I have been in a relationship for most of my
adult life. Now that I'm single again I'm finding it difficult flirt. Allow me to reiterate
myself I'm having a hard time effectively
flirting to the level that solicits a response
that I can accurately gauge while if nothing
else making myself seem fun and likable.
Too subtle and it's confused for friendliness.
Too forward and it intimidates women.
I'm not talking about game or pick up lines.
But rather authentically being myself and
provoking an indirect yes or no answer.
>>18702279
you're way way way over thinking it. Just talk, don't plan it out in advance, just talk. If there is chemistry there you will know and it will be natural.
>>18702291
Well now this I can do.
I can initiate and hold conversation.
But I just have trouble recognizing if a girl is into
me. Which is where flirting would come into play.
>>18702295
Practice makes perfect mate. No way to get around it I'm afraid.
>>18702298
I suppose you're right trial and error will eventually desensitize me to the innate eventuality of rejection and build my confidence.