I'm not prepared to know that someone i love died. Just imagining my mom or my sister going away would bring tears to my eyes, it hurts just imagining it. How do i prepare myself in case it happened?
You don't. Just be a good person to the people you love. One day it will happen, and on that day you'll want to have nice memories, not regrets.
>>18708632
Death is inevitable and it will happen to everyone at some point. Therefore, worrying about it beforehand is pointless. If it happens you'll grieve, miss the person you lost and carry on. There are no other options. My sister died this summer after illnesses, so I can relate to your worry, but death itself isn't awful, it's just a fact of life. The dead are fine, so the tears are for the living and ultimately just self-pity.
>>18708637
It's a really liberating feeling to fully understand and accept this. I've been through a family death that happened far earlier than I would have expected.
You won't ever be ready for the first time a loved one dies, but I think after the first one it really changes your outlook on life just like this guy said. Just be good to the people who care about you and love you. Understand the value of the time you have with them now and cherish all the memories you have.
Don't murder your mother or sister and you won't have to worry op duh