My girlfriend takes a hundred fucking years to get turned on

I call bullshit on her not having at least some sort of fantasy. I think the problem may be less about what you are doing and more of whether or not she wants to be sexual with you.

How long have you two been together?

>>18672076
Every girl wants a MMF threesome. Suggest it.

does she have a history of abuse?

>>18672142

That's a thought.

>>18672076

Is she on hormonal birth control? This is a common side effect.

Suggest both of you looking at porn together, but insist that she chooses stuff to look at.

There's supposed some research out there that found not all women are physically capable of orgasms.

>>18672139
Cuck.

OP, she is probably not very attracted to you. Perhaps its time to move on?

you can ask here to tell you what to do. and be playful. foreplay is important. have to get my lady going without touching her lady bits or she is too sensitive. tantric is also good for teaching new stuff.

>>18672151
i can confirm this, i used to cum like 4 fucking times by the time my bf did and now that i'm on hormonal birth control it takes EONS. they also can tend to make women depressive, which can make sexual problems even worse. if you think your gf's problems are from this, let her know that non-hormonal bc methods like paragard exist.

>>18672076
your girlfriend sounds like she has some kind of sexual baggage or a high amount of nervousness/self consciousness around sex. there's also a really good chance you're pressing way too hard on the clit because i've yet to meet another woman who hasn't experienced this with at least one man. a lot of women can't handle direct clit contact.

my bf used to have issues with never actually touching my body or anything before he tried to have sex. he would get suddenly around by something and was enough for him to want to fuck me, but my body wasn't quite there even though i was very attracted to him and interested in having sex with him. we need more prep-work and frequently it works better to have slower, more gentle, and consistent stimulation.

if you think the problem is just fear, try to talk to her about it in a way that reassures her that you're wanting to have her comfortable with sex with you and that you want to enjoy it with her. many women are conditioned to believe that us being sexual is an inherently dirty, bad thing and that makes it more difficult for them to be willing to discuss fantasies.

>omg she must have sexual baggage or past abuse

Maybe she's just not a very sexual person.

>>18672189
aroused, not around.

>>18672173
this can be a huge turn off for a lot of women, so i would approach this topic carefully. i'm personally repulsed by most porn (and particularly the concept of leading up to sex with porn) even though i'm very comfortable with sex and have no problem engaging in fetishes.

Also a good point.