What does it mean to be a man?
>>18688450
But a miserable pile of secrets?
Nothing, it doesn't mean anything. Like anything else, you put your own meaning onto it.
>>18688450
You have to find your own definition which you are able and willing to pursue.
being a man is trusting in yourself and being confident in doing your own thing, you can be polite or whatever but never conform to what other people want you to be and never feel like you should be going out of your way to be accepted by others.
if you just do you and follow your own path, people will come to you. this is why the 'man' is always the one leading rather than the guy who is unsure of himself, because the 'man' knows who he is and where he is going.
>>18688450
It means whatever you want it to mean.
>>18688450
>What does it mean to be a man?
Nothing. People might put expectations on you, but they are contradictory and you can't make everyone else happy. So focus on being happy yourself first.
>>18688450
Being a man is not an honorific term. There are good men and there are bad men but being a man just means you have male genitals. Really.
I get society expects you to "man up" and women abuse your desire for them by shaming you to be a "real man", but actually, you can do whatever you want. Just don't hurt people.
>>18688450
CRUSH YOUR ENEMIES
SEE THEM DRIVEN BEFORE YOU
AND HEAR THE LAMENTATIONS OF THEIR WOMEN
>>18688450
It means being yourself if you are one.
A boy looks to others for guidance, comfort, and support. A man understands that all the power he needs comes from within, and it's a scary moment because you'll realize your life is in your hands.
Will you die a man or a dog? Live for you bro. Live because you're just a dead man that hasn't died yet. Challenge yourself, try new things, laugh heartily so that you may look back at your life without regret before you depart.
That, to me, is what it means to be human. It's rose-colored, I know., but life is cruel.
means being whatever a man means to you
>>18688479
Fpbp
>>18688589
Yeah
>>18688611
i like this post
To be a man is to stop making this fucking thread
Tbh. I think that's the most important thing
To be independent, while having others rely on you for their well being.
>>18689528
That's too old skool
>>18689528
Best post on thread.
>>18688450
a real man is himself always, and doesnt care whta others do or think.
Being a man makes you a racist, sexist, homophobe. Patriarch!
>>18688450
The opposite of everything your single mom told you.
>make a lot of money
>fuck a lot of bitches
>cuck some beta male
>get power and influence along the way
>settle with a hot gf
>have kids that continues your legacy
Basically it.
It means to have a Y chromosome instead of two X's. Nothing more, nothing less.
>>18689670
Wrong picture.
>>18689674
Goddammit, wrong again.
>>18688450
Impregnate women
And be sastisfied with your achievements in life
>>18688450
You have a killer bitch slap with your left and right hand and backhand.
>>18688589
Don't listen to him OP. If you go down that path you'll be destined to wear the crown upon a troubled brow.
>>18688450
Having a penis.
>>18689778
fag
>>18689528
/thread
I think to be a man means that you experience more pain and heartache in your life but you cannot show people that you are suffering. You have to be the solemn, silent sufferer or else be accused of being soft or non-masculine. Being male means you have to scrap for everything you desire, that you either create your majestic reality or be buried by it. Masculinity is unforgiving, rigid, difficult, destructive. Not following these rules banished you to the outer realms of society, to be without a wife or a good living.
>>18688450
SORT
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>>18689837
I think that's not true.
Men will be whatever they're going to, and anything more is fucking bullshit. If you're silently suffering, you should be doing it for yourself and not for the people around you, and if you're doing it for the people around you, you should be doing it because you care about them and for no other reason.
If you're doing it because society expects you to, you're a fucking idiot, and you should commit suicide.
Read this book.
It's one of the highest recommended books for men ever. Changed my life.
>>18688501
Sure, that and a pair of testicles.
>>18690400
Dubs wins it. Good night.
>>18689955
This. Literally.
>>18688450
listen to Jordan Peterson on youtube, or his podcast
>>18690003
>>18689837
A man can share his feelings and his pain. He can do this because he is secure in his masculinity. Insecurity is not a masculine trait.