ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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How are straight women supposed to talk dirty? What do guys want to hear?

Do girls mind stinky penises?

>>18709746
ask if he wants to be called daddy,if not then just moan

>>18709748
Yes. Fuck yes.

Do women find dark buttholes attractive?

>>18709760
I'm not calling anyone daddy.

I guess this could go for guys or girls, but I'd like a girl's perspective

I matched with a girl on tinder and we talked for a while and got along pretty well. I asked her out and she said yes, but that she wouldn't be able to hang out until next weekend. She seems genuinely interested in me so I don't think this is a ruse to get me to lose interest.

So my question is, how do I go about just chatting with this girl over text/tinder for an entire week without one of us losing interest?

I'm equally as worried about her losing interest in me as I am in losing interest in her. If there isn't much going on, I typically lose interest in things within a couple days or so, but I really want to be able to hold onto this one, not only for the sake of being with her specifically, but also mostly to get over this retarded problem I have with dropping things before they come to fruition

>>18709760
>daddy
as a guy, fuck no, do not do this.

>>18709748
Depends on what you mean with stinky. If you are talking about having taken a shower that morning and walking around all day, nope, love that musk. Actually unclean, yes.

>>18709764
Buttholes aren't really something I focus on or think about (even though I'd be open to buttplay) but the appeal it does hold to me doesn't have anything to do with how it looks. Just the sensitivity and taboo aspect. I do not expect a butthole to be marzipan pink.

>>18709777
>daddy
As a guy, I wish a girl would do this for me

>>18709785
time for us to fight to the death to determine who is right then.

>>18709774
Honestly I would just agree to meet that day and at most exchange a cute gif/funny picture. I'm not a fan of trying to forge chemistry over text when you never met and have no issues at all remaining interested for a week.

Having said that a a disclaimer, if you are steering for a relationship I would just try to soldier through talking a lot throughout the week. Don't just ask about her hobbies and side job but about her childhood and opinions on things (perhaps not political, just to be on the safe side), her bucket list, her pet peeves. Keep a close eye on how much she reveals, asks, responds etc to keep in touch with her level of enthusiasm and match that more or less.
If you are steering towards a hook up then shorter bursts of messaging with flirty comments or fishing for pictures/fantasies could work I guess depending on how open she is about those things.

Any ideas why shes acting like this?

There this girl at work, for the most part she's friendly and talkative with people. Except she seems quieter with me. She usually doesn't talk much to me. But for some reason she wanted to hand my paper to the supervisor (Who was 2 feet from us) After that I noticed her looking my way from a distance quite a few times. Today, again she was doing the staring. But at one point began playing with her hair, and would talk a bit more with me. Also, I made a face when a customer did something kinda weird. She then basically mimicked that face.

>>18709837
Sounds like she has some level of interest in you. (Could be anything from full blown infatuation to thinking you're pretty cute.) In terms of whether someone is attracted to you or not, it is more important to see whether they treat you differently than others (check) than how exactly they treat you. It is common for people who are flirty and bubbly usually to feel out of their element and more quiet around someone they have honest to god feelings for.

Of course you cannot just assume that someone wants the D and doesn't just dislike you when they disregard you compared to others. But the combination of being reserved and promising signs sounds to me like attraction.

>>18709711
didn't get many replies yesterda, so I guess I'll ask again:
to anyone, really:
what is a 30+ yo virgin/forever alone/shy/awkward guy supposed to do, if they were to find someone? try to meet younger girls? simply accept and/or admit that we have no love/sex experience, that we have not even had some degree of intimacy with someone other than our families? should we not say a thing about that to our potential partners?
what if we only want sex? we don't even know how to meet women, how would we play the one-night stand game...?

most 30+ yo women already have at least one kid (I guess), have lots of experience, have fucked lots of guys, have loved a few, etc.

>>18709746
I'd like to hear this from a girl: "I believe that sex should only be within marriage."
If you're chasing after men without regard for morality, they honestly don't care what you say. They'll use you as a cock sleeve and be done with it.
>>18709837
I'm a guy, but I can think of three possibilities.
>1. She's making fun of you. She thinks you're a weirdo and goofs off with others about it.
>2. She likes you.
>3. She's a sperg and has some sort of (non-romantic) attachment to you.
Find a mutual friend, preferably a guy less likely to gossip and tip her off, and see if she talks about you. That should give you an answer, whether she jokes around at your expense, or finds you cute.

>>18709846
Why not just try different things? You don't have to choose between younger women and women your age, or pick one ultimate stance on whether or not you want to disclose your virginity.

Personally I typically advise to tell the girl, to get it out of the way (and make no mistake, there are women - me included - who get a kick out of the idea of making a man's first time amazing) so you can focus on other things than your own inexperience, and in case you want to date, to make sure that she respects that. But at the same time it is personal and vulnerable information and you are not obliged to tell anyone, let alone for a night of sex. The one night stand game isn't different than it is for any other guy: try to not second guess yourself and just show interest, try to make her laugh, flirt or be silly with her. Low key show that she attracts you. Dating apps are a relatively safe way to dip your toes in.

>>18709748
medfag here:
armpit/pubic sweat glands are different from normal sweat glands, they contain pheromones that make women horny

so like a little 'dirty' is okay

>>18709845
Yea, seems like its more of some type of interest. Also FWIW, today was the first time she said good night to me, as I left a before her.

>>18709848
I think maybe 2? Don't really have any mutual friends. Just random people she talks to at work.

1 just seems unlikely, as nothing points at her making fun of me (Other than the mimicking of my facial expression)
3, nah, she seems quiet normal in general, so I can't see that

Girls: What's the right length for a first online dating message?

>>18709883
Then go for it, my dude. Ask her out someplace.
>>18709867
Sex outside of marriage is wrong and often leads to broken individuals.

>>18709902
Yea, I think I will, I'll just see how she acts next time I see her first

>>18709894
For me it's less about length than about what exactly you are saying. A first message should be an indication of interest and a glimpse of what kind of person you are or what you'd have in common. Not going all out trying to paint a picture of who you are and what kind of life you lead, or what kind of relationship you want. (Also because it is easy to fall for someone you never met irl before and can endlessly build up in your head.) Also not a "hey, you're cute, want to go out" that gives her nothing to work with other than that you think she's nice (well yeah, otherwise you wouldn't have messaged).

Just don't aggressively try to woo her before you even give her the chance to reply, and give her something more vivid than "hey I'm a guy with a profile who likes you" to get an idea of who you are, then whether it's five sentences or a few paragraphs doesn't matter.

Why do women only hook up with me to fuck? Usually I can hide my nice guy side for at least a night and jimmy in those sloots but none of them are willing to go on a normal "date" With me? also you should know I'm quite handsome for a gingered fuck and chicks seem to dig it but only in bed.

>>18709931
Thanks, that's a really great reply.

>>18709936
On the off chance this isn't bait, you're learning the hard way that girls who go for 'assholes' aren't the sort of girls who are interested in dating and long term relationships.

>>18709846
>>18709867
so, in short, I shouldn't worry much about being virgin, and should simply concentrate on being (or at least acting as) a normal human being...?

>>18709902
>Sex outside of marriage is wrong and often leads to broken individuals.
kys

>>18709940
No problem, good luck!

>>18709949
Yes. Honestly while replying to your post I was debating whether to include if you considered losing it to a hooker. Not because it's a big deal but because it sounds like it is a much bigger deal to you than it needs to be. Then again I'm a Dutchfag and lots of both men and women hold very strong opinions on men who visit(ed) prostitutes so I opted against it.

But I guess that goes to show how much I think your own insecurity about this is more detrimental than your real lack of experience.

>>18709949
>kys
Statistically, it's more likely you will commit suicide if you don't share that view. Have fun getting divorce-raped.

>>18709960
I'm not really virgin, but I feel like one anyway. I haven't had sex with a women in decades, though... and it's not a story I really want to tell. I have some child traumas because of it.
I've been to a hooker, and, honestly, I couldn't do shit... at the time, I was nervous, sleepy, and I also have strong moral/ideological opinions on them. not sure if I'll ever go back to a brothel... I guess escorts are a different game, but still, not sure about it.

i've been talking to this girl online. i kinda went through her yahoo questions through team viewer, and one of her questions were "i took plan b, and was bleeding heavily, 'something something' does this mean i was pregnant?"

so this means she had sex?

>>18709969
are you from america? you sound like a religious nutjob.

>>18709978
Eh, the suggestion was mostly because from your post I got the vibe that you built sex up to be a huge mental barrier and getting a prostitute could make it more mundane. But if you have had some experience and still feel this way I doubt it would work. The point still stands that your attitude is more important than your actual experience though.

Also just saying but the things you are saying here to me are bigger factors than that you are relatively inexperienced. If you are thirty years old and have not had sex in "decades" that's pretty telling. I fully understand not wanting to go into it here but consider trying to work through your feelings on that either by yourself, with a trusted friend/family member or a professional, whatever feels best.

>>18709986
>implying I am religious
Religion is invaluable in standardizing morality, but it is hardly synonymous with morals. I have those on my own.

>>18709985
Plan B is the morning after pill. You take it after sleeping with someone without protection (or with failing protection e.g. broken condom) to force a period/"miscarriage". (Does not mean she was pregnant, that's how the pill works.) So yes she had sex. This is assuming the question was truthful and not curiosity/trolling or asking it for a friend, of course. Also given how clueless she sounds she might have freaked out and taken it over almost nothing (like grinding naked in the heat of the moment, then freaking out that maybe some precum got inside somehow).

>>18710028
So, how do I ask her about it? Without seeming like I snooped through her stuff? I asked her if she went all the way with someone/or gotten intimate and she said no. I think she is lying?

>>18710035
This is a girl you're talking to over the internet, who gives a fuck

>>18710042
Eh, yeah. But I really like her.

>>18710035
What's your relation to her? Are you trying to date her? Online friends? If she tells you no and then you find this suggesting that she's lying, it's not really your place to confront her with it if you're not dating. You are just to accept that apparently she doesn't want you to know.

>>18710045
And she lives close too. Like 2 hours away.

>>18710048
Well yeah. Not at the moment, but we do love each other. We have said it.

>>18710045
>>18710035
You're not dating her and even if you were, what business of yours is it that she might have had sex in the past? Why would you ask at all?

>>18710060
> what business of yours is it that she might have had sex in the past? Why would you ask at all?
Because people's choices are a reflection of their character, you braindead leftist. Kind of like how a single 10-year old utterance of "nigger" will get a guy fired from a job if people find out.
Sleeping around is never a good sign.

>>18710058
I honestly don't think you have a better option than waiting it out for a bit then revisiting the topic. This is an area of life that a lot of people aren't truthful about - guys boasting their number and girls downplaying it. She also might've freaked out and told you no because it was a nasty situation (e.g. the guy took advantage of her, or he was actually taken and she was his lover) that she doesn't know how to explain without scaring you off. Now I'm not trying to say that it's right to not be truthful about these things. I'm just saying that it is common for people to be skittish about revealing these details especially early on, and that I don't think you will accomplish that much with forcing her to spill the truth. Just assume that she's not a virgin and act on whether or not you are okay with that. I don't really see a way to find out (other than asking her down the line when she might feel more comfortable with you) whether or not she lied without raising suspicion.

>>18710079
I just kind of feel like being honest. Saying well, I accidentally went into your Yahoo Answers and looked at what you asked, and etc.. It bothers me, I won't lie. Maybe you're right, but still, it bothers me.

>>18710087
You can do that but realize that she's not going to buy for a moment that you "accidentally" went in there. So then it's her realizing you snooped and you realizing she lied and probably both getting defensive. I don't see that being very productive but it's the quick and dirty road and you might get lucky if she doesn't get angry and fesses up right away. Having said that realize that there is no way to be absolutely sure. What if she tells you it was a joke or a friend asked her to post it so it could not be traced to her?

>>18710100
I go down these dirty roads on a whim, and I feel like I'll mess something up. It didn't look like it was a joke, and it didn't seem that way either. She's not like that. But also, if she was asking for a friend, wouldn't she have said that?

>>18710127
I don't think for a moment that it's a joke or whatever but what I meant was rather - what would be your next move if she acted like it was? Flat out say that you don't believe her when she buckles down? Not much you can do at that point other than decide to cut her off over it or hope to pester her until her resolve breaks and whatever you had is probably broken, too.

>>18710134
I feel like my only other option is to avoid talking to her so I can get over it/forget about it. Otherwise I feel like I will ask. I just would, I know it.

She tells me that "You're the best!" in a text. We've been talking, known each other for a long time, going out on "dates" but not dating yet.

I got friendzoned, didn't I?

>>18710143
>>18710134
Aw shit. I just realized she spent 300$ on me from Amazon. Fuck. Now I guess it would be even more wrong to continue with this.

>>18710158
I see nothing wrong with that text, isn't that a fairly neutral thing to say? If anything worry about why you are going on "dates" rather than dates.

>>18710159
Dude that's her decision and frankly kind of unhinged despite being sweet. Don't let that guilt trip you if you can't live without knowing.

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How do I get a girlfriend like this?

>>18710166
Alright, what do I do? If I wanted to ask, what would be the least worst way to ask her about this?

>>18710191
Well you said you saw it through team viewer, so I assume you two were chatting screenshare? Just say something along the lines of. "Hey, when we were on screen share, I noticed this question on yahoo regarding you bleeding after taking plan b.... What's happened?"

There's no way to really not be intrusive about it.

What happened*, even.

>>18710206
She let me use team viewer while she was at the store. I wanted to fix her router's connection. I got really bored while waiting, and I was thinking about going through her browser history just out of curiosity. I would have never snooped but it was just eating at me in that moment for some reason. I saw some pages she looked at, like other people's questions such as "how do i access the deep web?". I was like, uh, what? So I clicked on it, saw that she was alreasy signed in and decided to look through her questions. Most of it was standard stuff asking about anime, cosplays to wear, and then I noticed that question. It really just struck through me.

>>18710161

well i asked her if she wanted to be in a relationship, she said she wanted to take it slow because of her past, but i've already met one of her kids and she texts me all the time.

>>18710227
Hmm. I am not sure then. I guess you could start by apologizing for looking, and then continue on with the noticing the question. Might as well be honest, especially if it's really eating at you.

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>>18710190
Nah, you folks don't get to ignore this today.

Help me out.

>>18710246
I thought about saying "I'm sorry about this, but I needed to find a page I was looking for so I went through your history and noticed a question (the one about deep web) i got curious and clicked on it and noticed that you were signed in so I was curious to see what you asked. I only scrolled down a little bit and noticed this question regarding you bleeding after taking plan b. What happened?" Would you modify that or is that really the best I could do?

>>18709837
Any other ideas?

>>18710256
a tall gf? IDK man, go after tall women. Not that hard

>Be on okc
>Message qt
>She actually responds!
>Never replies again after that

What's the point?

>>18710259
It's such a bad idea to confront her about this. Is your goal to see whether or not she's taken? Do you not want to be with her if she's not a virgin? There are ways to figure these out that don't involve confronting her.

How are you in a stage where you've said "I love you" but aren't in a relationship? Are they serious "I love you"s or the complimenting kind that you say when somebody said something funny?

>>18710289
Yeah, but she has to look like that too.

berg

>>18710343
It's serious. I just don't really believe in online relationships. It would be so easy to meet up with her once I've had transportation and a good time to do that.

Even if she says yeah it happened or whatever, I wouldn't stop loving her or talking to her. I kind of just want to know, what happened? Just, why would she ask that? It is making me a bit upset, and I know it's very wrong to say anything about it. But why does it keep eating me up like this?

What kind of ways?

>>18709711
girls: is taking forever to reply on tinder part of your game? what the fuck

Guys:
What would be your reaction if a girl you had feelings for and were intimate with told you she no longer felt attracted to you?

>>18710415
What do you think? It's hurt, no doubt.
But honestly, you should break things off if you can't see yourself settling down with the guy. Don't say you no longer like him, though. Just say that you don't think the relationship can go anywhere or something. It's a bit easier to take. If he keeps pushing for a reason, then you can tell him.

This is why I advocate abstinence, so you can find "the one" without getting in too deep.

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>>18710415
Go to the next one. srs

>>18710351
Well, you need to determine what you are to each other. It sounds like that you want her to be monogamous. That would make you in a relationship. You can't just ask her to be on hold for you, not being with you, but not allowed to be with anyone else.
It's possible that she had sex with someone long in the past, and it's been haunting her about whether or not she was pregnant. It's possible it happened to her recently. It's possible she's asking for a friend. It's possible that she's asking for fact accuracy for a story she's writing. It's possible that she just wanted to troll.

The other ways are:

>"What are we to each other? What do we expect from each other? Are we monogamous?"
>"Are you sleeping with anyone right now?"
>"Have you ever had sex?"

Depending on what you want to know.

What's it mean when you get close with a girl, she tells you about her past, her secrets and you do the same, consider yourselves good friends, then after (x) months she just drifts away. Stays distant.

I don't know if I did something wrong.

Dated my best friend for a couple of months and then got dumped. I'm still in love with her, but thst just makes me feel like crap now. She still wants to hang out all the time, or talk on the phone for hours on end. She's going through a rough time and I honestly just want to support her but every time we talk it tears me up inside knowing I can't have our relationship back. I really enjoy spending time with her, more than anyone else I've ever met, but when I'm not spending time with her I just feel desperate and pathetic for having these kind of feelings for a girl who is no longer my gf. I really don't want to make her any more depressed right now by ending our friendship, but I think the best thing for me would be to avoid her for a very long time. Anyone got any advice on how to make both of us happy?

>>18710441
I'm just not confident in myself, for reasons, right now. So I don't want to make that leap. But knowing her, I just feel like that type of question is weird. I'm positive she wasn't trolling or anything. The answers in regard to her question were also serious. I don't really talk to her about any of this kind of stuff. We kind of flirt, but not sexually. We like each other, and that's a fact for sure. But I'm acting a little cold to her now because of this. I wish I never snooped now, but now I'm highly curious about that question. It just won't get out of my head, but I don't want to upset her somehow. That's the last thing I want. She told me she'd never hate me. But she has talked about people who snoop through her things, like her mother snooping through her phone. And she told me that she would hate to be with someone who does things like that, like you don't trust the person. But I guess that's a little unrelated to this situation? Because we aren't exactly dating or anything?

>>18710504
>But she has talked about people who snoop through her things, like her mother snooping through her phone. And she told me that she would hate to be with someone who does things like that, like you don't trust the person. But I guess that's a little unrelated to this situation? Because we aren't exactly dating or anything?
That's INCREDIBLY relevant, because she might not forgive you. Just because you're not dating doesn't mean that she won't be upset about you snooping. She isn't dating her mom, but she's upset about that.

Plus, if you want to be with her in the future, it could ruin your possibility of that. But maybe you should let her know, so that she knows that you're someone who will let the temptation "eating at [you] in [the] moment" compel you to snoop when you know she has strong feelings about it. Since she doesn't want to be with someone like that, it'd only be right for her to follow through with what she wants.

Ladies, who is your celebrity crush?

>>18710521
Alright then. So, I'll ask, and she will make the decision then. Right?

>>18710525
Michael Fassbender and Jason mamoa

>>18710529
As long as it includes an apology

>>18710543
I guess I'll tell you how it goes then.

>>18710525
Joe Manganiello but Jason is also a beautiful man. I love dark eyes and hair and body hair and muscles

So at college there is a girl a year below me who is very into me. She was cute so we began talking, leading us to have sex. After the second time she wasn't very into cuddling and left early in the morning. Even when we text/snapchat its almost awkward as if we don't know each other well and it seems like we are still playing games (she waits ~30 mins to reply, but always does). I've heard from friends she talks about me a lot/she gives me subtle touches sometimes. Is it:
1) She only wants to hook up with me for status (I am considered popular at my school)
2) She was interested at first, but is starting to lose interest
3) She doesn't want to seem too interested
4) We just aren't compatible

I think I need to keep talking to her but I don't want to waste either of our times.

>Sloot who I'm friends with tried to get me to kiss her last time I saw her
>Didn't take chance because didn't want to at the time
>Changed mind

How do I revist the opportunity of her wanting to jump my bones?

Does it constitute overthinking it to wonder why one of my close friends seems to ignore my texts? They'll open the app quite a few times before they actually respond and it makes me wonder if I'm at fault or if they're just missing the notification.
t. someone who never texted anyone before 3 months ago

>>18710589
>buy a 12 pack
>give 3 to sloot
>drink 6 right away
>drink 3 10 minutes each
>???
>profit

>>18710599
Next meetup was a planned arvo motorcycle ride. Was wondering if I could get her back to mine after.

What is the best way to tell if you're considered attractive? I have dated and hooked up with girls that were cute/pretty but for whatever reason (probably BDD and low self esteem combo) I feel like I'm ugly as fuck.

>>18710630
Well I mean hooking up with pretty girls seems like a pretty good way to tell you're attractive. You just gotta tell yourself you're good looking and good until you eventually believe it

>Don't like gf's family
>Don't hate them either, just more of a mutual toleration
>met them a few times, I see them at important events
>gf is always trying to drag me to shit with them recently fully knowing it's a pretty uncomfortable situation
>gets unreasonably upset when I don't want to

Why is she like this?

Like I've met them and I think I keep up the required amount of appearances. I don't see the issue. My gf has known for years I'm uncomfortable around them and don't really want to see them unless I have to. It's not like she's ever really pushed for it in the years we've been together either, it's a recent thing

I just don't understand why she's getting so upset. I see them a few times a year and she knows I'm not gonna hang out with them all the time. We already both agreed our parents' opinions have no bearing on our relationship too.

I get she wants me to like her family but I just don't. I'm with her, not with her family. She loves my parents and thet adore her, but I just don't have the same relationship with her parents. They probably don't want me to intrude on their nonimportant events, and I know I don't either.

Like she's getting upset to an unreasonable extent whenever I say "nah I don't want to go to that" - in nicer words of course. We're pretty open so yeah if she asks I flat out tell her I do not want to go.

>>18709711
Really bad at talking to girls, I'm never sure what to say. I come off as nice at first (also gay apparently), but then, according to girls I've dated, I become either really clingy or distant, and I never notice. So are there any signs to look for that I'm doing something wrong, and also,how can I not come off as gay, I guess

>>18710647
Sorry about that. Two of my dormmates usually peg when a guy's gay by their voice, effeminate looks, or sensitive and flamboyant attitude. Ironically neither of the guys they pegged as gay were actually gay....I was the only one who argued that they weren't, too.

Shaking off the gay vibe will be difficult. Maybe look at the ways in which gay guys have successfully made themselves seem straight? I'm not sure if acting like a Chad even works in reality.

>>18710644
It's probably that this is something important to her, and she may feel like you don't care about her enough to tolerate being around her family, even if it would mean a lot to her. Different people value different things, so what seems like a small issue for one person could be a big deal for another person, so we're left being like "what the fuck, this is not something to get so upset over." The problem with that is that that makes her feel like she's being crazy because you're not validating her feelings and supporting her. That being said, she should also be more mindful of how uncomfortable her family makes you

>>18710658
I have a moderately deep voice, but I do act a bit flamboyant. I do live in the south, and have a Midwestern accent. Could that be it?

>>18710543
Welp. She was raped.

Femanons please tell me how can I stimulate my gf's vagine by touching it.

During sex she was explaining me how to go but I wasn't paying attention because I had other things in mind...

I remember she explained how I should move my finger in the upper part and wait like 5 minutes before stimulating her clitoris.
How is this done?

>>18710685
Lol just talk to her dude. Find out what she likes. Some people like when the guy shoves three fingers up there as deep as he can, and some people's vaginas would literally tear if you tried to do that. Ask what she likes, do that, and then as you get more confident with what she likes you can start experimenting

>>18710692
All the girls I had sex with complained that I am too straightforward when I enter my fingers before it gets wet...

This is why I am asking.
I don't think there is any girl who likes it when you finger her cold.

>>18710701
So don't finger her cold! Draw it out. Kiss her, run your hand down her back, ask what her erogenous zones are or just experiment. Different girls have different preferences for what gets them wet. Act like you can do anything but finger her or fuck and go as long as you can doing other stuff, until it feels like you literally can't take it anymore

>>18710525
JGL

>>18710685
I have no idea what shes talking about. Just tell her you want to make sure you understand what she was asking for and have her explain it again. Every vagina is different so only she can tell you what feels good.

>>18710290

Please respond

Girls

What would you think if a guy didn't kiss you on the 2-3 dates?

Do guys when they are teenagers often jack off to porn together with their friends? Or is that just a meme?

Guys,

What are some excuses I can use to talk to you more?

>>18710830
Only secretly gay guys do that. And even then. no of course not. That's gay as hell.

why does my boy friend always say corva when we fuck? what the fuck does it mean? i tried google translating it but im spelling it wrong. hes from lithuania if that helps

>>18710904
Kurva xDDDD

>>18710910
thanks but that doesnt help me at all

If she's staring that's a good sign right?
Even if I catch her and she doesn't turn away?
We had eye contact for 2 whole seconds and she's very shy from what I can tell.
I feel like she could also be mad at me because i said something edgy about Muslims 2 years ago and her mail order bride mum is a Muslim oh and I managed to have a ONS with her friend so perhaps she's mad about that

>>18710923
It basically means, fuck. Kurwa is common in a few Slavic languages, like Polish too.

Girls, do you care about sleeping with a guy that's already in a relationship ? I mean if you're obviously interested in him sexually would that be a turn off to find out that he's with someone ? Would you be mad to find out afterwards ?

If I get a stranger's phone number, How much possibility is For me to date with them? I'm a man

>>18710946
hell yea id be mad I'm not a home wrecker or a side chick

>>18710938
thank you. he says it with a v sound not a w sound though

>>18710685
Well personally if a guy touches my clit and I'm not warmed up, it hurts. It doesn't actually feel good to havee direct clit stimulation until fully aroused which can take 10-40 minutes.

Try rubbing around the clit with your finger but not directly on it. Try just under it, in-between the inner labia etc.

>>18710830
>Or is that just a meme?
Yes. I'm a guy and I've never heard of it happening. It sounds gay.

>>18710946
Of course. I'd be incredibly pissed off.

>>18710971

Even if you only care about having sex with him ?

I mean in that chase there wouldn't be much cheating...

>>18709746
> Fuck me.
> Come inside me.
> Fuck my ass.
> I wanna suck your cock.

Always hot for me.

>>18710819
I would also like to know what the modern opinion is.
I'm guessing they would either assume you're not interested (if leftist/normie) or think you're being respectful and/or old-fashioned.
>>18710830
What the fuck?
>>18710958
The "W" in Balto-Slavic (and most Germanic) languages is prounounced like a v.

>>18710830
It's literally so outlandish that only extreme Christian hardliners making anti pornography videos will tell you it's real.

>>18710886
Say "I like talking to you." Being indirect with guys wI'll probably backfire.

>>18711005
>>18710990
>>18710965
>>18710889
>Not jacking it to porn with your best mate
My friend Andy had a thing for girls with braces. We never touched each other so it wasn't gay.

Girls, Have your bf ever cheated on you? How did you handle it??

>>18711015
no, anon, thats pretty gay

>>18710964
Thanks femanon
About how much time do you say I should rub it off around?

>>18710415
Hurt, I suppose. Then focus on my own shit. Hang out with friends, maybe work a bit harder on self improvement, talk to other women. I mean I understand the temptation of wallowing in your own piss after something like that but it's not going to help you out.

>>18710290
Dating is a numbers game, this is nothing new. She may have had a date that went well and decided to focus all of her attention on him, she may have decided to stop using the account for other reasons, who knows. All you can do is move forward and chat up the next gal.

Is saying to myfriend cringy, guys?

"Hey, I have a crush on you, do you want to date me?"

Because we spend a lot of time together, more than any of his other friends, so he knows me well enough to know if he does want to date me. I am also a girl by the way.

>>18711015
That's pretty gay dude.

Is there any girl in the world that doesn't like doggy style?
And what is it that makes you love this position above else?

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Urgent help needed.
So i was with my ex for 2 months. She broke up (clean) with me less than a week ago. The reason being that she doesnt feel anything for me as a partner but does LOVE me as a person/friend (wierd). In a week she will be visiting her family (who live in an 10 hour drive from here) for 25days. My question is, should I go out with her before she leaves? Or should I go for the "30 days no contact"? Also should I buy her some small gift so it reminds her of me? (She is my coworker and we see each other on daily basis.) Thanks.

Is it strange to bring girls home if you still live at home with your parents and family? I'm almost 23 and I still live at home, not entirely out of NEETness or anything, just for mainly financial and job reasons is why I'm still living at home.

My second question is would it be strange if a girl ever came into my room and it still has I guess you could say 'childhood' all over it still. Things like, king single bed, gaming consoles and my desk and gaming PC in a corner. I've got a shelf full of my old games as well as some figurines I've collected. Nothing weeb thankfully.

It won't be a while till I move anyway and it all depends on how well my new job goes also.

>>18711432
Jimmy

>>18711410
no contact, no gifts, no drama
remember: she's GONE. forever.

>>18711435
What?

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Guys, what do you think of girls with rough skin but otherwise nice features?

It always sort of depresses me because I have this idea that while girls like me are fuckable, they aren't datable.

>>18711448
...do you mean 'rough skin' literally or figuratively for something?

>>18711246
Don't tell him you have a crush, confessions are what awkward teens do. Just ask him on a date, have a time/day/activity in mind when you ask.

How do I confess my romantic feelings to a friend of mine? Some of my friends have told me I got green light, but I haven't been able to get much more intimate with her. We have spent a lot of time together lately and I have tried to be a bit more touchy but it really hasn't led anywhere. So I am thinking about just confessing my feelings to her and see if she accepts them or not.

So how do I do it? Invite her out for a walk and then just drop it on her? Or should I try to have a bit more patience, maybe wait for a specific sign? All help is appreciated

>>18711450
Meant physically, though I suppose figuratively does describe me too.

>>18711400
I don't like it especially - it hurts my back when we're going at it rough.

>>18711456
dont
actions, not words

>>18711448
What does the rough skin look like? Can you just use lotion?

>>18711467
As someone here said, invite her for a coffee? don't confess but rather try to do date-y stuff?

>>18711448
define rough cause that's being pretty vague. i know a girl with a bit of eczema on a parts of her body and a bit on her mouth but holy fuck I would smash her ass into oblivion just so that the hero of kvatch would come in and pull me out just so I could do it again.

Why are these threads filled with desperate lonely guys asking "femanons" about common sense advice?

>>18711497
4chan is a place for desperate lonely guys.

>>18711497
Because 4chan is a male dominated site and of those males there's a high concentration of autism.

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>>18711477
>lotion
I wish (and I have a full skincare regimen). It's solely the appearance of my face, which feels soft and smooth yet doesn't look it due to having mild-moderate acne as a teenager (I don't have pockmarks, but I do have red pigmentation left over on my chin/cheeks) and unprotected exposure to the skin too much in grade school. Not really a pleasant combination with my dark circles.

>>18711528
Red pigmentation isn't a problem. Heck, even pockmarks can be cute. You're just insecure.

>girl texts me out of nowhere
>Hey :)
>Hi!
>
>
>
>
>:/
Why do they text me and initiate a conversation out of nowhere with no actual planned conversation, and then get upset when I don't have anything to talk about

>>18711591
>only replying with a hey
You did it to yourself dipshit. Be the change you want to see.

So, do girls lie about being raped or over exaggerate it? Now that's bothering me. This girl says she was raped when she stayed over a friend's house. She came home sometime later and went to the hospital for the pill. She says she feels disgusted by it, or talking about it. But could she have really been raped?

>>18711615
You're missing the point, why is the onus on me to carry the conversation when they're the ones who initiated it

It's not just women who do this but they're definitely the worst offenders

>Be massive fatfuck as a kid + teen
>Lose a tonne of weight
>Now decently sized
>Turns out I have easily 7/10 face underneath flab
>Missed out on relationships and whatnot during fatfuck period
>Want grills

How do I go about making up for lost experience? Do I use tinder or some shit?

>>18711624
Some do, some don't.

>>18711624
False rape accusations are actually rather rare even if many anons meme about lying backstabbing bitches doing it to everyone and their mother, so yes, it's possible.

Girls, Have you ever hooked on a man?

>>18711624
It's all circumstantial.

Some do actually get raped while others either claim rape out of spite or regret.

>>18711689
Yeah, I did.

>>18711691
Why you did it? It's not your intention, Isn't it?

>>18711624
Very few rape accusations are false.

>>18711694
Because I wanted validation and affection. I was lonely and wanted someone to talk to, or I was feeling insecure and wanted someone to like me.
I didn't like them all that much as people, tho.

Wouldn't say I went into it with the thought "I'm going to make this guy fall for me, then leave and break his heart" but I knew I wasn't that interested to begin with.

>>18711705
you are a robot

>>18711705
So eventually How did you break up relationship between you and them? Did they notice they were on the hook?

>>18710190
She only looks good in that webm. I fell in love with her on /fit/. Perfect tall girl height 5'10, still got ass/tits while being tall. Everything was perfect. But she look way better in the webm than on pictures.

>>18711706
Not really. I wasn't in a great place mentally.
Plus once you know how to seduce a guy it gets quite addicting, the feeling you get in the first few weeks of a relationship is better than anything.

>>18711710
Ghosted a few, rejected some others, talked to some others and told them I wasn't as into them as I thought I was/we weren't a good match.
Weirdly became best friends with one of them? I don't know.

>>18711714
okay bot

>>18711724
Is it supposed to be an insult or something?

Girls, What do you think of three some??

Girls, do you mind being approached directly on campus?

>>18711728
does it matter? you are mindless

>>18711730
Never. I'm too possessive for it.
>>18711731
No.

>>18711730
Would never do it, I don't like sharing.

>>18711731
Depends. In general, no.

Girls, what does it mean when she said she likes me but wants to take it slow than completely fucking ignores me like the plague

>>18711732
You don't even know me.

>>18711741
yet i just described you easily

>>18711738
You know what that means

>>18711742
No, you just decided that I am a horrible, emotionless person because I did something bad at some point of my life. Which is dumb.
Which is rather dumb.

Girls, Have you ever been hooked by a man?

and you enjoy it

The girl i like is attracted to a friend of her. How can i conquer her ?

I've met this guy on a party, he's a good friend of one of my closest mates. I'm sure he also has a crush on me, we've been chatting almost everyday for about a month, exchanging vlogs on snapchat etc. I've invited him for a drink this week, but also my best friend is throwing a party on Saturday and she's gonna invite him too. Should we meet alone before the party (probably on Friday) or is it too much?

How can i take a woman who has a bf?

>>18711762
Imagine a situation: you really like this model girl, who also happens to be interested in arts, and wow, unbelievable but she is friendly to you. However, there is also a plain girl, who is not really anything special and boring, wants to try a date with you and asks her friends "How can I conquer him?". So what, you think the plainer girl would get some magical advice, which would turn you away from the first girl?
>>18711784
>Should we meet alone before the party (probably on Friday) or is it too much?
I dont think you decide here. Or were you actually going to invite him?

>>18710685
Talk to her man. You're lucky to have a lady who is confident enough to talk about it, most women suffer in silence.
Have her talk you through it, she knows what she likes.

>>18711788
Be better than him and make her feel like it could be a long-term thing. And if she falls for that, at least pretend to have a relationship and dont leave her all alone with no boyfriend at all.

>>18711497
Because if us lonely guys had common sense when it comes to women we would not be here.

>>18711762
>>18711788

Sometimes people aren't into you. That's not bad. But being so reluctant to accept it is not that attractive.

Girls

If I'm going to start dating a girl, when and how should I tell her that I've never had a girlfriend before, so I don't know anything about dating or sex?

>>18711793

I think Anon meant question about health or sorting your life out. You know, stuff that has nothing to do with genders.

Girls, What do you think of virgin boy??

>>18711801
>Girls, What do you think of virgin boy??
Depends on their age. If they are old (25+) I wonder if there's something majorly wrong about them. But, in generally, it isn't a dealbreaker.

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>>18710525
My current favourite is Hugh Dancy but alltime faves are Young Christopher Walken and Robert Sheehan.

Who do you crush on?

>>18711615

Fucking ENOUGH with this women can do no wrong bullshit. SHE started the conversation, how the fuck is it his fault? They even do this shit with real life phone calls

>phone rings
>"Hey :)!"
>Oh hey
>"What's up?"
>Not much
>"What do you mean not much?"
>The fuck? You called *me*

It makes no sense

>>18711591
>>18711811

Why does it matter so much? Stop talking to this girl, then. Problem solved.

>>18711804

I'm 27, virgin. Basically for me it amounts to:

1. I didn't want to risk having a child before I was ready.
2. I haven't found the right person.
3. Traditional values dictates that I just don't jump into bed with anyone; I'd like to date someone at least 3-6 months before making that jump.

I've turned opportunities from sluts because I wasn't comfortable with the concept.

>>18711814
>3-6 months
This is why you're a virgin. You haven't been able to get rid of teenager thinking. Adults don't do this kind of dumb waiting.

>>18711817

I need enough time to do a proper background check on you, make sure you aren't ridden with AIDS, check your credit score, etc.

>>18711819
>check your credit score

I'm not that girl, but that's so funny! Dude, being a virgin is no big deal, but you are paranoid on top of that.

Girls, how would you feel if your bf started walking around naked/in underwear while at home together?

If you're not in that situation, assume it's your own place, without roommates or parents

>>18711814
>>18711817

>>18711804 is right. There's something wrong with you.

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K adv, you've been good to me so far.

Quick recap:
>shy girl expresses interest in hanging out with me
>100% not me but for some reason i agree
>we hang out (thanks adv!)
>it wasn't bad at all, in fact it was enjoyable
>continues
>"dating" though not 100% clear on intentions
>after awhile we talk about stuff (thanks adv!)
>becomes very clear we are both into each other
>continue hanging out/dating (thanks adv!)
>have initially awkward cuddle/makeout session but ends great

which leads me to today!
so far in this relationship i've been very beta. doing shit like asking if you're comfortable with X or what can i do to make you less nervous etc. in my mind i'm trying to be respectful and from my perspective if someone who you're really into is doing stuff that isn't just completely out there, you're also going to be into it, and the surprise of it happening would be nice instead of always knowing what to expect because they've asked you if its going to be ok, so i'm not sure that it good or even necessary to do so.

adv, what are you thoughts on "surprise" interactions? ladies, enjoy your dude just suddenly initiating a long smooch? dudes, positive/negative reactions from doing something similar?

thanks adv.

>>18711817

>Adults don't do this kind of dumb waiting.

And what exactly do late twenties and thirties adults do?

>>18711814
>1. I didn't want to risk having a child before I was ready.
>2. I haven't found the right person.
>3. Traditional values dictates that I just don't jump into bed with anyone

It makes sense. Honestly of all these, the one that concerns me most is that you haven't found a person you liked in 27 years.

>>18711829
They fuck as soon as both wants it
They don't forget themselves to wait

>>18711828

So far, she seems to like the way you conduct yourself, doesn't she?

But as I always say: "Asking" is not just asking. Grab her by the waist from the back and kiss her shoulder/neck. Not a full hug or anything that would be hard to shake off. Just hands on hips and a kiss. That's an spontaneous show of affection that can escalate if she is interested.

The idea is to not be forceful (especially is she is shy) because you are asking, not demanding, attention.

>>18711833
They don't force* themselves

>>18711833

Well what if I want to wait

>>18711841
Thinking "I'll wait" means that you thought "I want to fuck her" first
You don't actually want to wait since you already want to fuck, you're just lying to yourself

>>18711834
yea so far so good and again i feel like i could just ask her like i want to be more spontaneous with you because i think you would like it but i also don't want to make you uncomfortable etc and she might tell me but that kinda defeats the surprise of it. i do like the advice of some little things i could do that gives her an out if shes not into it but could escalate if she is.

>>18710597
I think you know the harsh truth already...

>>18711832

Add in close to four years overseas shooting at Afghans. ;)

>>18711847

As long as your motto is "Asking, not demanding", you should be fine with surprising her a bit.

Also, be cool if she shrugs you off. This is not about guilting her into shit.

>>18711845

You wouldn't say that if I was a girl. So stop with the double standard already.

I'd want to wait a month or so, to see if this girl actually likes me. Or if she's a ho who just wants sex

>>18711850

Where you deployed in 2011-2012?

>>18711853
>You wouldn't say that if I was a girl. So stop with the double standard already
I would say exactly the same thing.

>>18711850
Boyfriend is one year older than you and spent a few year shooting at Afghans as well, but had a couple of long-ish relationship before me anyway.

>>18711859

Just because you want something doesn't mean you should do it.

A fatass fuck might badly want to stuff his face with chocolate cake. But he shouldn't do it

>>18711873
>Just because you want something doesn't mean you should do it.
That's true but that's not the subject of this discussion.
Just say you want to keep being a virgin instead of moving the goalposts

>>18711869

Not him, but this probably relates

>never dated in high school (depression)
>went into military
>huge confidence boost
>get stationed in central Alaska
>no qts to be found
>spend year in afghanland
>return to Alaska
>get out of the military after 5 years
>struggling trying to find myself for a few years
>start to establish and follow a good life path and goal
>now, be me at 27
>used to being single, knows virtually nothing about dating/sex.

>>18711853
Nah ignore that dude. I'm similar, turned down opportunities cause I'm not about the one night stands, found a girl I loved and we were both virgins at the start. Been together 4 and a half years now. There's nothing wrong with sticking to your values, and I don't know why anyone would be so persistent in trying to make you give them up.

>>18711878

I'm not the op. I lost my VCard 6 years ago. But it was just the 1 time, and if anything that made me more insecure than before.

I want to wait a while before having sex again

>>18711888
Dude, read the whole reply chain before answering
Because you just missed my point

>>18711895
But I did read the whole thing...its just you saying adults don't wait and he should give up on waiting and fuck as soon as both want it, but he wants to wait...so he doesn't want it...I would also argue that him saying he wants to wait doesn't mean he's thought about fucking a specific girl but has that as a general rule for every girl

>>18711885
I don't think it is necessarily a negative, but as you can understand I'd be concerned if someone told me that in 27 years he never met someone they clicked with or managed to keep a healthy, long term relationship.

If you explained to me what happened, I think I'd understand and try to help you figure things out and such, especially if you were improving consistently.

Would you drop a new boyfriend/girlfriend was conveniently "sick" when it came time for you to move to another apartment?

>>18711903

>If you explained to me what happened

When should this conversation happen?

>>18711902
I think you should clear up your mind an rewrite this with some spacing

>>18711910

If this is the whole reason you have to drop someone, then no. I sense a deeper issue, though, if you assume they'd fake illness to avoid helping you.

>>18711432
Hey anon. I'm a 23 y/o NEET (well I have a degree but I'm not in school anymore). I'm seeing a girl and originally we were sneaking around but kind of gave up and she met my mom and such. She came over a few days ago and said hello to her then we went and hung out in my room. I think it depends on your family situation. I still feel weird about it (like I should be prioritizing other things instead of this), but I think my mom is worried about me and this makes her happy for me, she's the best.

On the room thing it depends on the girl. If she's a gamer grill she probably won't care about that stuff. I'd clean it up and organize it (dust, vacuum, actually clean not just move stuff). I'd get rid of most of the childhood things in general. But I moved in between places a lot so I never really had one room.

>>18711912
As soon as we start to become serious.

Do you guys actually see female friends aa friends?

>>18711913
It seems readable enough to me...is there a particular part you're unable to understand?

>>18711924
It depends on which female friend we're talking about
I consider most of mine like just friends but two of them are a bit more to me

>>18711923

But wouldn't you become suspicious right away?

I don't know how to kiss/make out, I've never held hands or cuddled before. So I'm sure any awkwardness would be obvious

>>18711924

Yes, with the exception of 1. But I know we'll never have anything past friendship.

>>18711913
NIce argument

>>18711926
>It seems readable enough to me...
Obviously, since you wrote it
>is there a particular part you're unable to understand?
>so he doesn't want it...
This is unclear
>I would also argue that him saying he wants to wait doesn't mean he's thought about fucking a specific girl but has that as a general rule for every girl
I don't get your point here

>>18711924
If we are friends. There can always be that attraction aspect and I was originally close friends with my now girlfriend, but I've maintained friendships with other girls.

>>18711930
I don't know, basically all my first kisses were awkward anyway.

>>18711932
>NIce argument
I can't answer something I don't understand

>>18711935

Yeah but they were probably with guys who at least knew what they were doing.

I literally have no idea

>>18711929
>>18711931
>>18711934
Wait no, I meant it in another way
Do you act the same way around female friends as you would with any other male friend or do you hold back in some way because they're women?

>>18711940
Kidding and cuddling is pretty much instinctive. Just don't make-out directly

>>18711940
It's kind of intuitive. It's not like you will stick your tongue in her ear or something.

In my opinion, this kind of thing comes kind of natural to most.

>>18711944

Oh, yeah I act different. I say nigger I front of my friends, I won't say that in front of a girl

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>>18711924
lol of course not. I'm not memeing or shitposting either.

It's value-fuck investing at best. If we knew 100% (100%) that there was no sex on the table, we would not be friends with you.

It just is what it is.

>>18711924

Yeah, I do. I might be open to dating a lot of them, afger all I like them as people (mostly) but I'm not going to read into everything they do. I have missed hints of interest more than once just because I already thought of them as friends.

>>18711944
>Do you act the same way around female friends as you would with any other male friend or do you hold back in some way because they're women?
Not at all.
I'm not going to grab my female friend ass, it would be too weird
Much less innuendos in my speech too

>>18711946
>>18711947

I have a hard time believing that

>>18711940
if you're into each other literally does not matter. part of the fun is figuring out what she/he likes.

>>18711952
>I have a hard time believing that
Because you are a kissless virgin

>>18711933
>I would also argue that him saying he wants to wait doesn't mean he's thought about fucking a specific girl but has that as a general rule for every girl

That part was a response to your message stating

>Thinking "I'll wait" means that you thought "I want to fuck her" first
You don't actually want to wait since you already want to fuck, you're just lying to yourself

My interpretation of him saying

>3. Traditional values dictates that I just don't jump into bed with anyone; I'd like to date someone at least 3-6 months before making that jump

Is that he wants to wait no matter who it is, not that he is talking about wanting to wait for a specific girl who he has already thought about fucking.

>>18711955

I don't know. If I was dating a girl, im sure my overall awkwardness would be painfully obvious.

Think about it. Majority of people start dating at 16 years old. I'm 27. So there is an 11 year gap of inexperience. I know as much as a 16 year old when it comes to all of this shit. All I know is what the internet and other people say about it. The girl is going to think I'm clueless

>>18711960
>Is that he wants to wait no matter who it is, not that he is talking about wanting to wait for a specific girl who he has already thought about fucking.
Well, obviously that's what he meant

>>18711962
Yes. You are clueless. But, it doesn't matter all that much.

During the honeymoon phase, flaws are endearing. You'll learn to fuck before the honeymoon phases ends.

>>18711968

But I want to wait a few months before having sex..

>>18711965
That's why this post

>Thinking "I'll wait" means that you thought "I want to fuck her" first
You don't actually want to wait since you already want to fuck, you're just lying to yourself

Confused me

>>18711914
Things were good to go when I talked to him a couple days prior. Morning of I get a text saying sorry can't make it, not feeling good. Next day he's fine and "recovering"

I know if I had asked the same of my ex, he'd of showed up with his buds even if he was bed ridden with the flu or hungover as fuck

I know comparing the two doesn't help..

>>18711973
There's a difference between thinking "When I get a GF, I will wait before having sex" and what actually happen while in a relationship
If you don't take your mate's needs and wills in consideration during your relationship, it will not end well.

>>18711962
There's only one way to fix this. It's hard to not worry about it, I know that, but you have to remember if a girl starts dating you it's because SHE LIKES YOU. That's awesome and while some people may be weirded out by it most I don't think would care too much, they already like you.

>>18711976

Again I ask: is this the only problem between you two?

>>18711972
>But I want to wait a few months before having sex..
Things will be different when you'll be in a relationship.

>>18711962
1. you are not the only person to have not dated for such a long time.
2. everyone (with probably some very small exceptions) has this experience when they are new hence they will understand if they are experienced themselves.
3. someone will find it adorable if you are clueless. which is not a bad thing as long as you improve which you will with experience.

>>18711987
I can attest to the third one. My current boyfriend was a virgin when I met him, I wasn't. It was so cute when I could feel him trembling slightly from nervousness at one point. Also he kept having this adorable blush on his face that I will never, ever take out of the spank bank, and he's usually pretty calm and collected so I also felt really special to be able to make him feel so flustered

>>18711984
So far? Only two months in at this point

>>18711995

That's not an answer to my question.

>>18711822
I guess there's no girl here today

>>18711991
I wish I was attractive enough to make me being a virgin a positive thing.

>>18712009
What do you feel is wrong with your appearance?

>>18711991

That sounds embarassing to me... I'd be humiliated, being a 27 year old man who's shaking like a nervous wreck as he's about to be lewd with a girl. That literally sounds like a 16 year old.

>>18712016
you literally are a 16 year old when it comes to experience. fucking get over and get that experience holy shit you faggot you're not special everyone had to do this you just took longer, you want to get better put in the fucking work.

>>18712022

Well you obviously can't relate to how it feels. It's emasculating to even think about.

>>18712025
You're a pussy. Be an adult, you're 27

>>18712025

I'm not that dude, but really, what's your solution? You know you have no experience and it will show, so what? Get on with a nice person and you'll be fine.

Doing nothing won't solve the problem.

>>18712016
I would be sad if my boyfriend felt humiliated just because he was nervous and feeling like something really special and meaningful was happening. It made the experience more meaningful to me than if he'd faked confidence and put on an act. He was real with me, and that realness is one of the reasons I love him. We've been together over 6 years now, and I've never once thought of him as inferior or embarrassing just because he was a virgin when I met him. Granted, he wasn't your age, but I hope you can get to a place where you appreciate a partner that can appreciate you being real and vulnerable. I'd take a shaking nervous wreck over a cocky faker doing a few tricks he saw from porn any day.

>>18712011
Not masculine enough, ugly smile. I used to be too skinny but I fixed that.

>>18712033
Why do you feel you're not masculine enough? And what's up with your smile?

>>18712033
I'm a 21 year old skeleton and I have more confidence than you
I thought all soldiers had balls

>>18711991
Poor guy fell for a slut.

>>18712035
Weak chin maybe, it's hard to tell but I'm invisible to girls
>>18712037
I guess you are right

>>18712038

Why is she a slut

>>18712025
i was in the EXACT same situation as you 3 months ago except i'm 30. i can fucking relate.

>>18712040
>I guess you are right
Yes, I am
Start thinking with your second brain, it doesn't bother with insecurities

>>18712045

and what did you do?

>>18712042
Well, she's implying that the guy was a virgin and she wasn't.

>>18712042
She's not, that other Anon is just jealous of her bf

>>18712052
And that's a problem because?

>>18712056
Just saying that the guy should have gotten himself a virgin gf.

>>18712058

>implying they exist past the age of 21

>>18712058
Why?

>>18712047
How so

>>18712058
He had problem getting any girl at all, I doubt he was in the position to be all that picky - especially if he was older, as there aren't many 21+ year old virgins.

Besides, a lot of people don't especially care.

>>18712062
Because he was a virgin himself. Are you retarded?

>>18712066
I still don't get your point.

>>18712040
Why do you think you're invisible to girls? And do you think there are self-esteem issues possibly making you feel like you're worse off than you actually are?

>>18712052
I'm sorry you feel that people who've had sex prior to their current partner, regardless of their situation, are inferior human beings. I hope you learn to rely more on your empathy that I know is inside you, instead of being so quick to judge. Assumptions, especially negative ones, only keep you emotionally distant from other human beings and prevent your ability to connect with them on a deep level.

>>18712042
He's hurt. We're all hurt here. Oftentimes when people lash out, it's like when your dog snaps at you and you want to get mad, but then you realize he only snapped at you because you accidentally touched a very painful wound. I'm not suggesting he's as dumb as a dog, it's just a helpful way for me to view people's reactions

>>18712005
Try to ask less retarded questions.
Also it all depends on who you live with. But my guess is nobody wants to live with you yet, right?

>>18711924
>female and male
>friendship
No. You are all "backup gfs" or tools to meet future gf.

>>18712050

i posted on fucking adv. took the advice. and am currently enjoying my first semi-serious relationship where she has some experience and i do not but am eagerly gaining it.

see:
>>18711828

>>18712084
>But my guess is nobody wants to live with you yet, right?
Wrong, I spend my weekend at my GF place

>No. You are all "backup gfs" or tools to meet future gf.
Oh sorry, I thought you were a decent human being

>>18711822
Naked is weird. In underwear is sexy.
I actually get horny as fuck when I see my boyfriend cooking breakfast in boxers.

>>18712088

How old is she?

>>18712070
I'm a 25 year old virgin, I confess i have serious mental blocks when it comes to women, or at least to be more forward, I stutter, blush and I certainly wouldn't know what to do in case some of them liked me.

>>18712098
Between 18 and 60.

My boyfriend said I'm too feminine and girly. What does that mean and why is it even a problem? I'm generally independent and just like dressing girly/doing some girly stuff. I tried asking him but he says he doesn't know how to put it.

>>18712129
Is he 16?
>doesnt know how to put it
Scratch that, he is mentally stuck at 14. Make him read >>>/lit/erature so hopefully in the next few years he will be able to express himself.

>>18712129
He's fraid you are too provocative and other men will steal you from him.

how do i put benis in bagina

>>18709746
>Cum in me
>I want your cum
>Your cock validates my existance
Act like the cock is a drug and you need more or it and what it gives, then describe it in graphic detail
>Don't listen to 99% of porn dirty talk, its shit teir talk from shit teir wanna be actresses.
>Phonex marie is an exception
>Make him feel like he is the man
>Beg for him

how do i finger my gf properly

i feel pretty clumsy, is there a proper way to do it or what, any pointers?

Girls, What do you think of manlet??

>>18712192
>>your cock validates my existence
The day a girl says this to me will be the day I decide to marry her

>>18712216
ask her.

>>18709875
Really??

Girls, What's your honest opinion on anal sex?

My girlfriend is insecure about her looks. I don't think she has what most people would call.. classic beauty, but shes fucking drop dead gorgeous to me. Problem is, I tell her this but I don't know if she doesn't believe me or is just conditioned from others so that she can't see it herself or what, but I want to help her feel beautiful the way that I see her. Other than paying specific compliments (i really like X because Y) any tips?

is it normal to not want a boyfriend at 19?

i'm in a really hard fashion program in college and it consumes all of my extra free time when i'm not doing chores/eating/hanging with friends

what sucks is i want sex really bad but don't really want to hookup because

1. don't wanna be a roastie
2. only like having sex if i know the person well


i get confused when i see couples happy together because it makes me jealous but at the same time i don't want to date so i don't know what the fuck my problem is. i think i just miss my ex (we dated 2 years in high school)

>>18712216
Palm up. Middle and index finger in. Make a "come here" motion.

>>18712332
It's not weird if you don't want a boyfriend when you have such a packed schedule, you just can't seem to decide if you do want one or not.

>>18712248
Not a girl, but ask yourself the same question, would you want to get fucked in the ass? Why or why not? Worth the prep time to you? If your girl really wanted to fuck your ass would you let her because you knew it meant a lot to you?

Multiple layers of questions simply means some people will be down, some people won't, and you won't know till you ask.

>>18711924
Yes, though at some cases drawing the line between friend and potential girlfriend can be hard. For example I've known one girl for over 10 years and we've been in good terms all that time. Still occasionally I found myself staring her figure in that specific way or throwing extremely subtle hints out of nowhere.

>>18711962
Don't care so much man

>>18712009
Being a virgin is never positive

I often have suicidal thoughts and tendencies and have attempted suicide before.
I'm always torn when thinking about it because I'd feel so terrible if I were to emotionally damage my gf because of my problems but I also don't want to break up with her just to give myself the freedom and spare her the sadness.
I'm already seeing a counsellor but I want to plan for the long term, what should I do?