When I was 14 and my cousin was 10 or 11 I set it up for her an I to play a game where we'd tickle each other with our eyes closed.
I did this to touch her boob and her butt. That's it. Clothes never came off, no genitals were involved or anything, she just giggled.
Many years later I feel guilty and terrible. I'm pretty sure she's fine but I'm not sure if I should apologize to her or not. I feel like I'm a bad guy for not saying sorry but at the same time what if it didn't even register for her and I'm bringing it up?
TLDR: Touched cousin inappropriately many years ago and feel bad about it. Should I apologize or just move on? Anyone have similar experiences? Is this shit common?
Leave it alone. The past is the past and though apologizing will make you feel better, it will probably just be awkward and stressful for her
>>18691311
If she never realized you were doing it to molest her than leave it be? What good could possibly come from bringing it up? Do you think you're going to feel better if she starts to hate you for groping her when she was little?
Punch yourself in the balls really hard.
>>18691321
That what I figured. I just wanted to make sure It was considered taking the easy way out. I had no idea what I was doing at the time and I feel awful about.
>>18691322
That's the thing, I don't know if she never realized it. She's never acted weird towards me afterwards or anything like that so I guess I should assume she doesn't know?
Don't you dare apologize or mention anything about it. She might remember and then you'll be in deep shit about it.
Leave it alone, don't get accused of molesting her and ruin your life.