26 year old virgin bf-less kissless femanon with serious anxiety and trust issues, and a spattering of other mental health problems that I've been putting a lot of work into getting under control. About a year ago I made a friend, of which I have very few, with a guy who is my opposite in many ways. He's fun loving, openly sexual, care free, and caring. I've been considering lately asking him to help me out, take my v-card, and show me the ropes.
Are there reasons I shouldn't do this? He's one of the few guys who I've ever met who I really don't feel at all that he'd ever hurt me, or judge me for my shortcomings. I'm not looking to him to be a boyfriend or anything, since I know that's not going to happen. I just want to get some firsts out of the way and feel less crippled.
>>18690008
Just ask him on a date dumbass
Don't do it unless you're willing to date him if that's what he wants. Otherwise go nuts, almost any guy would take up the opportunity to "show you the ropes"
You will be just another alpha widow.
>>18690008
>less cripled
Lol. Well, go ahead. With your current mental status you probably wont salvage your life anyway. So yes, have sex with him.
Just remember that virginity is social construct and sticking penis inside your vagina wont solve any of your problems, only maybe make you pregnant and give you some free stds.