Basically, I am a pathetic 22 year old who for whatever reason did not have their first kiss at a normal age. After using tinder for a year, and having 5 first dates, I finally have a second date. It's tomorrow!
I should be happy about this, right?
Apparently not. I'm just super scared that she's expecting me to kiss her, and I have no fucking clue how to initiate it, or actually do it. I asked my normie friend, and she said some stuff about making sure I'm doing stuff with my hands, and said that if she's looking at my lips then it means she wants to kiss. But I still don't actually know what I'm meant to do. Like, we touch lips, and then what? I feel like I'm being stupid.
Any help guys?
>>18682889
It honestly comes pretty naturally.
I was in a very similar boat as you, had my first 'real' kiss earlier this summer, I didn't tell her that tho but when I asked later how it went she mentioned that I was a bit strange for the first couple minutes then got better. I just blamed it on nerves/I was at an awkward angle.
>>18682889
In my experience (had two 7 year girlfriends, dated a lot more), I had to learn to kiss every girl I began dating with. Of course, there's some general advice, like: don't close your mouth during the kiss, don't drool, move your tongue, have a good breath, etc. But, in general, you gotta practice a lot. Don't be nervous, take every opportunity as a way of learning.