Thread replies: 7
Thread images: 1
Thread images: 1
File: tmp_3461-odWzDCo_d1546514787.jpg (32KB, 640x400px) Image search:
[Google]
32KB, 640x400px
So i had some personal issues the past few weeks, it's caused me to not act myself. Apparently the way I behaved made me no longer attractive to this girl ive slowly been talking to more and more, she completely changed personality, at first she was shy and seemed to take a lot of care not to come across in a way that would make me not like her, now after the last few weeks of my mood being poor suddenly she's not longer shy and clearly acting like who she really is. Basically the issue was there were a few times she was joking and I took it seriously (I hadn't taken my antidepressants for a week and my mood was horrible, I was super depressed) basically I bet she thinks she did something wrong and got over it/me.
My question is, what the fuck? How can someone act one way then another completely and act like nothing changed?
>>
women
>>
>>18677266
she doesn't like you anymore.
>>
You should probably get yourself better first and then go after women.
>>
>>18677283
Uh, yeah? I said as much in my post. My confusion is through the 180 in behavior, it's so obvious. And I really don't know what to do for this situation in general, since due to my meds my memory was also shot so I don't even really remember what I might have done to turn her away. Fuck it..?
Also wonder how this will pan out when I go back to being my regular self, sadly she'll never know my true self that loves to joke around.
And this was an exception thing, due to a series of unfortunate events I didn't have my medication for a couple weeks. Normally I'm fine.
>>
>>18677266
Sorry to inform you but you torpedoed any possibility of being with that girl.
The first impression and month are VITAL to cementing whatever image you want the woman to see you in. If you wanted to be a funny, laid back, cool guy but then aspergered out during that priming period then it's all been for naught.
Don't worry, senpai; there's plenty of girls out there for you practice on and one day with enough experience you'll be the Apex predator of slaying sluts.
>>
>>18677445
Well, we'd been acquaintances ahwile before that, being at mutual gatherings. You don't think that once I'm back to normal after ahwile she'd start to question her judgement of me? Well whatever happens happens. Not gonna lie though that's pretty shitty to judge someone who otherwise has always acted one way around you because for a couple weeks they were off.
I just wish I knew what I did so I could learn, all I got from this was 'yoire at the beck of life circumstances screwing things up.
Also I would have said something about my depression stuff but I don't want to share that kind of thing with someone I don't know that well, hell even that circle of friends doesn't know. This sucks. Oh well, I didn't want to lead anyone on and I guess that problem is solved for me.
Why do I have a compulsion to figure out what she liked about me and what changed despite it not mattering anymore? It's distracting.
Thread posts: 7
Thread images: 1
Thread images: 1