Im 23 and I've never had a real relationship in my life. I spent all my time in college studying and working to pay for school instead of partying or developing hobbies. Now my dad told me on fathers day he doesnt want any gift, he just wants me to find a girlfriend or at least go on a couple dates, but im in grad school and was studying for quals and doing research all summer, so my best option was tinder/bumble/okcupid. But i dont have anything in common with the types of girls I can bare to look at. Sure I could find a hamplanet with blue hair or some inbred girl, but at that point id just be more depressed, is there anything I can do or should I just kill myself now?