So I was talking to a girl and I was really into her. Anyway, she opened up about some personal stuff and it turns out that a few years ago she got raped by a bunch of different dudes and is (understandably) still traumatized about it today.
How do I get rid of her without making her feel shit?
Easy, just slowly hint that you're a horrible person by dropping some poor taste jokes and being really cringey. Eventually she'll stop talking to you
If things get intimate at all, just tell her that you think it's only fair to let her know you're not at a place in your life where commitment is an option. Explain that you're working on yourself and can't be in any sort of relationship.
If you're trying to get rid of her as a friend all together, I dunno. But if you like her idk why you'd need to remove her as a friend
"accidentally" open your laptop around her with hardcore rape porn on the screen
she'll either never speak to you again or.. jackpot
>>18704100
well. Do you want to get rid of her by any means, or do you want to gently let her go?
Former is easier, but unless your a robot, your gonna feel like even more a shit.