My husband is annoying me.
I gave up my career to be with him and he cares very little, tells me nothing and does everything that we are suppose to decide together on his own.
His mom does his bills and taxes and will not allow me to do it.
I save money by doing odd jobs and he is always making me pay for everything. Lately I noticed he is extra stingy with his money. I saved up to buy a pair of headphones for months and he decided he wanted them and took them. I found out why he has been so stingy he has friends who do stocks and has been putting all his money into stocks. I have an uncle who worked in stocks for 30 years I suggested to my husband that he go meet up with him to learn about stocks but he denied it saying "I will do it how I want".
I do not think he understands that if he loses his money that I will end up having to pay it off.
How did you not know any of this before you got married...?
>>18700737
That his mom pays his bills and he is stingy? He was not like that before we got married. Its like he became his dad as soon as we got married and stopped trying. For our anniversary he gave my mom money to buy me a present so that he would not have to do it. I do not even care about money the thing that worries me is his lack of effort and me having to sacrifice everything.
I am the type of person that likes home made crafts with love the best and I like to save my money. I had to hide money so that he can not take it because he burning through it like crazy lately.
>>18700737
Don't fall for it lad. She is most likely twisting her actual situation to make her the victim so that she can justify cucking her husband
>>18700761
I have no interests in sex or people. I am a hermit so that would be the furthest from the truth possible. I am more interested in emotional bounds.
People change once they are comfortable in a marriage.