How do I get better at sex? I'm always so nervous that I'm going to dissapointed someone that I either can't get hard or cum way too fast. Sometimes it takes forever for me to get hard and then the sex is short lived. Has anyone else has shit like this happen to them before and are there remedies?
1) Quit masturbating for a while to reset your sex circuits. You may be dead inside from too much extreme porn.
2) Death grip syndrome is real - vary your masturbation routine. When you use porn, stick to softcore and amateur or less slick productions. Both will help you get hard and stay hard. I can recommend stuff from DesperateAmateurs.com and AbbyWinters.com
3) Foreplay. Play with her nipples, finger her and lick her until she pops (your jaws will get sore, sorry, just push through it) Get her to orgasm before you put your dick anywhere near her. It'll drastically lower her threshold for having another, so when you start fucking proper, she'll be right there with you. Get her engine revving and two minutes is all you'll need.