do you ask again?

>>18703701
Nope. More likely than not she blew you off.

And if she didnt and shes genuinely interested, she will let you know when shes better.

Abandon ship anon.

>>18703705
But I just want to be her friend, and she STILL regularly responds to me over text and doesn't seem repulsed

>>18703701
She gave you mild rejection
Move on

>>18703725
>just want to be her friend

She blew you off because you're a pussy and she wants a man.

>>18703701

Unless she followed up with you and brought up rescheduling I wouldn't go for it. Contemplate the fact that even if this blossoms into any kind of relationship this is what you'll be experiencing the entire time you're dating; the sneaking suspicion that despite her willingness to communicate with you she doesn't like you all that much. It happens all the time, OP.

>>18703730
>>18703771
But she also took the time to say good night on her own and still sends me messages without prompt every now and again. How can I really be sure that she wants nothing to do with me?

>>18703793

a rejection is a rejection. If she was interested she would of acccepted or made herself avaliable in a certain day. But she did not.
MOVE ON!!!

Don't ask again. Don't even contact her again until she gets in contact with you. Take as a blow off until she proves otherwise.

>B-but anon I have attachment issues and I REALLY wanna talk to her

Too bad. There's nothing you can say or do that will make her more interested in you. The best thing to do is give her space. If she wants to hang out when she feels better she'll let you know. If not, you don't have to waste another minute on an unsure thing.

>>18703793

Take the advice or don't, man. There is no way to "really be sure" but the point is her behavior has been inconsistent and chances are, will always be inconsistent. Whether or not someone is really interest in you isn't as important as how well they treat you. If you don't mind pursuing a girl that you like obviously more than she likes you then be my guest, continue on, but qualifiers like "she said good night to me one time" doesn't change the situation.

Alright, thanks anons

>>18703701
what about being honest?
something along the lines of
"so, were you actually sick or are you just not interested in me? if you were sick then how about we have a date now that you are better"

or something like that

>>18703701

Ask her again. What the fuck do you have to lose?

>>18703955
>"so, were you actually sick or are you just not interested in me? if you were sick then how about we have a date now that you are better"

No.

Sounds passive aggressive and almost whiny as fuck.

Go ahead and ask again if you want, just don't expect much.