Why am I mother to these degenerates?

Doesn't sound like you concider them friends that much? How is their life falling apart? Can they contribute more?

>>18684428
Well one of them is likely being evicted.
Drinking like a madman and has been shit posting on facebook. Even posted some graphic shit about his girlfriend he swears he hates. Until just recently does he suddenly want to come hangout and sleep over.

Another one he started getting invovled with a married woman aside from his various girlfriends I don't typically care about. (he's single. Go ahead hook up but.. not with married women) Apparently my boyfriend and I are the only ones keeping him from accepting an offer by the married woman to go to Dublin ?

We've bailed these guys out from driving drunk or getting to messed up. But >_> man

>>18684410
Sounds like a one sided relationship to me. You know the signs that say " don't feed the animals " ? You know because they gotta learn how not to depend on humans and feed themselves? So just tell them to feed themselves. I can already tell you don't want to be mean, but come on they're literally feeding off you! They only keep you around to feed you. Question I have is why the fuck do you keep them around?

>>18684410
You have become an enabler.
You don't want to be an enabler.

Well if you are keeping them around make house rules. They have to contribute with something. No freeloding. I had friends stay here when times were hard. Bare minimum was doing the dishes and cook dinner I payed for and actively be looking for a job.

>>18684530
enabling us for a little bit but then figured sobriety is better route

>>18684475
otay gotcha, aminals will not be fed.
(they used to have a handle on their lives. they used to play shows a lot and we'd go)

>>18684541
lol eh