Once in a while on /adv/, some anons who are pros with Tinder will outline their MO and tips about how they go about Tinder.
I'm hoping to get some such advice as today I just matched with a girl. So far it's been going fine and I'm confident I can get to meetup stage. But I'd like to know experienced anons' input on best practices, etc.
Things I've done so far:
-Decent quality pics (no selfies; indirectly demonstrate desirable qualities, etc)
-Simple, fun bio; generally no 'tryhardness'
-Unique opening message
-Not terribly invested (genuinely. I don't particularly care if this goes anywhere or not; I'd just like to see how far i can get)
The meetup stage and beyond is somewhat unknown to me and where i'll need the most help I reckon
bumpo
Bumpin for ya. Been swiping for a few days now and havent got much.
Girls flake. A lot.
I've just started a couple weeks ago, got like 5 numbers but these girls just ghost like its nothing.
Had 3 dates set up and ended up going on none. One was a legit excuse though.
Just be ready for rejection. It's part of the app. Even the hottest guy probabaly has a 10 or 15% hook up chance which really isnt much.
>>18708163
Yeah, I am aware of how even less than average girls are positively flooded with matches/messages. It's partly why I'm so non-attached to any outcome here. Good reminder though
I have been very successful on tinder. I've had it for about 1 year and slept with 16 girls there.
Your advices are good. Here are some more.
>have a first pic you use in social media where everyone says you look hot in
>have the next pics with friends and have an easy going vibe
>have the last pic something cool like a safari
>a laid back bio as you said
>don't do pick up lines, just lead noting something playful noting her bio or pics
>get her phone number after a bit of chatting on the same day
>arrange a date the day after
>invite her to a nice restaurant then fancy bar then your place
>make sure not to come too early during sex
>>18708194
>>invite her to a nice restaurant then fancy bar then your place
Now this could be a problem, as I recently moved back to my parents' place, where I can't be bringing girls back to.
I'm hoping that the girls with either have their own places or at least a room where we can fuck. Not sure how to deal with this though.
>>18708239
>as I recently moved back to my parents' place
Yeah that's definitely a problem.
How about you get your own place? Living with your parents makes you look bad for lots of girls
>>18708267
Yeah I'll be looking to move back out in about 6 weeks. This is just temporary
Would girls react badly to being invited to a hotel room? Or will that make them feel like a hooker
>>18708290
>Would girls react badly to being invited to a hotel room? Or will that make them feel like a hooker
Yes
>>18708290
Unless you're from out of town and legitimately staying in a hotel room, don't invite girls to a hotel room like that.
>>18707964
Ask again on /soc/ this is a recurring theme there.
>>18708383
>>18708405
My house is ~35km away from where i'll be meeting girls, in a different town. But I commute every day, so a hotel room may not be easily excused. On the other hand, It's not *inconceivable*.in this scenario..
But thanks for the firm direction.
>>18708411
>Ask again on /soc/ this is a recurring theme there.
Hm, that's actually a great idea. Thanks, anon
>>18708239
Cant speak for myself, but this is an issue for my friends so they just do it in their car. Can be kind of a spontaneous thing i suppose, wont work for everyone tho.
>tinder
kys godless cuck
Glad you made this thread OP. So ive been matched with some girls and messaged one, and finally I got a reply. We've been talking but she always replies really late, like hours after. Her replies don't hint she is uninterested but idk why she replies so late. Also, how can I spice up the convo?