So basically every anon in a relationship must know what I'm taking about. How do you keep being sexually attracted to a person you get used to? I dumped a hot friend with benefits for a long distance relationship with a girl I love. It has been 5 months, we spent nearly the whole summer together, yet I'm already thinking that a long term relationship leads to an inevitable feeling of being bored by sex. The thought that my girlfriend could find someone else more sexually attractive because she got used to me is killing me.
Anons, share your relationship stats: how long have you had a serious relationship and what do you do about sex.
Well it helps to a) not be insecure and think she's going to jump ship and b) genuinely like her. Sex in a relationship isn't about the physical act of sex, it's about the intimacy.