activities that lead you to irl sex will make you feel better in everyday life

If you resign yourself to porn then you're basically removing the single most motivating factor from your life (reproduction, sex, love, companionship are built in to our biological composition).

Not going to lie, I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, 10 or so pretty all round bad experiences, guess a few were ok so I can't tell you about what it's like to have someone really.

Within these experiences there are moments that keep the dream alive though.

A short-term girlfriend lying naked on my chest in the middle of the night, smiling, looking into my eyes and just saying "hey" in the softest voice still sends chills down my spine when I think about it.

Waking up to a girl (who I'd had a serious crush on) in some sexy-ass green thong with an amazing ass, waking up and rubbing her butt against my crotch. I was in her bed, this was amazing, I made it happen because I was in a good fucking mood that day.

All I know is that despite my deficiencies and defects a big part of the motivation for what I do in my life (which I'm overall pretty content with, despite the lack of true relationships) is that one day I'll find someone that I actually care about enough to commit to a relationship.

Literally just saying "fuck it, I'll just watch porn" means you will most likely always be a loser (if you consider yourself that already).

>>18713365

Meant to say long-term gf, my b.

>>18713365
And if I feel like I'm too autistic to get a girl again, and that irl is overrated, and honestly a little gross? Should I just seek therapy?

>>18713377
irl sex that is.

>>18713377

It is kinda gross but what are your thoughts on fresh out of shower sex?

Seek therapy if you're completely defeated.

If there's still a flicker of light left inside you then stoke it into a fire. Self-improve, see yourself grow, accomplish goals, live a good life that you have created (it feels fucking good man).

>>18713413
>It is kinda gross but what are your thoughts on fresh out of shower sex?
Yeah, I guess that would be nice, I just have pretty high standards for my personal hygiene and I get turned off pretty easily. Like when you're kissing a girl and it's pretty obvious she's dehydrated or has dry lips or something. Bad breath is another one, pretty much every has it. But yeah, like smells, etc. Turn me off real quick. Also the last girl I has dex with had really dry hands and it felt like sandpaper when she would run her hands down my body.
Also, when you're hitting it from behind and you just smell ass and like her ass sticks to your pubes.
>If there's still a flicker of light left inside you then stoke it into a fire. Self-improve, see yourself grow, accomplish goals, live a good life that you have created (it feels fucking good man).
I've done this. I've lost a bunch of weight, whatever and ended up undoing it and living like a scumbag because I was frustrated with the fact that I couldn't make anything happen with any girls, which reached its logical conclusion when I met a 10/10. Personality and looks. And she wanted the d for awhile and I ended up making myself look like a creepy fucking loser, which I guess is how I act when I want to attract a girl. But now I'm working on getting debt free and trying to keep as much money as I can so I can enjoy that, but that's strictly for personal reasons.