Hesitation

maybe you hesitate because you're given a choice on the spot? Maybe you need time to decide what is the best choice for you/your goals?

Either way it's not really a problem. Just do what you think is best. If someone gives you shit tell them to eat a dick.

>>18688456
Some of my close friends said that i should make a rational decision first and foremost. I'm really confused on how to make this possible.

>>18688496
Weigh up your options. Look at the pluses and the minuses. Not every option is going to be perfect. Look at them with no emotion involved and then make a logical decision that best suits you.
Once you've made a decision; commit to it. There's no telling whether it was the right or wrong one until you take it, but at least you moved forward instead of being stuck in the same place forever.

take the time looking at each option don't rush into things your exactly comfy with