>you need to be confident >BUT you need to be accept rejection

Confidence is just being self-assured. Know who you are, your self-worth. Being rejected isn't always a reflection of your character.

>>18691712
>it's a conflating confidence with a lack of rejection thread

Anon, look inwards for your confidence, not outwards

>>18691712
Those two things aren't mutually exclusive like you seem to imply
If anything, real confidence helps you accept rejection

>>18691729

Ask out a girl, she says no. Okay. Move on.

Ask out another girl, she also says no. Okay. Maybe there's something wrong with me.

Turn 28 one day and realize you've been asking out girls your whole life and they've all turned you down. How do I even confidence at this point?

>>18691767
you cant, confidence is not a magic substance, you develop it through success

success with girls come from:
>looks
>social status
>financial status
>how you express yourself

generally, your success in real life radiates to women that will give you their attention

>>18691712
There is no contradiction there at all.

Confidence means that when someone rejects you, you say to yourself they're wrong, and set out to prove it by not being rejected next time.

>>18691767
By realizing that your entire life you have only asked two girls out. Get in tinder and start playing the numbers game like everyone else.