This is sort of a two-parter question. There's this really pretty girl at my college and she keeps saying "Hi" to me whenever she gets a chance and I feel like asking her out. Does she have any interest in me? And how can I tell if any girl, for that matter, likes me romantically?
Can I get some help? I just want to be able to gage attraction better and date around so I can find a gf. A nice gf.
Its very difficult to gauge attraction. Everyones very different in how they show interest or sometimes don't because they feel awkward.
E.g. one of my female friends had a crush on me and showed it by doing nothing other than try to annoy me because she didn't know how else to interact with me. Whereas my GF would always stand super close to me and get touchy which I noticed prior to going out she didn't do with anyone else.
And the most important thing is; girls do not realise guys are attracted to them. Guys tend to assume girls are interested all the time if any interaction happens because its evolutionary viable for maximum shag motivation.
In short; just chat to someone more, make smalltalk, don't go into it with the expectation of a relationship or anything more, just find out more about them and see if you hit it off as people. Then ask further if that goes well.
>>18710854
We only regret the things that we didn't do.
>>18710854
> Does she have any interest in me?
If she had zero interest she wouldn't be greeting you, so yes she has interest in you.
>And how can I tell if any girl, for that matter, likes me romantically?
You can tell by starting with asking her name. Then how she's doing. If she gives weak responses to those like just flatly saying her name with no giggles or smiles,turning her body away or putting the direction of her face somewhere other than you,she's not not interested let alone romantically interested. If she does the opposite then you can seal the deal between the two of those types of interest by saying you'd like to chat but you gotta run then ask her number. If she gives it,there you go. You have your chance.
>>18710911
>not not interested
not that interested
What's the big deal with asking her out? Ask her out for a coffee. No big whoop. The best scenario is yes, worst is you're on the run coz they found the body. Rejection is part and parcel of dating, develop a thick skin and brush it off, it happens.
Tips on gauging interest. Eye contact moves from eyes to lips. Pruning behavior, playing with hair that type of thing. Laughing at your unfunny jokes. Or just ask her out, no need to play spy.
>>18710911
Not OP, but how do you tell if a shy girl likes you?
>Does she have any interest in me?
>how can I tell if any girl, for that matter, likes me romantically?
By asking them out you doorknob. If she is interested in you she will say yes. If she is not then she will say no.