How do I stop being a unlikable person? >No one texts me first,

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How do I stop being a unlikable person?
>No one texts me first, Im always the one to initiate a conversation on snapchat or text messages. Even still its half assed answers like this:
Me: How's your day been man?
Them: Good
(Radio silence until I text them again)
>If I ask a friend or girl to hang out/go out to eat/ see a movie, they usually say "Idk, ill see what I have planned" or "Maybe". Never hear from them about it again.
>Im not fat or ugly. Im 5'10, in between strong fat and otter mode, and my lowest rating has been a 6.5 and highest being a 8 on most rate threads.
>I dress reasonably well and have good hygiene.
>Im not socially retarded when it comes to talking to my guy friends but If I walk up to a girl and talk to them, either I'm a awkward tard or they have 0 interest in me if I do actually talk well.
>I never get invited to parties, social events.
>Just today, I asked who I consider my best friend if he wanted to hang out today and he gave me some bullshit excuse, later found out that he went with a bunch of our friends camping.
>I live in the rural south, so meeting new people is kind of hard.

What do I do? I dont want to spend the only time I have left to be constantly around people in misery and loneliness.