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Common signs of abuse 2017-09-09 10:39:08 Post No. 18705439
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How can I tell if someone was abused as a kid?
He's from a single mother household but said mother strikes me as an overachieving and very successful woman.
He likes me because, looks wise, I'm small and slender (people often think I'm way younger than I am)
He's amazing with kids but often feels uncomfortable around them. Especially girls and especially my youngest sister who adores him.
I showed him a few young instagram models and asked him to honestly rate them. He went on for ages about the morality but finally admitted he finds them stunning.
He'd never had a relationship last longer than 3 months efore we started seeing eachother
He hates anime because he says the characters look like "babies with tits"
I saw some art he did as a kid and it was a guy getting his private parts fiddled with by two monsters(?!?!?!)
Would any of you guys see any of that as a red flag? I might be trying to find something wrong with him but I feel it might be something he hides from himself too... After all it seems like his mom has sort of hero status in their family.
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>>18705439
one of the biggest redflags here is that he's both good with kids yet finds dealing with him uncomfortable .
probably because he heard about the fact that most child molesters have been molested at childhood .
he likes you because you look like jailbait, it couldn't be more obvious .
the young instagram models thing prove that he's rationalized through morality that finding children attractive is wrong.
thats a red flag.
3 months are probably due to the fact that whatever he's hiding good/bad emerged (don't take my word for it)
anime sexualizes children quite often, and according to his "Moral" code that makes anime deplorable .
the art stuff are more than sufficient proof of molestation .
but OP, i'm proud of you for taking second opinions .
there is this channel about male molestation victims , it has a lot darker and clearer shit than some anonymous .
https://www.youtube.com/user/SurvivorsUK/videos
watch them and judge for yourself.
Finally:
first thing to do when you meet him, ask him about his childhood.
if he was molested he'll probably tell you .
then it's up to you to keep the relationship or break it .
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>>18705472
x.x jesus christ
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