Should I divorce?

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Should I divorce? 2017-09-11 01:47:33 Post No. 18710526
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Should I divorce? Anonymous 2017-09-11 01:47:33 Post No. 18710526 [Report]

>30 yo, waifu 27, no kids.
>Got a law diploma, worked as a lawyer, dropped it, started med school (long story).
>Med school takes 6 years here, + 3-5 for residency.
>I'm on the third year of med school.
>Don't have a lot of money, but enough to be comfy. Money is not a big deal.
>Waifu is qt, no major flaws, there was no cheating etc. Been with her for about 10 years.
>Now she is seeking a better job who might make us move, but I don't want to move.
>I feel I will have an easier time stablishing my carrier without her, and she will too, also.
>I'm the one moving it, she doesn't want to divorce me.

What should I do? ama

Anonymous 2017-09-11 01:50:21 Post No.18710533
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Anonymous 2017-09-11 01:50:21 Post No.18710533 [Report]

>>18710526
If you want to divorce, you should divorce.

Anonymous 2017-09-11 01:51:53 Post No.18710536
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Anonymous 2017-09-11 01:51:53 Post No.18710536 [Report]

>>18710533
Yeah, but what if I'm not seeing the big thing? What if I regret and all, after all I've been with her for 10 years and she's a nice girl.

Anonymous 2017-09-11 01:52:20 Post No.18710537
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Anonymous 2017-09-11 01:52:20 Post No.18710537 [Report]

>>18710526
You'll regret this one day if you cared enough about her to marry.

Anonymous 2017-09-11 01:53:03 Post No.18710539
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Anonymous 2017-09-11 01:53:03 Post No.18710539 [Report]

One day she gonna figure out u divorced her because 4chan said so and she gonna fuck u up

Anonymous 2017-09-11 01:56:04 Post No.18710547
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Anonymous 2017-09-11 01:56:04 Post No.18710547 [Report]

Not gonna divorce her because 4chan told me, I'm not stupid. Its just that I can't sleep, having this big decision going on in my mind right now, and I wanted to see if some anon would get me something interesting to think about.

Anonymous 2017-09-11 02:00:28 Post No.18710559
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Anonymous 2017-09-11 02:00:28 Post No.18710559 [Report]

If you want to make it work then you will

Anonymous 2017-09-11 02:00:51 Post No.18710562
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Anonymous 2017-09-11 02:00:51 Post No.18710562 [Report]

>>18710526
Is there a problem with her moving and you staying where you are? If you two really love each other then you two can spend a year or so apart. Once you finish med school you can move in with her again and get a local job.

Anonymous 2017-09-11 02:06:35 Post No.18710576
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Anonymous 2017-09-11 02:06:35 Post No.18710576 [Report]

>>18710559
>>18710562
It would be ok to move for a few years and then return, but the job she wants requires perma move, and I don't want to.
I'm trying to keep "love" out of the equation, because I believe in respect, affection and all, but not romantic love for long term relationships. I'm trying to weight down the pros and cons of staying with her, but its tough.

Anonymous 2017-09-11 03:19:01 Post No.18710760
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Anonymous 2017-09-11 03:19:01 Post No.18710760 [Report]

>>18710526
>childless marriage
>divorce
sounds like you're fucked either way

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