My roommate/tenant has struggled to pay rent on time in the past. I get it, but it's late frequently, or I have to remind him about it and get excuses. He has been unemployed since January with the exception of a few spot jobs that last a couple of weeks. Rent's now two days overdue and I need to confront him tomorrow.
I know he is completely out of cash and I don't really want to put him on the street, because I can afford this place without him, and I don't want to have to throw away his stuff, or have it on my conscience that he's sleeping in his car at best, or on the streets at worst.
I'm thinking of suggesting to him that he abandon the idea of waiting on the right job, and suck it up and go get a job at the gas station or something.
Without suggesting I kick him out, what's the best way for me to deal with this and get him employed? (And yes, I have talked about this guy on /adv/ before, but I need new ideas.)
Oh fuck god I'm in a similar boat. Thankfully for me, the roommate has a mother that'll continue to fund him.
>>18670686
He sounds lazy. He needs to figure out it's not free to live there and tell him to get a job and you're not paying the other half. Also, just because you CAN pay both half's doesn't mean you should.
>>18670804
He's not even paying half. He's paying $400 a month. I'm covering the other 2/3rds of the house.
>>18670815
Then wtf are you doing. Dude i know you don't want to kick him out but that's really the only option unless he gets a fucking job
That nigga needs to be gone, son. You don't suggest shit to him.
>If this happens again, I'm starting the eviction notice. I've been polite but these incidents have been going on for eight months and either you need to fulfill your responsibilities or I'll find another tenant that can.
>>18670817
>>18670828
He's a quiet, manageable dude. At my age (30), I'm not really going to find another tenant that isn't a pain in the ass to get to know and everything.
I'd rather have the $4,800 than kick him out, even if it's late. But I'd still like to get paid, or trust that I'm getting paid.
Again, my conscience is holding me back here, too.
>>18670863
It's had to find a good long term job these days. I know you want the money but what if he did chores for you? 5 bucks to wash your dishes, 10 bucks to do your laundry, couple bucks to run errands? It's a start to helping him pay you back.
>>18670919
He's 33 years old, and has experience working in the airforce, in IT, and in retail/customer service. I actually met him at work (six years ago), which is why I thought he would be a suitable roommate. He originally moved in to save money after a divorce and a roommate that had no money. I've since tripled my income, and he has continued to bounce from job to job.
>>18670923
Is he qualified to work where you work? Why not try to help him find a stable job?