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My girlfriend has Borderline Personality Disorder. I learned

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My girlfriend has Borderline Personality Disorder. I learned this one month after our relationship. I need some advice.
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Stay the fuck away from crazy women, idiot
>Borderline personality disorder
>Bi polar
>Polyamorious
I feel like they are just trying to find a nice way to classify crazy sluts now a days as shaming is wrong for some reason nobody can explain
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>>18704937
imagine being this retarded
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Imagine being retarded enough to date a chick who has openly admitted to being crazy
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Did she tell you she has BPD or do you just think she's showing symptoms of it? Because its easy to see false positives with women
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You can take this opportunity to reexamine or examine for the first time if you haven't already, what you want out of this relationship with her and weigh that against all the cons of her fucked up head.

If she got gud succ &likes being around you, I'd say roll with it.

don't b ungrateful.
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>>18704954
She told me openly about it. She says she is much better than 3 years ago and is trying everything to get better. She's going to therapy and we're thinking about also doing therapy together. Until now her episodes haven't hurt me much because I understand her situation and just be patient about it, and it's actually feels very rewarding if she comes to her senses afterwards. Also she said she would understand if I ended the relationship if I couldn't handle it, but we have been in love with each other for a year and I don't even want to think about breaking up.
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>>18704979
Not the other guy, but my recent ex girlfriend was Bi polar and she wasn't willing to work on it so I ended it. We had gone out for almost two years. If she is working on it as you say, then by all means continue, but be careful, as they can be quite manipulative!
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All of you young idiots have no idea how much women truely have over you and you un ironically think it's not that big of a deal to stick your dick in crazy. You'll learn. Might take you fighting a bullshit domestic, might take you a few slashed tires, bricks through the window, dead animals in your mail box, but you will learn
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>>18704990
I'm going to try to do my best and I feel hopeful about it.
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Yes, because serious mental illnesses just get better with time. Crazy. Woman. You. Dumb. Fuck. *Danger Will Robinson, danger danger*
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Your way over your head. I just broke up with my girlfriend who has symptoms and signs of borderline personality disorder . She would have episodes where she would yell so much and loud she would start foaming at the mouth. She then would start hurting herself by banging her head on the wall. One time I try to stop her from doing that, and she headbutted me right im jaw and I bit a little chunk of my tongue off. Right now she's holding me hostage because she said she's pregnant but she's lied about being pregnant before. She then told me she's been trying to get pregnant behind my back by rubbing my come in her pussy. And like a fool I kept going back to that broke up with her three times within three months . It was out of desperation for me because I had gone seven years without any sexual relationship. Good luck but I would run.
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run
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>>18704947
luckily you don't have to
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Man, you're in for some shit.

My ex was BPD and in treatment. That didn't stop four years of me losing jobs, getting abused, developing gastritis over stress, feeling like I would be never okay again, being treated literally worse than her job, constant comparisons to exes, her alternating between no sexual desire for months to hypersexuality to the point of sexual abuse towards me, me being forced to whatever she wanted to appease whatever extreme emotiin she got from a dream and being cheated on ultimately because somehow spending every hour awake with her wasn't enough attention.

If you're going to stay, you need to be prepared to lose years of your life in a hell you will feel is just a tribulation to overcome due to sunk cost fallacy. You will lose objectivity and you will not be aware of it. You will think it's all worth it and that it will get better because getting a good day every now and then keeps you in.

If you don't want to risk ending up a shell of a human being, run. If you don't mind the risk, you're far too gone and no one can say anything that will change your mind. Just remember this post years from now, because the only advice I can give you for after the living nightmare is that life goes on and things can get better.
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>>18705479
This
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Please op, have pity on her but dating someone with BPD or bipolar disorder is a huge mistake, I lost five years of my life, of my teenage years no less, to someone with BPD and I will never ever get them back

It's simply not worth it. Be friends with her, pity her, but do not become emotionally involved. Please.
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She'll fucking ruin you dude.
She basically go from thinking you're the most amazing person ever to thinking you're the fucking worst thing to ever happen to her.
It'll fluctuate randomly.
She'll hurt herself to hurt you.

It's a fucking nightmare.

The only viable option you have is to manipulate her in such a way that you keep her in the needy state. If you fuck up she'll fuck your life up.
DESU I'd just fuck her and experience cool things with her, then dump her when she goes into the "you mean nothing to me phase".

Good luck and god bless.
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>>18705494
>I'd just fuck her and experience cool things with her, then dump her when she goes into the "you mean nothing to me phase".
horrible advice, OP will have to deal with stalking and harassment for contact/giving her another chance once she's out of it until at least she finds a new man to latch on to.

The only way to win is to not play.
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>>18704927
Drop her immediately
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