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I feel compelled to visit a long time crush again after I felt like they've been treating me like an afterthought online the past year.
Though they may be hesitant at first; they always seem content whenever Im over there. It's like I only matter when Im in the flesh and not text online.
Would it be a good idea to visit them on short notice so that I could get my usual kicks and maybe iron out any issues?
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>>18687989
>Would it be a good idea
Would me telling you that it's not a good idea keep you from going? Because it's not, but I'm guessing you'll go anyway.
My advice: don't nurture crushes. Nurturing a crush has a way of turning your affection away from the person and toward an idealized version of the person. Crushes are tempting to nurture, because they present the illusion that relationships are puzzles that can be sorted out with long-game strategies. "One day my crush will see me the way I see them. I just need more time to figure this out." But crushes make you less likely to have a real relationship with the person you crush on, not more.
As soon as you become interested in a person, act on your interest. Don't employ strategy, don't try to figure out whether they're interested in you, just act on your interest while it's still just interest and not smoldering adoration.
tldr: chronologically, falling for someone belongs after dating that someone, not before.
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>>18687989
If she only thinks about you when your in her presence, then you do the same visa versa, you'll be fine OP. Don't fall for a hoe!
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