Hey all, I have a problem that might be a bigger challenge I should overcome.
About a year ago, I was a really weak person and nowhere near the kind of man I wanted to be. I met a girl and despite my non-existent confidence and craptastic social skills, we became close and eventually, I slept with her. She had some major issues that came out as we started getting personal and we had a few sexual encounters and she cut contact with me afterward. She apologized so many times and it was a mess. Needless to say, I was confused, sad, and angry.
Fast forward to now, I've done a lot of growing and I feel awful for what happened. I could've diffused it, knowing what I know now and I want to apologize to her. She actively avoided me at first but things are calm now. I really want to talk to her, what should I do?