Not meant for relationship

What does that even mean?

>>18690850

I don't feel like i should have a girlfriend

Absolutely, I'm with you anon.

Yeah, definitely feel you on this one.

>>18690843
What adversity do you face?

>>18690856
You don't think you should or you think it's too much work?

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>>18690843
I can relate despite my gril (i.e., 4chan's "Easy Mode") status.

reason: too much of an autist to have chemistry with someone. RIP. Maybe this may or may not apply to OP, but it's like that feeling of being a castaway alone on an island. Too distant, too unappealing--guys have it even worse.

Yeah I totally feel you, even though I've had a girlfriend now since 2015 I still feel deep down I should truly be alone feelsbadman.jpeg

>>18690843
I'm too selfish and independent for romance. I'm open to being friends with people but they are hard to find at my age since my peers are settling down to marriage/kids. This sounds self pitying so I might add that I focus on career, lifting and my vegetable gardening hobby.

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>>18690843

the thought of being obligated to either leave my house several times a week (outside of being paid to do it) or have my sanctuary invaded by someone else stops me from making any lasting relationships with people. even the occasional "hey anon wanna go out to eat" after work drains me, and i genuinely like these people.

but i'm a video game and porn addicted furry, so you're probably just a crazy/lazy person like me.

>>18690843
I feel like I'll never have a gf, I've dated many girls, but I've never been in a committed relationship, this may sound cocky but idk I just feel like very few women are worthy of my love as a fully committed partner. I have only thought one woman ever was worthwhile and she was engaged when I knew her, she was the last woman I was seriously interested in, and I would go far out of my way to be with..... That was 3 years ago and I haven't met anyone similar since.

She was kind, intelligent, she set very high goals for her to achieve that she would actually complete, she wasn't a snob, she didn't think she was better than anyone, she loved science and research, she loved nature and was an environmentalist , she was soft spoken and well spoken too! and not to mention she was amazingly beautiful, she had a body that was like a piece of art, an amazing ass, stunning face. Long flowing burgundy hair.

I mean I may be hyping her up too Much she was awkward overall and a little hard to communicate with over the phone,

but she is the only woman that I think would be wife material for me

Maybe I'm expecting to much out of women??? No girl has even come close since.

Sounds like you're thinking about it way too much and causing undue stress.

>>18690843
I know that feel I am clinically confirmed with a personality disorder. I show clear signs of narcisstic and histronic personality disorder.

>>18691336

It's not about the work. I just don't feel like I would be compatible. Like I literally can't imagine having one. Just yesterday I was talking with someone and they said "I bet your girlfriend must be excited!". I laughed for a second and then told them I don't have one. Even just them assuming that I have one seems ridiculous to me.

>>18691465

Oh absolutely. Anytime I'm by myself it's instantly all I think about and it gives me a constant ache in my chest.

I wish I knew how to not think about this shit. I do stay pretty busy, but during any free time, those thoughts hit me hard. It's been like this for years

A childhood of being bullied by my friends and neglected by my parents coupled with nearly a decade of social isolation hasn't left me in a great place socially. I've been trying to fix myself for 5 years now but it doesn't feel like I've even scratched the surface.

I don't feel like I'll ever be capable of connecting with anyone, let alone have a long term relationship with the opposite sex.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uP6QhCz42jw&feature=youtu.be
mcdonalds is the only ship i like to sail on lol

>>18692499
Hey are you me?

>>18692515

I fucking love McDonalds. I'm going to go there now

>>18692499
>>18692522
Hey, I'm in the same boat as the two of you, I feel I've made a ton of progress through, emotionally if nothing else.
I've often gone the extra mile for friends I just met before, and I wouldn't mind making two more.

>>18691384
takes me 6 months to a year before I have chemistry with anyone.
>tfw no high-functioning autistic gf

>>18690843
Yeah, I crave love and affectiok but I also crave being alone for months on end

>feel lonely 1 month
>feel I want my own space 6 months
>don't care 2 months, super ok
>suddenly feel alone again, 3 months

Wtf is wrong I wish I could know. But I'm a chubby girl that has no friends and I still haven't made an effort to lose my virgin card or bother with friends or relationships.
23 years old btw

I wish there was this artificial intelligence bf you could just on and off with netflix and chill and a strap-on/dildo.

I am ok though, never been better and I am constantly improving and getting better at hobbies

>>18692749
Yeah, pretty much feel the same. Current friends I have I just don't care too much about (they're cool, I'm just socially lethargic), and with dating I just have trouble finding the right person that I enjoy being around.

Good that you're improving though, relationships aren't everything, sometimes self-improvement is all it takes to fix what's wrong with you.

>>18690843
Everyone I have a connection with ends up cheating on me or ghosting me. I thought being a girl was supposed to be easy but it seems like men have better luck finding girls they can stick with.
I'm tired and jaded but I still want to wait at home to kiss my man and embrace him when he comes home.

>>18693236
I guess the average adv poster isn't that different, regardless of gender.

After a while you'll get tired of being ruled by passing thoughts and emotions. I thought I was meant to be alone for the longest but then I realized that makes no fucking sense. I have a penis and the desire to be mated so how can I think I'm meant to be alone? It's a complete self defeating not to mention irrational belief. And if I truly am meant to be alone, it won't be for lack of trying. OP, stop thinking so much and go after what you want. This life is short and there are no retries.

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Who told you guys that you are not meant for a relationship?
Or worse, not meant for love and affection?
Whoever told you this, even if you told yourself so, that's bullshit.

Stop thinking you're worse than somebody else because your crush didn't like you back, somebody bullied you at school or anything else.
Have some respect and love for yourself and you will find people who like you, in the end it's all a matter of how you perceive yourself.

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I know that this sounds absolutely cheesy, maybe even cringy (especially the tumblr stuff), but it's the best advice I can offer.

>>18693350
Thank you

>>18693392
>>18693350
Fucking cringe fags.

>>18690843
I agree, but I'm in the same boat as
>>18691452
So I guess that's not surprising.

>>18693350

I don't exactly think I'm "worth" less than someone else. I just believe I'm not meant for love or affection.

It's not a question about worth. I just don't think it's something that's suppose to experience. I just think shit happens, and that's my shit. Other people may never get to eat cake because they are allergic to milk, so they never experience that part of life. For me, I just think I'm not suppose to experience love or affection

>>18690843
you're over exposed to normies.

it's not fate or destiny, no one is "meant" for a freakin' thing.

It's about will. You either can make it happen or you're. That being said, maybe you're one of those incapable of making romance happen. I feel for you, brother, I feel I'm in that same boat. But love and affection come in all different forms. Maybe you'll never make romance happen, but you can still earn other kinds of love. Maybe there's still a life worth living, Anon.

>>18693746

>But love and affection come in all different forms. Maybe you'll never make romance happen, but you can still earn other kinds of love

Explain

>>18693748

The kind that you pay for.

I keed, I keed.


I mean make some fucking friends, be the kind of man that earns admiration and respect.

Golly, this shit really has to be explained to you 'spergy little biscuits, don't it?

>>18690843

Saying you weren't "meant" for relationships implies that the situation is out of your control which is false. I understand you're grasping for validation here but you should also know that finding and connecting with other people who feel just as powerless as you doesn't mean you are actually powerless. Don't trick yourself into believing that a positive feedback look of feeling worthless and acquiring validation of your worthlessness through other people is a true representation of reality. It isn't.

>>18693756

I have a bunch of friends. And I'm well liked by my co-workers. I can't even understand this sometimes, but sometimes they pay for my food. One time I asked a co-worker to pick me up a sandwich since he was going out to grab lunch for a few people. I handed him $10 for it, and when he got back and gave me my food, my $10 was in my bag. I tried to give it back to him and he laughed and said "don't worry about it!"