ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

>>18700514
What's the appeal with white women anyways? /pol/ need not reply.

>>18700563
Lots of minorities try to date white women because they think of it as a reputation boost.

r/asianmasculinity is one of the more notable and amusing examples.

I'm a gril and want to go on a date with this cute guy I work with who has a lot in common with me. I haven't ever asked anybody on a date in my life, though, and I don't really know if I'm his type. I'm physically attractive, probably a solid 7/10, but I'm autistic as fuck and only know how to talk about anime and reptiles with people I'm not close friends with. He's super confident and jokes around a lot with me but I never know how to respond because I'm bad at coming up with stuff on the spot so I just kind of giggle awkwardly. I don't want to make things weird if he thinks I'm a weirdo, so what should I do?

>>18700640

Just ask, guys don't get all the unwanted sexual attention girls do, so they have plenty of time and energy to let you down easy if it's a no.

>>18700563
Being/looking white is what society associates with more feminine traits. Lighter skin is considered more beautiful in a lot of cultures as well.

>>18700640
>I don't want to make things weird if he thinks I'm a weirdo, so what should I do?

Eh, if he thinks you're a weirdo, then he thinks you're a weirdo, no big.

Honestly, embrace your weirdness, and have it be something you're proud in (Though make sure it's not the only thing you have in your life.)

People who have niche things that they take actual interest in are way more intriguing than the basic ones who don't have half an idea in their head. And it's actually kind of sexy when you meet someone who has something that they're good or knowledgeable at (though I'm not sure where anime knowledge and lizards fit in terms of "skills" *shrug*).

Truth is, if he wouldn't be cool with your anime and reptiles and shit, he wouldn't be someone who would be cool with you in general, and why would you want to be around someone like that? If you guys really do get along

Anyway, if you're autistic as fuck, and you've got no fucking idea of what to do, you may as well just walk up to him some day and ask if he'd want to go get some coffee or something sometime.

Simple, obvious, lets him know you want to do something outside of work, and also no pressure. If he's interested and as confident as a guy as you say, he'll probably take the hint and go forward from that.

Really, you've got nothing to lose.

Truth is, getting rejected sucks... but it's something you get over in a few days/weeks. SIGNIFICANTLY Worse is when you do nothing, and then beat yourself up wondering "what if", because that shit caries on for YEARS.

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>>18700656
>all the unwanted sexual attention girls do
>tfw you wish this happened

>me kv
>going out with a girl tomorrow
>known her for a couple years and had friendly talks every know and then but never went out the two of us
>not sure she thinks this is a date
how to escalate things?

>>18700745
Just playfully mention that this feels like a date?

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>>18700731
I can half-relate to you.

>tfw the only thing guys do to me is stare at me for outright terrifying amounts of time
>NEVER anything else
>I'm not a landwhale and I dress ok...I shouldn't be such a circus sideshow T_T

It's definitely unwanted attention, but instead of making me feel cute, it just makes me feel kind of self-conscious and ugly. What type of unwanted sexual attention would you want, anyways?

>>18700563
As a Japanese guy born and raised in the Western World, I simply think they are the most attractive. Asian girls are completely flat, I don't like that.

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>>18700790
I just want any form of attention because I feel like a fucking ghost walking around. I'm painfully average. Solid 5/10 in looks and personality. Nothing about me sticks out, people overlook me. All my life I've had incidence of "sneaking up on people". Like this shit happens at least twice a week where I try to talk to someone and they jump because they didn't even notice I was there. Teachers, coworkers, family members. Nobody ever remembers my name either, I can always tell when they talk to me they're panicking because they have no idea who I am even though I've been in classes with them for 2 years, or I've been working with them for 4.

>>18700807
Any form of attention? What if the guy was kind of ugly?

>>18700822
even if I wouldn't ever fuck him with a 20 foot dildo, I'd still feel happy someone acknowledged my existence. Even if I don't find them attractive back and will never do anything with them, it's nice to be validated.

Girls, would you wave at an ugly guy every day just because he is an acquaintance?

This is what puzzles me about the girl that waves at me. I thought girls would completely ignore me or, if they already started waving at me, "ghost" me IRL sooner or later.

>>18700845
It's called being friendly and not-rude, you freak.

>>18700850
Since when people are friendly to uglies?

the secret is... Attention. Women wants only attentions. A LOT of attentions.

Run away guys, run away. Live your life.

>>18700807
5/10 isn't bad though.
Take me for example. I have a few 8-10/10 great traits as people have told me, but then I have top-tier shit skin. We're talking disgusting. 1.5/10. I look FAR older than I am (which is, as I've learned from 4chan, the worse thing a girl can be) and pizza-faced. Even with make-up the worn-out skin's still obvious. I'm the essential "Butterface." No wonder why I'm stared at but never approached...attention's not always good. I'd love to be a mousy 5/10. Still, I'm sorry that you feel so unacknowledged. It must be a special type of pain.

What's your fashion, hair, make-up, height/weight, and general attitude like? How do you speak? I bet you could do something to play up your appeal and presence. Personality can also be improved with confidence and wit.

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>>18700640
It is very easy femanon. Ask him if he is single. And if he answer yes or some remark like: why do you ask? then you simply give him your number (on piece of paper). He may call or not, that will be up to him.

>>18700790
When some boy is staring at you and you want him to approach you, look into his eyes and smile back at him. Or straight up go and chat him up.
>>18700837
Time to install tinder then.

>>18700845
Fight your autism and chat them up or at least wave back.
>>18700857
>uglies
Post pic. I bet you are just another 0 self esteem average anon.

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>>18700955
>staring
Nah, I'm pretty sure they're just looking at me like one does at a deformed beast. Though thanks for always being so supportive. <3

>>18700965
Do you actually have some outstanding feature? You keep talking about how people are staring at you but you're supposedly not obese or dress outlandishly.

Either you have some major deformity you're dancing around or it's in your head.

>>18700965
When i stare at a girl, i do it because she gave me a boner or i find her attractive. The fat, old and ugly are invisible for me.

Stop always pressuming the worst and push your luck. Also nobody can ever approach you if you constantly look worried / pissed off or when you dont hamg on places where it is safe and socially acceptable to approach ladies (aka not at your job / street / shop / your basement).

Also hitting on girls in public out of blue is the scariest thing you can do. You need to do your fucking part so the boys arent afraid so much. And innitiating eye contact and smiling is one way how to do it.

>>18700972
>Either you have some major deformity you're dancing around or it's in your head.
>it's in your head

You realize, this applies to probably 80% of the people who post/lurk here right?

Also--from experience--I can say that staring at a girl does not = they would actually ever do anything/know what the fuck to do/not just freeze up if approached.

Source of experience: I'm a former awkward as fuck shy guy who sometimes laughs at what a dumbass he was in the past. Who also has tried to wingman for friends who are still awkward, shy as fuck guys--who just freeze up and become derps the second I bring over the girl they've been staring at all night.

Not as easy and clear cut as you're trying to make it sound, from any angle.

That being said, the only remedy to any such situation is in fact, to get the fuck out of your head and just go talk to the person.

It also helps if you realize: pretty much EVERYONE is dealing or has dealt with this shit to some degree in their life, and the playing field is more even than people think.

>>18700999
>You realize, this applies to probably 80% of the people who post/lurk here right?
Probably. But ideally you smack their head and they sort their shit out in response.

Is being a male with long hair instantly considered unattractive except for women with a long hair fetish?

I have long hair beyond my shoulders and I do take good care of it. I'm just often concerned about looking weird like some friends I have who don't take care of their hair.

I asked a Tinder girl on a date and now I have lunch with her- and her friends.
I can get being nervous meeting a total rando from online but that's a bit odd innit?

>>18701008
>are only women who find long hair attractive going to find long hair attractive

>>18701013
Yes it is.

>>18701008
Depends on if you're a guy who looks good in long hair or not, desu. I don't know what else to tell you.

>>18701008
Personally, I think long hair looks great on big, jacked guys or for guys going for the hipster aesthetic. Skinny, metalhead guys with long hair - huge turn off.

>>18700972
Hm. Looking in the mirror in unflattering lighting, my skin looks rough and impossible to ignore (there's probably 30+ red marks from the past years' breakouts and bad eye bags), my strong-boned/masculine, Pocahontas-looking face looks uncanny with my vulnerable, feminine eyes. Having the same eye/hair color and being tall is also a problem. I have no major deformity desu. Just an unfortunate mixing of features that's unusual enough to attract attention. I mean, at least my skin will be better in a few years so it's not too bad.

>>18701008

Eh, my hair is currently shoulder length.

I think I get about the same amount of attention as I do when it's crew cut length.

IMO it's more about how you carry yourself and about what suits you.

>>18701008
Only if
>they look healthy (face-wise), have it in a nice style (if it's lanky/limp and thin then it's a no-no), etc. Not all guys can pull off long hair

t. girl who won't even find guys with hair less than an inch long attractive

>>18701008
I believe there are two basic rules to dating:

Boy should be taller than his gf.
Girl should have longer hair than her bf.

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I have a question for the women. Guys feel free to chime in too though.

I met this woman in one of my classes. I think she might be interested in me. We talk when we are able, and kind of tease one another back and forth a bit. (all platonic jokes and stuff) Idk, i'm not very good at recognizing these things.

Anyway, she was having trouble with the course material, and telling me how upset it was making her, etc. I have a pretty solid grip on the class. So i gave her my phone number, and said that if she had any questions she could feel free to text me. She said thank you (in a sincere way, i think). She hasn't texted me yet, however.

SO, to my question: We're lab partners, and she made something for class that she needed to send to me through email. At the bottom of the email was her phone number. An automatic signature, i assume. I feel like she would have deleted this if she didn't want me to have it.

For real, the question: When i email back to say thank you for the thing she sent, would i be crossing the line to say something to the effect of: "And kudos on finding a subtle way to send me your phone number ;)"


I feel like it may be over the line, but i wanna try to push a little bit i guess. I could always play it off as a joke.

Thoughts?

I've been dating this kinda bad looking goth chick, she's the best I can do.
I don't want her to meet my friends because they'll make fun of me.
I know I am the biggest peice of crap on Earth but what do I do? My friends are typical bros with really good looking "Stacy" girlfriends. They would annihalate me if they see this chick I'm with.

>>18701084
Cheesy as hell. If you want to flirt with her, say something that isn't retarded.

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>>18701084
Ask her on date.
>inb4 bla bla bla
Stop kidding yourself and ask her on date.

>>18701088
Real friends would never laught at you or mock you for your interests or your gf. You shouldnt find better gf, but better friends. Sometimes it is better to be alone than with bad company. Also pic related. How big bitch you are?

>>18701084
No one can answer that for sure, it just depends. If you think you can get away with it, then do it.

>>18701094
Some women like cheesy.

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>>18701094
but can't cheesy work if you just act confident with it? That's kinda my schtick. dad jokes and such.

>>18701096
well, i have to sit next to her for the rest of the semester if she says no. isn't that a bad idea? Eh, i guess as long as i don't make it awkward if she says no, it's all good. If she gets all touchy after that, i guess that's on her.

>>18701102
I think it's a 50/50 shot. I mean, best case scenario she laughs and it moves our conversations a little more to the personal side. Worst case scenario, she gets creeped out. I don't really know her well enough to know which way it'd go.

If you had no idea which way it'd turn out, would you do it?

>>18701120
Me? Hahaha, no. I am not much of a risk taker. But I am dating a guy now who is. Maybe wait until you get to know her a little more?

>>18701131
yeah, i suppose you're right. I'll just wait a little bit. We've only been to three classes together.

Thanks anons

My boyfriend/fwb finds child models "attractive" but says he hasn't ever done anything to them, looks at child models whilst we're having sex, and always comments on schoolgirls to me.

I'm trying to be accommodating and non-judgemental.

But we watch porn when having sex and when I looked up once he was looking at child models. I laughed it off saying "you jacked it to a little girl!" and he slapped me in return and only addressed it 24 hours later.

What do I do?

>>18701166
... Leave? Cut it off?

How do I attract non white girls ? I'm 26 white male with a good career looking for something long term. I got so much vacation time and spending money but no one to share it with.

>>18701181
Non-white girl here, are you looking for someone white-washed or traditional?

What is the best way to tell if you're attractive?

I get a lot of Tinder matches and have hooked up with girls that are "attractive" but I never have girls seem interested/make a move when I go out to bars/whatever.

>>18700563
This is a huge stereotype, and anyone is free to throw shit at me for saying this, but at least in my area the white women I meet come off as incredibly basic. Women of colour are more likely to be cultured and more connected to their past and have strong feelings about it. Too bad I don't meet many intelligent qt indie listening white girls, because that used to be my ideal :(
>>18700745
Mention how you've never hung out together alone/without friends and gauge her reaction then see if you can make a playful remark. Or you can also gauge her physical reactions to see.

>>18701190
Just someone who has their own career and isn't involved with any crazy religion shit as I'm atheist. If that answers the question

>>18700807
I only get attention because I have 3' long hair. But that's all I have.

>>18700955
Can I post just my deformed lip?

>>18701008
Yes. They compliment it, but also tell me to cut it.

>>18701198
It really doesn't. That sounds like you're leaning more towards white-washed girls, but then what's the difference between them and white girls?

>>18701204
I don't know what you mean by traditional like stay at home mom ? I'm not looking to have kids.

I'm not into white girls or black girls for that matter.

>>18701013
Invite your friends too

>>18701210
Traditional, as in holds traditional values (possibly including gender roles), may be religious or agnostic, holds on to their roots etc. If that's not what you're looking for, then how are they different from white girls?

>>18701046
>tfw manlet with long hair

This girl is into me, yes? Like, caught up on me? I dont know how to process this convo:

[for the record, yes I do like her quite a lot and have since I met her but I don't really know how to express it... but I'm starting to have options with other nicer looking women but I really get on with her well. That probably makes me a dick. I don't know. I've never been in this position before.]

>Hes been giving out about us being this or that
>So heads up
About who?
>Us
Oh
>Yeah
>Dont mind him
>Hes just messing
Fair enough
>?I
I mean I'll ignore him like... But what's he saying like?
>Hes saying we fucked and i said like no then he was saying we love eaxh other (i do love you but like a bro)
>Just being steven
I can live with that
>Ye?
>You don't sound convincing
>Your ignoring me
Dunno what you're trying to say to me. Ignore what Steven is saying? OK.
Ok
>Hes messing
>Right
Yes he's messing
>So are you
Well I mean he's half right. Don't get what the big deal is.
>Half right about what?
We slept together
>But I mean if you don't want people to know
That's fine
>Its not like that
>I just want to keep my private live pritave
>Dont You?
Of course
>Your making me feel bad
>I don't mean it badly
>Just its between us so way gossip
>O šound like a dick
>Sorry
>Not badly
I get it
>Whats with the short answers
>You said your self we are only friends
>So why make a big deal of it
You're the one in who brought this up. I don't think I'm making a big deal out of anything desu
>Sorry
Apology accepted
Sorry if I'm being a knob. I don't know

>>18700953
I mean, I know I probably wouldn't like being so ugly people notice me. But I'm just kinda tired of feeling like I'm a sheet of glass. Grass is always greener I guess.

I wear cutesy things. I like frilly shirts, lace, skirts, dresses. I also really like the punk rock type fashion. My tastes are night and day lol. I rarely do makeup, but I have good complexion (sorry I don't mean to brag, but even throughout my teenage years the worst I'd ever get is a single pimple here or there) and don't really need it that much. I hate the feeling of foundation and lipstick/gloss, so I usually just do eyeshadow/liner/mascara when I'm dressing up.
I'm quiet and shy, which I know doesn't help my cause. I'm submissive, I don't try to ruffle any feathers and avoid controversial subjects. This is a little hard for me to unlearn bc this is how my mother raised me since birth. She talks a lot and never lets anyone get a word in, so from the time I learned to talk I was basically trained to just be her ear and to sit quietly and listen to her bitch mostly and rarely give any input back. Learning how to actually converse with other people and not just sit and listen was something I had to learn in elementary school.

>>18700563
They're just objectively more attractive. There's not even any competition.

Sincerely, mixed guy.

>>18701222
White girls chase BBC and well I don't have that and frankly I'm not into those type of girls.

>>18700955
I am on tinder. The only matches I get don't talk to me and I know it's because guys just swipe yes to every single girl and then pick through the matches, so when they don't respond I know it's because they have hotter/better matches and I was just swept up in the mass like.

>>18701203
Shit how the fuck, I've been growing mine for 5 years now and it only gets to my shoulder blades before it starts breaking and dying.

>>18701331
Not who you responded to, but I've got hair that goes down to my belly button, and I make sure to condition almost every day, and I try to get away with only using conditioner some days

women: what response would you expect from a 30 yo guy on tinder?

also, to anyone: what does it mean when a girl (that has a bf) is REALLY flirty around men in general, and how do you know if she likes you?

>>18700636
A post i found browsing your reddit:
>Fil-Am here, I'm in my early 30s. Pretty much every white person in my social circle is settled down now. A large portion (maybe half) of the Asian males however, aren't.

>I feel fortunate that my family has had no problem with dating. But I see a good number (including me) of Asian males being single for a long period of time (5+ years). I also see friends struggle with online dating, saying its just leftover women. I also see on meetup.com the occasional Asian male who's 40+ and single, kinda hanging out because he's lonely.

asianmasculinity looks to be more about hypercucked asian guys trying to find any women at all, even other asians. I'm part korean american and it's a sad world. the "pure" meme is total cancer, not one woman in america is pure, you meet the most quiet studious asian chicks that you thought were ""pure"" and 100% of the time they've been tonguefucking random chads since 14 and believe they needn't have any interest in you.

In fact, it's so fucked up that the only women who have shown real interest in me have been white or black. White folks don't see color, asians do and they dislike their own kind. That's my theory why minorities marry whites.

>>18701336
huh, damn I use conditioner every time I shower. Wouldnt be able to tolerate brushing without it lol

>>18700563
American/European/White culture however you want to phrase it is de facto the world culture. Because of that American/European/White beauty standards are de facto the world's beauty standards. This makes white women more attractive to everyone.

Also people are biologically going to have a disposition to be attracted to their own tribe. And for people who aren't white I think there is a subconscious power fantasy that comes into play as well.

how do i reject someone without sounding like an autist

>>18701349
>asianmasculinity looks to be more about hypercucked asian guys trying to find any women at all, even other asians.
They've had these stupid threads about how superior children from AM/WF relationships compared to WM/AF because magic or something. At least the white racists are consistent and hate a kid for being half black regardless of who the parents are.

r/aznidentity is another notable one, proposing asian men should assault WM/AF couples and praised N Korea for putting Otto in a coma. It's fucking surreal.

>>18701192
Bars/clubs/etc are pretty much solely for guys making a move.

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>>18701395
Pretty much this.

>>18701421
I appreciate your interest, but I'm looking for something different right now.

I'm a 22 year old guy with nasolabial folds. How fucked am I?

>>18701444
The fuck are those?

>>18701440
>black men rating black women
>1%
>
>black women rating black men
>23%
What gives?

Have any of you ever asked out a colleague/friend of a friend, or been asked out?

I've fancied a girl I've known for over two years but only really got know in the last year, and we both work in a niche field where everyone knows everyone in it. As such my fear is that I could possibly sour friendships or make things weird, but I still can't drop the feeling that I need to at least try.

We're both very similarly creatively minded, share a lot of crossover in tastes (and were even mistaken for a couple before). Both of us are going abroad to a conference soon too - last time we went to one she stayed out drinking with me instead of going back to the hotel with the others.

This'll be the first time I've seen here in a few months, so should I just play it easy or what?

>>18701449
Lines around your nose/mouth area. Google pictures of it.

Fellow dudes

Why do you even waste time on online dating?

I just made an account today on okcupid and literally about only 1 out of 10 girls was attractive... why even bother?

>>18701453
It's a well documented oddity. Black men just aren't really attracted to black women, not only for biological reasons but in some countries the ability to be with another race is a big deal for black guys. It's like a trophy sort of thing which they can gloat to other black guys about.

>>18701453
Have you met a black woman

>>18701461
>OKC
Kek, that's trash. Use tinder.

>>18701461
>1/10 was attractive
You are being way to generous. Maybe on Tinder.

Does leaving girls on read actually work?

>>18701440
>white women rate black men above asians
Jesus Christ, that is brutal.

>>18701465
>>18701469

But tinder is literal trash. 60% of the profiles are spam bots, and then the other 40% use it for validation. Maybe 10% of that are willing to meet. But out of that 10% maybe only 2% are willing to date and not just do shitty hook ups

>>18701475
In 6 months of using it, I've only had one spam bot and I've managed at the bare minumum one meetup per month. Every meetup has continued to more dates and sex.

Maybe apps and the internet aren't the problem but you are?

>>18701479

>Maybe apps and the internet aren't the problem but you are?

That wouldn't explain the spam bots

>>18701479
No him but man I can barely get guys to message me back. Been talking to this one guy for ages bc he's the only one that won't just say "lol" every time I send a decent sized, meaningful message but he's kinda dancing around the meetup subject.

But I'm also playing hard mode using tinder in a town of about 15k total population

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>>18700514
how weird is it to double-send a facebook friend request..?

i was talking to this chick in first semester college (now in third) and it seemed like we were getting along pretty well. I didn't add her until second semester when I came back and noticed she was gone (maybe a different program or something, idk) but she didn't' accept my f/r

it's now third semester how weird would it be if I added her again? it's fucked up but i have an insane crush on her and I really wanna ask her out despite not talking to her in like 9 months now

Guys,
When you get a blue heart emoji it means you are in the friend zone right?

>>18701473
I am considered a white woman, and I find most asians to be more attractive than most africans.

that chart comes from okcupid, I bet if they surveyed an otaku dating website for instance the results would be very different.

>>18701495
She didn't accept the first time man. You haven't even spoken in almost a year. It's time to move on, the girl you liked probably doesn't even exist anymore it's been so long.

>>18701505
Well yeah, no shit a specialized dating service is gonna be specialized. OKC was a good choice because it's not specialized.

If you take the results from black people meet then yea, white folk ain't gonna get shit. Because you don't go to black people meet for white girls.

I'm a white girl that digs asians too, that chart is not absolute, it's just averages.

>>18701489
Small populations don't. Getting messages back from people can be like pulling teeth sometimes, which can be bizarre since they seem super into talking to you and then just disappear suddenly. No clue why.

>>18701504
I wouldn't know, I've never been sent a blue heart emoji.

>>18701505
> I bet if they surveyed an otaku dating website for instance the results would be very different
well duh

>>18701507
fuck, I know right? part of me is like "stop being a god damn pussy and find someone else" and the other part of me is like "SCORCHED EARTH MOTHERFUCKER" like if you send her a request again and she goes "ew weird I'm gonna block him" then I'm literally still at square one.

Sort of like I literally can't go down hill in this scenario you know? I donno, she was super cool & unique in a great way, i'd never met anyone like her before

I see a lot of stuff about minorities dating white females, but how often do black females date out of their race for example. Hispanics, Asians?

>>18701529
see
>>18701440

>>18701522
scorched earth motherfucker is the dumbest fucking bullshit idea guys come up with. literally be normal and make friends with every chick you meet who doesn't like you. this is how you meet her friends. any time you weird a chick out you just blew yourself out from her whole network. congrats, you played yourself

>>18701508
I consider okcupid to be a normie dating site, but I have never been on it personally and my other autistic weeaboo trash friends haven't been on it either. That is the perspective that I was speaking from, and why I brought up okcupid as being a reason why the results would come out as they did.

Have you better experience with it? Does it attract a wider range of people than just what would colloquially be considered "the normie crowd?"

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>>18701314
Ah, that's a tough one (and you deserve to at least brag about a great complexion!). You seem to have developed/good tastes in fashion with the cutesy stuff being appealing to guys, don't need to wear make-up, etc. The main thing you can fix is how you emotionally and physically express yourself.

Guys and other girls, can this girl get some input on how to stand out in a positive way? It seems like being reserved/raised in a conservative environment, presumably slender, and feminine (sometimes) hasn't worked for her at all. I don't trust myself to be able to give her good advice.

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>>18701540
well what, I'm supposed to walk around my city making friends with every girl I come across on the off chance that a) she's her friend and b) she likes me enough to "introduce" me to her friend group and therefore the girl I have a crush on?

that seems like chucking gravel at a sandbox hoping to kill one certain ant

Does nofap and edging work for women the same way it works for men?

>>18701462
>Black men just aren't really attracted to black women

For god sakes this is not true. I'm tired of non-black men, usually white guys, saying this. Go talk to black men and they'll tell you who their celebrity crush is. It's usually all black women, maybe a Hispanic girl thrown in there.
Most black men who go on dating sites are not the average black man, even then the chart doesn't show a negative preference for black women.

Men:
If your gf wanted you to piss in her pussy would you do it?

>>18701563
I masturbate a lot less than I used to. I think that's what seriously weakened my sex drive (thank god), but other than that I don't feel different. When I do have an orgasm it's not any better than when I was having up to 8 a day

>>18701544
Social media is a better example of what actual normies want since instagram & twitter is used by relatively mainstream young people.

It's like you people don't go out or interact with anyone

>>18701567
>Go talk to black men and they'll tell you who their celebrity crush is. It's usually all black women
In my experience, it's a mixed black person like Beyonce and never a full black person.

Other studies also reflect that black guys generally don't like black women as much as other races.

>>18701574
I would try to, at least. Shit's hard.
The videos I've seen of it generally show the female losing their damn minds so it must be incredibly stimulating.

>>18701440
notice how the guy charts are all lighter colored, while in the female charts they feel REALLY strongly about this and have a ton of negatives.

Guys are mostly neutral and open. Some preferences are expected, I don't know why black women have it so hard but everybody else is pretty close to 0%. The women's preferences, 75% of the fucking chart is red and you get shit like 24, 23, 18, negative 27. Why is this?

>>18701574
>>18701586
Never thought about it but now I'm curious. But I wish I wasn't.

>>18701586
>The videos I've seen of it generally show the female losing their damn minds so it must be incredibly stimulating.
Probably not, but the knowledge that your being used as a urinal is pretty damn arousing to a certain type of girl.

>>18701563
You the nigress that makes threads about this on /fit/?

>>18701594
No. I'm white and I've only been to /fit/ once to check out the sticky.

>>18701589
Give in to the dark side, anon.

>>18701555
*I am chubby but working on it. Sorry forgot to put that in the last post. I'm 5'3 and 130lbs. I know I could stand to shed 10-15lbs, I've started a diet and workout plan though. Just a matter of time.
But in good clothes you don't notice it too much, most of my fat is in my thighs and hips.

>>18701597
Shit, I don't know the race of the other woman.
But there's been a few "Does no-fap work if I'm a woman" posts there lately

Anyways, nofap is a meme. A stupid meme.
The only thing it makes you is edgier towards sex. It doesn't make you grow giant muscles and turn you into a super-computer.

It might make you a little bolder if you think the only way to get off if someone else does it for you, but let's face it, you already have enough motivation to talk to the opposite sex and you're still not doing it

>>18701563
It appears to for me, but I have a strange on/off sex drive to begin with. I'll go a couple months being horny non stop, and then a couple months not even thinking about sex at all. No real weaning down, I just go from rabid cat in heat, to being completely indifferent towards it overnight.

But I will say when that switch gets turned back on, those first couple times are the best. Then after a week or so I start getting slower and slower to cum until it starts to take a lot to even get me started

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>>18701586
You know, I should not really be shocked by fetishes anymore but this is a damn thing I would have never thought to search on pornhub

>>18701584
>full black person

Full black person to whites is caricature features. Your thoughts on this is irrelevant.

>other studies

Usually from dating websites. So my point isn't invalidated.

>>18701603
>5'3 and 130 pounds
>chubby

The fuck is your waist size?

>>18701586
>>18701586
>>18701615
You niggers are being deceived

Life isn't a fucking anime. Pissing in a pussy won't make her cum and roll back her eyes.
It'll just feel like... Warm liquid entering her vagina.

The only way she gets off on it if she has a defilement fetish.

The anon here>>18701574
Is probably just some teenager exploring the basic idea of dicks because she's a young woman and penises are a fun new idea.
Wait till she finds out about helicoptering

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>>18701621
>Full black person to whites is caricature features. Your thoughts on this is irrelevant.
not him but white features in a black face are a real thing dipshit.

>>18701623
I'm not sure currently, I have a note on my computer I took of my measurements about a year ago when I was 10lbs lighter for when I was buying stuff online, my bust/waist/hips then was in inches 37/29.5/38. If I had a tape measure on me I'd update that, I probably should before I buy something too small lol

>>18701625
Well I mean, it's porn so of course anything that appears to feel good doesn't actually. It's acting. I didn't buy its a pleasureable thing (for her at least) for a second but was just kinda surprised that's actually a thing.

But then I reminded myself literally everything is a thing

>>18701625
>Is probably just some teenager exploring the basic idea of dicks because she's a young woman and penises are a fun new idea.
I'm not a teenager, I'm just really into degredation. And watersports.

>>18701625
>It'll just feel like... Warm liquid entering her vagina.
A lot. Quickly. We're not talking about a trickle here m8, you're not pulling this off unless you prepare for this shit by chugging a gallon and a half of water an hour before. You're gonna be pressure-washing that thing and they will feel that shit.

>>18701623
Man, I'm 5'3, 120lb and I have a body fat percent of 28%. Shit sucks being short.

>>18701644
28% is well within the range of attractiveness for women

>>18701646
Nah man, 20% is the ideal. Anything over 25% looks chubby. Especially if you weren't born with lotter genetics and carry fat on your waist.

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>>18701644
Sure does. Short stumpy legs are the worse, no clothing looks good on them, you just have to make the best of it.
>>18701646
Not according to some dude that was in this thread a while ago, I remember him railing on some girl with 27% saying that's obese.

>>18701628
nope

women who use tinder

what would you think if a match immediately told you "I don't like talking through apps. let's go out"? what would you do?

also, I'm far from creative. what should I tell my female matches? what are some opening lines that you like?

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>>18701650
Yeah it depends entirely how you carry it, like in this pic, even the 26-29 chick is pretty fucking hot. But short bitches usually have it worse, they get disproportionate fast

>>18701659
I'm a dude who has used dating apps before
I dated a girl who said she went out with a dude the night he asked that.
It does work. Just maybe not for everyone

>>18701659
Eh I'd probably not go for it just because that to me screams "I'm gonna kidnap you and sell you into sex slavery. Online dating is sketch, it just comes with the territory, you need at least a LITTLE buffer time to get a feel for "is this guy potentially dangerous or not" before meeting. For me, I can usually feel pretty comfortable after only a couple hours, but I will need a good sample of messages to determine if you've got any red flags or not. I wouldn't meet you after just one message

I'm interested in a guy but the thing is I'm not that attractive to approach him and he seems kind of distant or something, should I try to talk to him? I don't have friend either, so it will be almost too obvious that I like him. I'm not too bad but I'm not pretty as my classmates or some of the girls that talk to me.

>>18701653
Wear skirts that go to knees or boot-cut jeans. That's what works for me. Skinny jeans or anything tight like yoga pants are a hard no.

>>18701679
I've had some luck with those high waisted shorts. They make your legs appear a bit longer, but I know those are hit or miss among guys

>>18701676
If you want to stand out, talking to him will make you different.
Can't tell you the success rate, but it will put you on his radar. And that's better than before.

>>18701666
I wish I was as hourglass as the 30-33% woman. How can she be fatter than me and still look better?

>>18701691
I like highwaisted shorts.
But they are common among fat chicks who like to hide their muffin tops

>>18701691
I can't into shorts. I think they just highlight my thunderthighs. Capris are better.

>>18701673
well, what if I told you "for your security, you can bring a friend" or "let's go to a crowded place"
I've been starting with "Hi :)", and I've had terrible luck (not only because of my opening line, though. I'm a terribly boring guy and that clearly shows in my profile: only a few matches in months, and some didn't even reply to me. some were very pretty...). I feel like a dumbass and a hypocrite for not doing whatever I want to do, which is not talk through the app (because I prefer talking in person) and simply invite them to go out instead

>>18701696
Taller and with wider hips.

I hope all your complaining women are hitting the gym now.
Basic compound training will do you wonders.
Squats are the meme. Lots of women do them, and for good reason. Nice asses, thick but not fatty thighs.
Deadlifts so your back has that sexy valley and also those dimples
OHP for rounded shoulders
Bench, for tits that don't fall flat

>>18701706
I don't use tinder, but don't people talk about their interests or their hobbies in their profile? Why don't you try starting a conversation about those?

Girl here. I have a deep voice, hairy nipples and legs, and masculine interests. I shave and wear cute clothes but I feel so boyish and uncute. What can I do?

>>18701713
This. I started with the basic "hey how are you" shit and got ignored The moment I switched to starting off about their hobbies, it was easy. I fucked up a lot of past opportunities though thanks to just saying hey.

>>18701715
hate to be one of these anons but pic?

>>18701696
Yeah, worlds cruel. Thats why I think things like bmi and body fat % aren't judges of attractiveness. Because you can be somewhat high and still good looking if placed right, or low and look like shit if not.
But of course nobody looks good at 40+
>>18701697
>>18701700
Its a tough short fat girl problem, because if you try too hard to hide it it's obvious. But if you fail to hide it enough then it's also obvious.
>>18701710
Since 2 weeks ago, I've started every morning with an hour long run, and then end each night with some weights. I don't have much of a structured plan yet but that's what I've been starting with.

I hope you're a fit 10/10 yourself before you accuse us of being lazy whiners.

>>18701715
How deep are we talking? Deep can be sexy. Vocaroo?

>>18701715
Pluck those nipple hairs, shave those legs, and otherwise not give a shit.
I mean, your nerd enough to post here. Which means you're nerd enough to want another nerd. And nerds love more of themselves.

Chillax and know that if you're a female geek, you'll have the pick of the litter.

>>18701692
I think he knows who am I because we argue with the professor on class. But that's all. I was just wondering that, as I'm not a super attractive girl, should approach him, because being too friendly can be annoying. I don't know, just wanted some thoughts.

>>18701713
because I'd prefer to talk about that, or about anything, in person? also, because I'm a boring fuck, until I get a little of inspiration... which usually comes when I like the girl?
and, finally, I don't like revealing personal info about me on the internet, for privacy reasons (yes, I'm a bit paranoid... perks of my job).

>>18701726
>Since 2 weeks ago, I've started every morning with an hour long run, and then end each night with some weights. I don't have much of a structured plan yet but that's what I've been starting with.
You're doing good
That's a lot of effort. Though, I prefer barbell training to just dumbbell. Can't get those meaty squats and lifts in.

No, I'm not 10/10. But I've been going to the gym for more 18 months now. Almost 2 years. I'm no Zack Effron with cheesegrater abs. But I think I am stronger than most people.
It's made me feel really good about myself. And I want to share that feeling with others. Going to gym and lifting weights made you feel good and sexy.

>>18701736
These girls are getting 10 times more matches than you, and they are getting a "hey, how are you" or "Hi, sexy" from 90% of them. Start the conversation with something that will make yourself stand out. Make her feel like your interest in her is more than just her face, but also has something to do with who she is and what she cares about. You're boring because you're not making an effort.

>>18701735
I feel you, bud
I've been in your shoes. One of the very few vocal people in class.

The best thing you can do is, after one class, where you've agreed on some point, meet him as people are funnelling out and continue the discussion.
You have the easy out of "Hey, I'm just talking about the class". It's not obvious you want him.

But if you feel any sort of mutualness, you can make it grow.

>>18701728
https://vocaroo.com/i/s1z0RYLFgCAJ

I'm not going to post my face or nipples

>>18701742
I don't have access to much is the problem. Can only do what I can do with my own body and have access to my mom's old 20lb weights. I try to do squats/wall sits while cooking/waiting for food, and some sit ups/push ups whenever I have free time and think to do it too.

Well just protip when you got people who are fresh and starting out, the hardass approach isn't always the best. You risk discouraging them too quickly into the game.

Though I will say, even when I was lighter before I fell off the wagon and stopped working out, I never got that rush or felt good. Mostly just felt like throwing up every time I got home from the gym.
Must be a testosterone thing.
Lifting was particularly mind numbing and boring to me, I had far more fun on the treadmill bc at least I could watch tv.

>>18701755
Body shot of typical clothing at least?

>>18701755
You have a good deadpan. I find that awesome but I'm a girl so my opion isn't what you're looking for. You seem like a cool chick though, would hand out with.

Can girls actually like me?

>>18701756
Cardio is better for weightloss anyway so just keep at the treadmill.

>>18701759
Anyone can find love if they lower their standard enough.

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>>18701756
>You risk discouraging them too quickly into the game.
I don't consider going to gym a hardass approach.
It's just a place. And what you do there feels good.
I mean, Arnold described it like "cumming all the time"
And he's partially right.

Anyways, if you've found a way to be happy with your fitness, all the power to you.
But from my own perspective, I recommend barbell training to everyone, men and women.

>>18701762
But after lowering your expectations to zero will love even bring you any happiness

>>18701766
That's more like just a really long shirt than a dress, plus it's a little boxy which doesn't help with body shape. Do you have clothes that aren't quite as covered in graphics and drawings?

>>18701755
>>18701766
Reminds of a girl I used to know
Tall girl. She was in one my uni poetry classes.
Wanted to date her a lot, but she had a committed boyfriend. Moved to Yellowknife with him, of all places.
Facebook tells me she got fat. Oh well.

Anways, don't worry. You don't seem to be ugly, nor fat. Don't worry so much.
You'll make some dork very happy one day.

>>18701766
Yeah, you're cool.

>>18701766
cool nerdy girl i know but probably doesnt like dating-core

>>18701770
It was your post of "I hope you complainers are hitting the gym immediately" that was coming off hardassy
A lot of us are working towards something better, but Rome wasn't built in a day. Progress is slow, and it's fucking hard man, it's really hard to get going when you know at best it's gonna take a month or more of hard work to even begin to see any change. It's discouraging enough without people undermining any work you have put into the change accusing you of doing nothing at all.

I'm not particularly happy with fitness, working out is a chore. It's like going to work. I go and put in my hours and my shitty dead end min wage job because it's financially necessary for my survival. I go and put in my hours working out feeling shitty because it's also necessary to my survival.
Frankly I don't want to look /fit/ I just want to look slim and slender. I don't want any muscle to show
Like from this post>>18701666
that 26% actually looks the most ideal out of all the women on that page to me. She's got a flat tummy, but isn't muscular

>>18701777
Well, I really like shirts with surreal graphics and digital art so that's a lot of what I have. I wore lolita once though

>>18701781
>>18701780
T-thanks, I hope I find a nerd that likes tomboys one day

Where to meet desperate boys when butterfaced?

>>18701804
>Well, I really like shirts with surreal graphics and digital art so that's a lot of what I have
Strong imagery like that would dissuade people, since the assumption from that is "yeah she's cool but she's probably seeing someone or has a specific type".

>>18701806
Anime club. Careful though, they all have shit taste.

>>18701812
Tried that, failed. Need more desperate.

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>>18701812
Oh god they do lol. I walked into 1 meeting of my campus's anime club and noped the fuck out after they literally got into a non ironic argument about waifus.

I wish I were making it up, the word waifu was literally used.

>>18701810
What kind of type do those kinds of clothes indicate that I like?

>>18701817
Make a tinder and say you'll fuck whoever swipes on you and that you're desperate.

>>18701802
I think the difference between us is if we do something hard, you think "God damn I'm so tired, I never want to do that again" and I think "Wew! I just did that hard thing! I'm free for a little while!"
And that's what makes me come back over and over again. The sense of accomplishment. The fact that after going to the gym, the voice that says "You're not good enough, mate. Give up" can't say shit because I just did everything I could.

Anyways, if you want to lose weight the gym isn't what you want. Gym is for making you look better once you lose weight, not for losing weight on it's own.
Losing weight is its own thing

>>18701820
Good looking guys, maybe a little fit, have pretty cool interests but also share some of the nerdier ones.

I have a friend who's like that. Coolest guy I know and has had a few gf's like you and he was into really nerdy shit like DnD and magic cards. Being really cool but also a total nerd on the side is a hard type of guy to be so it's rare, hence the assumption that it's the only type you date.

>>18701822
I guess so, but I think you have to be predispositioned to that thought in the first place. Some people are capable of enjoying exercise, some are not.

Diets already on. I'm working down slowly, but very slowly to my tastes. Feels like it takes 1 bad meal to gain 10 pounds and 3 years to work it off.

>>18701821
This is likely the correct answer, whether I like it or not.

>>18701806
how butterfaced are we talking here?

First people I tell as of now. This is fucking gross btw so

***spoiler***

I've had ring worm on my foot for the past 5 months. I have been using anti fungal cream. It looks like it's finally going away (perfect circle is gone now) but it's getting ichtyier than ever. Basically use a nail file to chip the dead skin at night. What else can I do?

>>18701830
You can make your own fucking thread and keep this shit off ATOGA

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>>18701818
The only time I ever tried to go to a campus anime club they were showing a slideshow literal loli porn on the projector (pic related). Also they were praising fucking Hidan no Aria as the AotS when, among other things, Steins;Gate, AnoHana and Nichijou were also airing. And as they were screening shows fat nerds were making out with slutty goth chicks in the back of the room. Never again. Even I'm not that desperate.

>>18701831
fucking this.

>>18701755
Pretty hot voice to be honest.

>>18701829
Manly, large nose, minor acne, circles under eyes, weak cheekbones

>>18701826
Well, you'd be hard pressed to find a girl that isn't into attractive men, but I'd honestly prefer someone with openly niche interests. Someone I can kick back and assemble an action figure with and watch niche anime as a date would be ideal. I live in a small southern town and I very rarely meet people with similar interests.

Ok so I asked this girl out and went on a date and it went really awkward. The thing is I can't tell if she wants to keep going because I always have to initiate conversation with her or else she won't even talk to me. What should i do I'm really confused right now and can't tell if she still likes me or not since she doesn't ever message me or talk to me when i don't.

>>18701755
>>18701766
Voice and body looks fine. And there's no shortage of guys looking for girls with masculine interests. As long as you keep shaving and your face isn't horrendous you should do fine.

>>18701842
>Someone I can kick back and assemble an action figure with and watch niche anime as a date would be ideal.
Well it's rare to find a guy that's attractive, cool and also likes those things. Anime I'm afraid is almost entirely taken up with the beta orbiter type.

You might have better luck trying to dress more regular and dating pretty regular guys that you can then slowly introduce to your own interests. My gf didn't know a thing about cars but because of her interest in me, she tried to get into it and now we do basic repair stuff together, which she genuinely enjoys.

>>18701849
Ask her on another date. If she doesn't want to she'll decline. Or ghost you. Or stand you up. Either way, you'll know.

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>>18701834
I cannot confirm they are actually in the anime club, but I've seen some stereotypical fat anime nerd looking dudes naruto run on campus before.

These faggots are the reason I have to keep my interest in ACTUAL Japanese culture under wraps. Taking Japanese 1 at my college was the worst fucking experience of my life, it was full of weebs who only wanted to ask questions about how to watch anime without subs. There was this one girl in particular that sat near me that I wanted to murder, she wore face masks every day and would go "EEEEEHHHHHH" in that goddamn high pitch anime girl squeal after every lesson to express her confusion.

Japanese 2 was at least better since all the faggots who thought "I wanna watch animu without subs" was a good enough reason to learn Japanese dropped out once realizing Japanese is too fucking difficult and not worth the effort if that was their only goal.

>>18701827
>I think you have to be predispositioned to that thought in the first place. Some people are capable of enjoying exercise, some are not.
Maybe, maybe.
But I think we have the most important thing in common: We're not happy with who we are now.
I mean, you're here right?
I lift because when I'm lifting, I feel like my inner critic cannot say I'm not doing enough to be better. And that inner silence stays with me all day. Even the next day when I feel DOMS.

As for diets, they're no fun, but I think a lot of people over think them and collapse under the weight of their own planning. They need only as be complicated as you want. You'd be surprised how far just drinking water will bring you.

Yo can do it, buckaroo. I never thought I could be a gym person, but here I am. Sometimes it takes the smallest thing to change your habits. Maybe tomorrow you'll find your own catalyst

>>18701766
How tall are you?

>>18701851
I've been so focused on trying to find someone that already likes what I like that I never thought about meeting people with different interests and sharing mine with them. Thanks for the advice.

>>18701866
5'3", but I'm taking up too much space in this thread and I feel like I'm blogposting now. Well, I guess that's kind of normal on /adv/, but still.

>>18701868
It works anon. I've discovered new interests through other people just as they have through me.

>>18701859
You're right I am unhappy.
Exercise don't make me happy. When I'm noticed and not "sneaking up" on people makes me happy, when it rarely happens. When people acknowledge my existence, that's what makes me happy. Like I said, I'm not really working out for any reason other than I have to so I don't die of a heart attack at age 30, and with the vague hope maybe people will notice me if I'm more attractive and more skinny usually means more attractive.

>Drinking water
I cut out all beverages beside water for the most part back in 2013. I think the last time I had a soda was 2015, it was my birthday. Every now and then I have a warm cup of tea when I need to destress. Otherwise I drink about 2-3 water bottles a day. I know I need to drink more but I hate feeling like I have to pee 24/7.
Right now I'm just calorie cutting. I'm trying to do no more than 1200 daily bc that's what all the calculators and charts I've seen have come up to in order for me to maximize weight loss without going full holocaust at least.

>>18701874
i find your dedication to health and fitness pretty damn attractive. keep it up.

>>18701870
You are kinda cute and your voice is sexy desu to me

>>18701870
>5'3''
No fucking way
You're not like that girl I used to know. She was like 5'8'' or something. Tall for a girl.
For some reason your deep voice combined with your shortness makes you sexier.

Go away now before I blogpost about the women in my life. You already drew out on of them.

>>18701878
Well I wish the vast populace agreed. Though without the visible results nobody will even know what efforts I'm going through. Gonna be probably a year before I can test my GYM=LESS INVISIBLE hypothesis.

>>18701886
Good things take time, people are just impatient and expect results overnight.

>>18701874
I acknowledge your existence, mate. So you got that.

Anyways, good one for you for not drinking anything but water. You could have diet soda. Aspartame isn't satan's piss or anything. You could taste liquid sweetness again.
But hey, maybe you don't need it.

If you're really consuming only 1200 calories a day, then you're on a serious weight loss program. Breakfast (200 cal) with water, then no lunch, then supper (1k cal).
Easy right?
Try celery, by the way. Celery with some salt.
Fills your belly up. Damn near kilo has 50 calories. If you're hungry, it can stop it. Though you can get used to "wanting" that hunger pain.

>>18701895
Doesn't count online.

Diet soda may not be satan's piss, but it sure does taste like it. I'm fine with tea when I need something sweet. I was mainly into soda for the caffeine, I was addicted pretty bad back in the day. Coming off soda sucked, I had actual withdrawls.
I still struggle with keeping myself awake though. That's why I drank so much in the first place. My sleep problems are worse now more than ever but that's due to the untreated depression I'm sure.

I tend to spread it out more. I have a 200ish cal breakfast, then have a couple little snacks throughout the day that add up to around 500, and then a 500 dinner

I can't stand celery, smells and taste like feet. I prefer broccoli if I want something low cal to fill me up. I turn to celery if I'm looking to throw up what I just ate.

I've grown custom to the stomach growls. They even feel good sometimes. I was doing much worse crash dieting before.
I did the anorexic bootcamp diet with near perfection before, though I do admit I fudged a couple of those days.

>>18701588
>I don't know why black women have it so hard
Inner city culture (read: most of black culture) is unattractive. Generally have a reputation for being loud and obnoxious. Generally strongly invested into identity politics.

It's not really a mystery, especially if you've ever lived in or by the city.

>>18701906
I have to agree with you on celery. Never liked it
Don't even include in the mirepoix when I cook.
It's good with cheezwiz, but that shit is yellow cancer.

This is going to sound pretty sad, but I got used to stomach growls because a few years ago, I was unemployed while my roommate was a 9-5er.
We used to watch TV together over dinner every day.
I ate breakfast around 10, then waited the next 7 or 8 hours till my roomie came home and we could eat dinner over our favourite show
We got through a good number of series over the 4 or so years we lived together.

I'm a little drunk, if you couldn't tell by my rambling. That's a diet no-no, but here I am anyways.

Hope you reach your desired weight. I'm still trying to get bigger

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>>18701715
Deep voice can be cool
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VxzYvCRCAkw

>>18701913
>Generally have a reputation for being loud and obnoxious.
This is true. I also don't know why so many black women say "let me AXE you something" but it hurts every time I hear it. I can't date someone who would be like that.

>>18701913
I don't have the sauce to back this up, but I remember reading a stat once too that black children contribute most to the childhood obesity rate in the US than any other race. Latino's coming in second.
So might also be black women are more likely to be overweight and therefore unattractive.

Again though, I'm no /pol/ack, I might be pulling that out of my ass.

>>18701925
best of luck my drunk anon. May you find happiness in whatever route you think is gonna give it to you

>>18701930
Aye, thanks. Y-you too.

Shit isn't the best for me now, but I hope to turn it around. Everyone says that, but for me it's true.
For me it's true...

>>18701928
Black women in my experience have been pretty obese yes but black guys in childhood have usually been pretty fit from running and basketball. (Yes I know, muh stereotypes, but black guys really do love basketball and it keeps them really fit).

>get with old college friend
>Going on dates and end up sleeping together
>Something pops up in her life and she needs to take time to focus on it
>At the time is seemed like she was flaking out on me / used me as a rebound
>"I really like you but idk if I can have a relationship right now"
>Seemed like typical cut and paste easy let down breakup
>She can be pretty flakey but we both like each other a lot
>Move on and start messing around with girl #2
>Don't have as strong of a connection with her, but she's obsessed with me
>Not officially exclusive/dating yet
>Girl #1 starts to come back into the picture again
>Turns out she wasn't bullshitting, and she has almost everything figured out and it seems she is testing the waters to see if I'm still interested
What the fuck do I do? I really like girl #1 but she has a history of being flakey. Meanwhile, I'm not officially dating girl #2 and she even said "we're not exlusive yet" (I know she isn't seeing anyone else and would be hurt if I did). I don't want to two time on girl #2 until I know girl #1 is ready for a relationship, but I also don't want to break it off with girl #2 and have girl #1 flake. The "just move on" meme has come to bite me in the ass and I feel like a piece of shit no matter which way I go.

>>18701927
>I also don't know why so many black women say "let me AXE you something" but it hurts every time I hear it.
Expect to hear it more. They've been pushing hard to legitimize ebonics.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmO-ziHU_D8

Never forget this shit show.

>>18701928
Yes, Blacks are disproportionately more obese. But you see plenty of fat white chicks that still manage to get a lot of attention, I wouldn't even say it's the most significant factor. Some black men are fit naturally because of sports like that other anon tried to claim, but they are far from the majority.

https://www.cdc.gov/obesity/data/adult.html
>Non-Hispanic blacks have the highest age-adjusted rates of obesity (48.1%) followed by Hispanics (42.5%), non-Hispanic whites (34.5%), and non-Hispanic Asians (11.7%).

>>18701937
kek and a lot of the black guys I knew almost always ended up in the military because they couldn't get into college, so that got them in shape too.
More stereotypes, but they exist for a reason.

>>18701938
This is going to make you feel like a bastard, but follow then both up.
Girl #2 said it wasn't exclusive
So just date them both

You'll feel bad for a while, but better on the long run if one of them turns out to be really worth it

>>18701941
Aye there's the sauce proving I'm not just racist.
Yeah it's not the only factor, I think where you're posting your data from is the largest. If you're posting from a black dominant country, then blacks might have a higher success rating. If you're posting from a white dominated country, then whites are gonna win, same with Asian or Latino countries.

Girls, what is the best way for a guy to let you know he's interested in you? I've been trying to hang out with my friend and try and tell her, but she's been busy as shit and I don't want to do it by text. I'm tired of waiting (which always fucks me up and hit me especially hard a few months ago), but on the off chance we do get together, we're both drunk with friends. She's also going through some shit right now and I'm trying to convince her how much she means to everyone

Did they seriously put two monsters in my room? A bat and a snake? I caught the bat but where the fuck is the snake? Or is it a centipede?

The bat had rabies, didn't it? They wanted it to bite me, that's why it was so aggressive.

>>18701957
If she can't find time to feel, she can't find time to care about you

Better just orbit her casually and if she's drunk and stupid, judge her reactions.
Don't expect anything more

>>18701960
I know hallucinations
I see spiders, personally
But those don't exist

You can beat them by not opening your eyes

What do black women like?

Do guys like getting their balls played with? They look so cool and fun and touchable.

>>18701975
Gentle fondling.
Like you're trying to feel the shape of a cloud you can't see

Funny story, one my mates married a woman who was a virgin. Dorky girl, bit of a talker.
So after a few drinks a few years ago she was like "You ever knew that balls had like little ropes attached to the body?"
It was fucking funny because my mate blushed hard and tried to smile. We all knew it was HIS balls she was talking about.
She had been fucking investigating

>>18701969
well, there was a bat in my room the other day. It was a very aggressive bat, it more than likely had rabies.

Someone just told me that there was a snake in my room. Either they are faking it and fucking with me or its' really in there.

>>18701975
>Do guys like getting their balls played with? They look so cool and fun and touchable.

Just like some girls like their asses getting played with, and some don't feel jack shit/hate it:

Some guys like it, some don't.
Personally, I fucking love it.

>>18701938
Don't EVER get with someone that you think is you're second choice, or because you think it's a hassle to choose, or you're afraid you won't find anyone else.

You will never be happy, and "what if" will always be stuck somewhere in the back of your head.>>18701676
>I'm interested in a guy but the thing is I'm not that attractive to approach him and he seems kind of distant or something, should I try to talk to him?
>I was just wondering that, as I'm not a super attractive girl, should approach him, because being too friendly can be annoying.

Eh, as a guy who was approached by a number of girls back in college, regardless of if I was attracted to them or not, it was never annoying. If I was interested, I might have a conversation, or I might just say hey what's up and go along with what I was doing. If they weren't attractive I might have a conversation, or I might just say hey what's up and go along with doing what I was doing.

I think the ONLY time I've ever just straight up shut down a girl was this one random Saturday at like 2PM when it was like 38c (100F) out, and I wanted right at the moment was a fucking ice cold beer and to play some 9 ball, and I just couldn't be bothered to bring myself to have a conversation (just one of those days I guess. I think she was even kind of cute? But I just really fucking wanted that beer lol).

Hell, even if he does shut you down, just means he's an ass. Doesn't really say anything about you.

>>18700845
Is it because you are starring at them whenever you see them and they want to acknowledge that they notice you are starring at them?

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I need advice asap.

So ive been dating this girl (coworker) for two solid months. (She made the first step if that matters later)... We were really getting along with each other and started to develope feels. The problem was that we both knew our relationship is a bit complicated due to her being 5years older and from a neighbour country (she only works here). Also our job was quite demanding for both (we worked 13h a day, 7 days a week, since the end of may. I worked from 7am-21pm, she from 9am-23pm) and we had little time to actually go out on dates or hang out outside of work in general.

So a few days ago she came to me telling me she wants to break up because she doesnt see me as a partner (but still loves me as a friend.) She told me that she is doing this now because she wouldnt want to pretend and make the end even harder if we tried to push the thing further. Fyi it was obvious that she was quite upset about having to do this.

I kinda understand why this would happen.
Let me add that we probably spent only 7-8 days together where we could actually relax and be who we are (like normal dates). We never had any fights but she did say that some things i said made her uncomfortable.

In 10 days she is leaving to visit her family for a bit less than a month.

What should my further action be?
I can give her time but i do not want to lose her as a lover.
How/when can i ask her for a second chance? Should i even do that? Or should i try to just be friends and make her change her mind once she clears her thoughts (lets say when she returns from the trip)?

>>18701973
Genuine female african american standarized units of time

>>18700514
How to tell if teasing is flirtatious or means they don't like you?

Guys and Girls,

How do I stop sabotaging myself. I do things like believing that she isnt into me, or that shes going to be just using me. The thing is, I've never been in a relationship before, and just a fucking pussy.

>>18702254
Simple ask her out worst she can say is no

>>18702254
Same here. Girl literally jumped on me at party and it more reasonable to me that she was just confused

>>18702265
I don't even know her. We are just in the same class this semester

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>>18700514
To men: Would you be offended if a girl you wanted to date told you she actually just wanted sex with you but not to have a serious relationship? Like a friends with benefits type deal?
There's a guy who I think wants to date me but I just got out of a long relationship and am not looking to get right back into something serious.

I have a question for femanons. It's about appearance, though. Need some female advice, are there any on?

>>18702312
How long have we known each other? If just met recently, FWB is cool. If we've been friends for quite a while, then no.

>>18702314
just ask your question already

>>18702312
its hard to expect someone to have sex with you repeatedly over a long period of time without developing some kind of emotional attachment.

I think you're better off leaving the door open to the possibility of a relationship beyond sex, just to be more fair and realistic about what you're getting into.

>>18702312
Offended? No. Disappointed, yes.

>>18702315
Well we've known each other through work longer, but only started hanging out recently like a few months ago. Tbh didn't know each other very well through work as there isn't much time to socialize there. Also we don't work together anymore.

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>>18702316
No need to be rude. Any who, what should I do to improve my overall appearance. (Besides shave and a haircut. Though style recommendations are welcome.)

>>18702319
Hmm considering you've known each other in some way for such a long time, FWB honestly wouldn't work.

>>18702317
He seems like the kind that could become attached, but at the same time he gives off a swinger vibe. It's confusing.

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>>18702316

>>18702328
Shave, haircut, smile.

>>18702333
Stop taking pictures from bad angles xD

>>18702333
Also the style of facial hair looks strange...maybe try something different.

>>18702335
Nyeh. Any advice on angling it would be fine. I knew the shave, haircuts, smile stuff. Do you wish to see my grin? Any advice on clothing choice?

>>18702332
>It's confusing.
how much better than you is he? like is he much better than you or only a little better? If he sees you as someone who he wouldn't want to settle down with someday (like you aren't at his level) then you might be on safe grounds to proceed because he wont have a problem cutting ties when the time comes.

>>18702343
I''l take that. I will shave and be right back.

>ask crush out to go to con with me
>she says at the last minute she's bringing friends along

What are the chances she's actually interested in me? Plus I suspect she has a boyfriend though I can't confirm it, but I believe my chances are slim. How do I confirm this tactfully, and if she's taken/not interested is it acceptable to immediately start getting a lot friendlier with her friends? Please help

>>18702349
Is she asian by any chance? They usually bring along one of their best friend to let her judge if you're gr8.

>>18702355
We all are, also she's bringing more than one

I've come to terms with her probably not liking me but I don’t wanna waste any time moping around, I want to know how to confirm it and if I should start trying with her friends immediately if I get rejected

>>18702346
>>18702346
I don't think either one of us is better than the other...he doesn't want kids either so doesn't seem like the settle down type.

>>18702362
then go for it you crazy kid, so long as you're both honest about what it is and most importantly what it is not then at the very least you have the moral high ground to say I told you so in case it all goes south.

>>18702328
Dude but

The fact that you're taking this pics from a low angle probably influences this, but your head looks really flat with how fine your hair is, and it throws off the shape of your face to be too bottom centric, making your face look kind of chubbier, and your head overly egglike.

Your beard then further exacerbates this.


Get rid of that shit on your chin until you an grow a decent beard (try again in like 2 or 3 years probably)

You probably need some volume up top to blance things out, but fuck if I know what to do with your hair. That is why I pay a stylist good money to pick shit he thinks looks good on me.

To find someone good, all you really gotta do is: next time you see another dude with a good haircut, ask where he got it from.

>>18702129
its over and done. move on.

>>18702333
>>18702328
work out daily. get some natural brain chemicals going. you look technology dependent.

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what do you think of this persons looks

>>18701806
>implying girly girly with butter face arent the best

>>18702369
Thank you for the advice

>>18702406
You look like a cool dark elf or something. Cigarettes are gross to me though.

>>18701975
Not really.

Women, why the fuck do you trash up public bathrooms? I thought for the longest time men had the worst bathrooms but after working in retal, the woman's restroom is far worse than the men's. Do women shit more often than men?

>>18701975
Yes but softly. So many women go for them like they're a stress ball and that hurts like getting punched will full force in the abdomen.

>>18702437
So sick of hearing about this. Women use more toilet paper than men. If men had to use toilet paper every time they pissed the mens room would be shit too. Also they have periods which if men had would add more shit to their bathrooms too...Mens bathrooms smell like piss btw from all the spray.

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>>18702450
wtf is happening haha

>>18702349
Please help
Stalking social media hasn't produced any evidence but she's really friendly with this one guy she's known for a long time

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>>18702455
Period + someone asssumed her gender + low sugar blood levels.

>>18702456
Ask her on date dingus. ON 1VS1 DATE. Use word DATE when asking her.
>inb4 friendzoned
Use friendzone as a mean to date her other female friends. Stop being beta orbiter / backup male and be bold!

>>18702466
In response to your jpg it is depressing seeing that

Why are girls purposefully trying to flirt with me in front of my gf? What do they get out of this?

>>18702466
>period

sexism.jpg

>>18702476
Survival of the fittest. Clever girl will secure husband before 30 and seal the deal with few babies so he cant run away. And to be sure, you need more than one husband candidate.

On the other hand, average male can date like 7 females without any trouble. Each day date with different slut.

Here have a penguin story
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=snl-WsFm-kc
Cuck or be cucked. Never put your partner on pedestal. Never love unconditionally.

>>18702477
It is called preselection. They look at how attractive is your gf and then their brain does computation: wow, he managed to score such beautiful girl, he has to be rich, loyal or very good quality husband material.

Also ideal state for girl is her being in stable relationship while every other boy is single so she has biggest chance to pick the best mate. Tldr it is all part of mating strategies.

>>18702489
So love is out of the equation in this case?

>>18702476
>In response to your jpg it is depressing seeing that

>2,000 of 125 million adult women in the US.
%0.0016 of the female adult population in the US.

Or on global scale:

>2,000 of 2.75 billion adult women in the world.
%0.00000073 of the female adult population in the world.

Yup. Representative of all women everywhere.

>>18702500
Love is something you work hard together with your partner. Love is when your wife pisses you off but you dont yell nor hit her, because after so many years together you know she didnt mean it. Love is living with someone so long that one day you realize that you cant live without them anymore.

What media and teens present you as a love is just lust, passion and cocktail of wild hormones in your body screaming: impregnate her!

Also take note a lot of people are assholes. And dumb. Look at divorce stats and how often she uses children as a weapon against him at court. When in ideal world the children are something what should bond them together.

If you are looking for longterm partner, you dont need the butterflies in your stomach. You need them to have same / compatible life goals and to ensure they are loyal and kind. The love will come down the line. Their character has to be compatible with yours from the start.

How common is it that women like their ass licked?

Women, What's your favorite fondle?

>>18701307
can anyone tell me if I'm just being stupid and overthinking this?

>>18702520
Could love spawn from your second paragraph and going on from there to your explanation of a true partner?
felt stupid saying this.

>>18702531
>can anyone tell me if I'm just being stupid and overthinking this?

Yes. Also I have no idea which one of those two you are, but regardless the fact that you are posting that convo here means:

Yes. You are overthinking this shit.

>>18702535
Why couldnt? As long as you fit into the last paragraph, you should be ok. Just take note the "love / horny" will one day inevitably pass and then you can turn into posters on /adv with question
>i am in relationship for X years, but i dont feel as strongly about my partner as before. They want to marry / have babies and i got cold feet. Also there is this person at work who makes my head spin, but i want to remain faithful. Wat do?

Always ask yourself what you want from life and act like it. If in your future vision is wife and children, you should always follow your brain first, not heart.

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So...I learned from 4chan that the vast majority of guys seem to care about youth and looks far more than any other trait.

I might be only 19 and a virgin because I never gave anyone a chance....and now it seems like I might as well stay alone. Reality depresses me too much. Is love really that shallow? Is it really just biology and procreation over anything else at the end of the day?

>>18702559
>Is love really that shallow?
Love needs something to grow from. Looks are the most abundant source because all it takes is a glance. It's entirely possible to fall for someones personality but that takes a crap ton of time on comparison.

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How do I properly break up if I am male and dumpee?

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>>18702559
Key word is MAJORITY. You dont need majority of guys to love you. You need just ONE.
>depress me
Pic related, but imagine qtie bf talking.

You have to be strong and fight for your own happiness. Also girls have it like 10 times easier than boys when it comes to dating games.
>biology
We are thinking animals on cold piece of rock inside of endless uncaring universe. Find your owm coping mechanism or go extinct. Just before you do something really stupid remember you are just dumb teenager. Your life hasnt even started properly yet. And now smile and go eat ice cream. I bet in your class is at least one boy who would date you without second thought. Good luck!

>>18702559
>I might be only 19 and a virgin because I never gave anyone a chance..

Can't tell if trying to be ironic/troll or not...

1.)You're a baby.


>.I learned from 4chan
2.)That's your 2nd fuck up.

4chan, Reddit, Buzzfeed, Vice, and most other popular boards where people share opinions or location where news is aggregated, are all gigantic echo-chambers that repeat and amplify particular ideologies or beliefs.

So if all you do is get your worldviews from one source, you're going to come out with a VERY skewed and VERY out of touch and unrealistic view of life.

The best thing to do is ALWAYS to draw from your own conclusions and personal experiences from life, then use that to filter and reflect upon what you gather from multiple other sources. Never just one. And for that matter, you never just try to draw from one single personal experience, you draw from as many that are as diverse as possible.

> Is love really that shallow?
3.) No. That's initial attraction, maybe lust. Not love.

Why do I only seem to attract white women ? I'm also white but I see a lot of white girls with brown and black guys. It's a little confusing because my personality is really white I went to private schools and college i became an accountant. I don't even hit on white women they usually come on to me but I never react or do anything because I'm not interested. Most other races of women want nothing to do with me only an occasional Asian girl which is probably what I'll end up with long term.

>>18702614
>why
Racism.
>>18701440

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>>18701913

A lot of people blame ghetto culture when the true answer is, most of them are just flat out fucking ugly. Hispanics can be just as ghetto, but they're never knocked for this. The fact is you can go weeks without seeing a single attractive black women. That's what it is. If the girls attractive you tolerate bullshit, that's why latina's have "hurr sexy latin rage" while black girls are "obnoxious sheboon". I wish people would just be real and stop trying to dance around the true answer.

>>18702614
>I'm also white

Retard

I'm filling out my OkCupid profile, and I want to put something about my dog in the "You should message me if" section. Should I? Something like:
>...you want to go urban mushing in [local park].
>...you want a cool dog without having to train it yourself.
>...you like big dogs.
I'm a chick, if that means anything.

>>18702674
Yeah but I see them with brown and black guys so obviously my skin color can't be too important.

>>18702676
>I'm a chick, if that means anything.

If means you can list virtually anything. Bring up muh dog later.

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>>18702676
Change
>you like big dogs
to
>you like big boobs / ass / pussy.
And you are good to go.
>inb4 i am not a slut
Pic related. It is online dating. Dont behave like slut when you meet him on dates and nobody will percieve you as that.

>>18702676
>I'm filling out my OkCupid profile,

Truth is, probably 95% of people don't read profiles.

As a dude who belongs to that 5% (And I think I'm a decent enough guy? Bit of a nerd and a self-admitted weirdo, but I've never been rejected for a second date. I actually pay attention to people and treat people as people. I get women who approach me in real life. Am not desperate, am sociable, and treated OKC as a "its funny to meet random people" tool--that I currently am in 2.5 year relationship from.) Probably this one?

>...you want to go urban mushing in [local park].

Shows a bit of your sense of humor. The downside, kind of hard to tell you have a dog from that.

Is it acceptable to date someone at your workplace?

Do women appreciate men being honest about themselves? i.e. "I don't give a shit about my job/field, I just want to take my paycheck and go home" "My hobbies are shitposting, video games, and porn"

>>18702783
I appreciate honesty a lot, but you seem like an undesirable person.

>>18702789

Only because if he's always straightforward and honest he can't fall for your delusional woman games.

And because if you stink he will tell ya without regret.

>>18702798
No.
I just wouldn't date a man who has no real interest in anything he does beside staying fapping and playing videogames.

I like honesty, but I think hearing something like that would turn me off.

>>18702676
Change "big dogs" to "big black dicks"

>>18701504
Wew that's a rare emoji. Quick google says: "A blue heart can symbolize a deep and stable love. Trust, harmony, peace and loyalty." But urban dictionary also says: "The alternative to using the red heart emoji, usually used over text and/or social media when one has entered the friend zone with a female."
>>18701715
You can keep it up or "feminize" yourself more. Even just the simple act of shaving can change your feeling about yourself. With that said there are guys who appreciate that sort of thing.
>>18701759
Yes anon there's a match out there for everyone.
>>18701849
Give it some time, then ask again if you want to. Don't bug her, you'll get your answer.
>>18701975
Yes

>>18702803

Sounds legit. But there are plenty of girls who actually lead this kind of life, so... he's a undesiderable person for you, not for everybody. Don't put him in a ghetto, you sound offensive.

>>18701961
Should I at least get it off my chest so it stop bothering me?

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>>18701440
>black men prefer asian women and latina women over black women
>white men prefer asian women over white women
>asian women prefer almost white men over asian women
>white women prefer black men over asian men
>no one likes black women (what the fuck)
>
>???
Is this accurate?

>>18701755
Fellow low-voiced girl here, and wow, I think you sound great. I wish my voice sounded so full, but it's just shallow.

>>18702818

Why giving her attention psyching up her up and putting yourself in a pityful state of mind?

She should pay for this service.

>>18702823
I'd be in a shitty state of mind anyway, so that's nothing really new.

She's also a really good friend of mine, so I'd help her anyway. Even if she weren't, I can't sit by and watch someone else be hurt with at least making an effort to help.

>>18702831

Prepare yourself for pain. Godspeed and I love your courage, I'm like you.

Is tinder really worth it outside of america?
The idea of letting a picture of myself be judged by random people does scare me somehow.

Also I always assumed it to be more suited for hookup-culture than the more nerdy types.

>>18702085
>Is it because you are starring at them whenever you see them and they want to acknowledge that they notice you are starring at them?
I don't stare at her. I can be just passing by and she will wave at me.

>>18702502
Also this is a common troll post bc it always gets you's.
Look at the "source", its just a little web quiz someone put up there that I'm sure started on 4chan where a bunch of bitter r9k fags flooded in pretending to be girls.

GUYS - if a girl you don't really know (but she apparently knows you) showed you a drawing she did of you would you think it's creepy? or how'd you feel?

>>18702886
Only if she is terrifyingly ugly.

>>18700514
why is that a girl shadowbanned me?

Oh and I never said anything bad to her
she just one day fully cut contact with me

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So I did this. It was as bizzare as you might think
I liked talking to her and she was attractive but towards the end she was just gossiping with friends and I quit trying to be part of it. I knew one of the friends though.
I'll probably get another date with her. How do I politely insist it just be the two of us?

So I'm trying online dating after finally getting over my ex.

So there's this girl that messaged me saying "Hey handsome, how's school?"(I put in my profile that I was going to the local trade school while working as an apprentice)

Now I have a few red flags popping up in my head as soon as I looked at her profile and I want the advice of other people. Figured this was a good thread so I can get some female input as well.

She has only 1 full face shot, one with only part of her face showing and then two other pictures of her but they are awkward angles like her kneeling down in a garden from behind and then one oh her in a hammock in winter clothes.

Not getting a full body shot makes me assume she's gonna be fat. Though her face didn't have that usual chub look to it that most overweight people get.

She also put in her bio that she's bi-sexual. And although I know not everyone does that for attention It always makes me instantly skeptical.

As well as the fact that she messaged me first. I mean I don't think I'm ugly, but I'm not exactly a 10/10 and I know most girls who are even remotely attractive get drowned in messages and usually don't bother or have to message other people first.

What do you guys think? I mean I guess I can always see where it goes and bail if needs be?

How do extroverts show affection to the people they really care about?

I, as in introvert, see giving someone undivided attention and unconditionally listening is the most precious gift I could give, but extroverts seem to give it out willy nilly because of how easy it is. Whats something that they rarely give out?

so my girlfriend and i, we tried to have sex in inappropriate places all of which ended up with premature ejacultions because i was too nervous since they all happened spontaneously when i had no means of protection. neither of us have a place to do it so that's why these kinda things keephappening (i kinda have my own place but my roommate doesn't even allow me to have guests).

we're thinking of going to sea next week and i'm thinking of asking her to come over for a couple of hours to watch something and chill. is this a good idea?

>>18703102
my roommate won't be here that day. forgot to mention it.

>>18703009
If that's true it doesn't matter why, just forget she existed. Don't get hung up on weirdoes.

>>18703102
bump for this

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>>18702778
Dont shit where you eat. If you still decide to do it, start looking for new job.

>>18702821
You read it wrong. The percentages are about
>this race is this more likely to ask you on date / give you match / like. 0% is 100%.

>>18702864
You will never know until you actually try it yourself. You get results based on how you use it.

>>18702886
I would ask her on date because it is obvious you want my D. But take note that majority of boys are super obvious and stupid when it comes to dating. Rather ask him if he is single and smile while doing it.

>>18703048
Jist go there with her friends. Who knows, maybe you will end up dating one her friends instead. Use her a tool to get better girls.

>>18703053
Stop overthinking nonsense and ask her on date.

>>18703077
Engagement ring.
>your question is very vague, try to ask about something more specific so i can tell you: ask them on date

>>18703102
Netflix and chill is always good idea if you will escalate via cuddling. Go ahead tiger!

girl broke up with me several months ago with no reason to start a relationship with a new guy.

Now she often shows up with him at places where she knows I will be.

She always gets super excited and scans my face for a reaction.

the first two months I was really sad, but now I find her obnoxious.

what does she mean by this? trying to make me jealous?

does she really think I would take her back?

>>18703312
For certain type of girls, they have bf only as a source of attention. We call them attention whores. She doesnt want you (possibly even him), but your attention. She plays with you as a cat with mouse.