I talked about my father about my professional plans for the future
i know it sounds fucking stupid but now my motivation's dead. I didn't want to tell him about what i wanted to do, i wanted to silently keep at it and work my way up, but he insisted so much to know, saying that he didn't understand why i didn't want to talk about it, that i told him.
I don't know why but now i feel really bad, i can feel him beginning to have expectations about me, i really regret telling him about it. I wanted to impress him with actions, not words.
I know it sounds stupid as fuck but i'm really feeling bad about this, i think it might compromise the realization of my plans, what can i do ???
did somebody hear experienced this ? I know how ridiculous it sounds but i need help with this
The best way to make sure your plans and dreams never happen is telling people about them.
Just do it, keep it to yourself until you achieve your goals because after you achieve something it is hard to steer you off that path.
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you're right and i'm aware of that, but it's too late, my father knows now... Am i fucked ? I literally feel like it was a crucial mistake even though i feel like it shouldn't make me react that bad... I was really motivated about my stuff but now i'm just anxious... Is it weird ??