Sex partner count

>>18712621
I don't think he has the responsibility to inform you about that.
But you asked him directly, he lied. You should be done with him.

He's kind of dim witted if the thought of saying he slept with a taken girl whose identity he would not reveal did not cross his mind. Also I do not typically think that people have the responsibility to spontaneously inform their partner, but this is different. You asked straightforwardly and he lied, plus if he did not get tested he endangered your health. Not all STDs (always) have symptoms.

>>18712629
>>18712632
I agree with these anons

>>18712621
Yes women should inform their partner just how much of a roastie slut they are

>>18712621
>Do you think your partner has the responsibilities to inform you that he or she had sex with another person when you have sex without condoms in a relationship?

It is not necessarily his responsibility to inform you of his sexual history, unless he knows he has some transmittable disease that has a major health impact--that's part of why, until recently, it was a felony to not disclose to a sexual partner that you have AIDs (and other cases were also won and lost with other, less dangerous STDs)

Even if you directly ask him, it's still not necessarily his responsibility to respond to you truthfully. Your safety is ALWAYS your own responsibility.

It is however, unethical and scummy as fuck for him to lie straight to your face.

What he should have said was, "Yes. Out of respect for her privacy, I can't talk about it, but I have had unprotected sex."


That being said, people are fucking idiots.. It's sad to say, I could see a legit case where he's just a young dumb ass who doesn't yet quite know how to prioritize and deal with awkward subjects like this.

He was probably between a rock and a hard place in his own head, and he did what any other dumbass kid does when they got caught doing shit that makes them embarrassed/ashamed/conflicted/confused: they lie, hide, etc.

Fuck, he may even be one of the extra big dumbasses who thinks STD's are not a thing as long as he pulls out before he cums and doesn't feel it itch, because that shit happens to everyone else--not him (AKA the hubris of youth).