Realtionship Advice - How to sex the BF

Tell him if he doesn't have sex with you you'll tell the police he raped you

Find out what porn he likes and watchesif it's any fantasy stuff role play it it'll be easy if it's any dominant female stuff.

tell him you're horny and getting yourself off isn't satisfying enough and you need him to fuck you. have an actual discussion about it with him. tell him it makes you frustrated and feel like he's not attracted to you (if it does. just speaking from my own experience here)

>>18708481
Talk to him, what does it feel like when he touches you, what kind of stuff do you want him to do to you. Also listen to him what he likes. Instan feedback is also good, when you do something he needs to know right then he's doing great.

>>18708553
His porn is either pretty vanilla or furry stuff, so no luck there.
>>18708561
>>18708577
This is the thing. I did and that didn't work.... He always tells me I'm attractive (I know I'm not his type though), he's just not in the mood.

I feel for you, my last sexual relationship with my gf is 18 months old.
I had a discussion with her that the rythm of our sexual relationships doesn't suit me, I pass as sexually obsessed every time. She's never in the mood, she hasn't waxed, we'll see tomorrow, all that stuff.

I hope you can fix it but I'm afraid it might worsen.
His depression, if uncured, will worsen if you both fight.

If you're still young and it doesn't work, don't make the same mistake I did, run.
It's easier to find someone who's not broken than to fix someone.

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>>18708481
Stress and depression are a massive killer of the ol' sex drive. Maybe a holiday? A romantic getaway, somewhere to recharge the batteries? Depression is not an easy fix, I'm not a professional. Maybe something more indirect? Go out, start a hobby together, something fun, exciting. To counteract the self consciousness he has to develop confidence. Exercise, trying new things worked for me. Maybe buy him some clothes and tell him he looks so good you just want to rip them off him. Don't ever, ever mention his small dick, don't even mention size. Just tell him you like it, sometimes you can't help thinking about it, maybe it gets you wet in class idk. If talking
dirty doesn't work and it sounds like it doesn't and neither does physical acts then you have to focus on his mental state. Again not a professional, doubt anyone here is so maybe he should talk to one.

>>18708706
Couples councelng?

>>18708820
I would have advised this to OP it were a long relationship, i.e. 7 or 8 years. Sometimes the counceling lasts for years before you see an improvement.

If less than that, the emotional investment might be better to suck it up and put an end to it, if all "reasonible" things fail. Your definition of reasonible.

For me, the guy has to cure his depression (may be work related) and you have to find time for yourselves away from chores, studying, family or other stuff.

My gf masturbating next to me in the bed would be a huge turn-on, even if it's only eating her out.

If you let too much time pass by, the "desexualization" stage might kick in, where you are not exctied anymore by the partner. Personnally I'm at this stage.

>lol you give advice you do not follow

My relationship is 11 years old and we both had depression related to work. I'm sick and tired of asking for sex and I prefer wanking alone than begging for what should be normal in a normall relationship.