I am aware that most (if not all) of my friends would not hang out with me if they had someone cooler to hang out with.
For example, if they had the chance to replace me with a cool frat guy from Fiji or something I believe they immediately would. And given enough time, I think it's likely they will.
Am I being paranoid? Or is this the truth for most people?
>>18692034
It's the truth for most friendships. Very few are true friendships that ignore value.
That's a shame. You need to prove your worth to them somehow. I don't know you so I don't know how you'd do it but you need to prove that your worth sticking with somehow, otherwise, as sad as it is, you probably aren't.
All friendships are circumstantial OP. If you suddenly went to live on the other end of the world chances are your friends would stay where they are and stop hanging out with you, instead of following you into the sunset. Friendships change, come and go. For the current situation your friends want to hang out with you. I don't see why this bothers you so much.
>>18692630
>That's a shame. You need to prove your worth to them somehow.
He's right. You need to kill the Fiji guy.
>>18692791
>Anon creates a national campaign to dismantle the fraternity system on the grounds it enforces gender roles when really he just wants to feel secure around his friends