Long story short I met this girl online I really like her, but im not in her city, she lives in arizona and I live in new mexico.
I haven't met her irl, and she's not a catfish, while I dropped hints that I like her, I never said we were officially dating.
There's this girl that I like that lives in my city but I feel like if I go any further with this girl I'd be betraying the other online girl. But she's physically here and the online girl isn't
What do?
>>18701877
IRL. Duh.
Online don't mean jack shit.
Even if you ever DO meet online girl, there's a decent chance that whatever you think you have online, does not translate to IRL.
>>18701879
What do I tell online grill How would I explain to IRL girl that I'm texting a girl in another city?
>>18701877
Pick one. If either finds out about the other, you'll lose both or determine anyone who stays isn't valuable.
>>18701877
>But she's physically here
do this one
bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. You have absolutely no idea what the real deal is with the online one, for all you know she is married or all kinds of stuff you'd never know over the internet.
>>18701885
You have literally nothing going on with either girl.
I don't understand why you have to explain anything in the first place.
The hypotheticals running in your head, do not count for real world actions, intentions, or obligations. Hell, there's nothing that says either girl even feels anything of any of that towards you
You can just say, "Hey, it was nice talking to you, but I met someone."
But again, it's not like you had anything to begin with so I'm not sure that would be appropriate.
You could also just ease off talking to her, and just drop things to clearly nothing more than platonic level (which again, I'm not sure you ever left).