Feeling guilty for no reason

Yes. It isn't the sex. It's the drop in test. Go fuck a hooker and get over yourself.

>>18669066

>Go fuck a hooker and get over yourself

People told me the exact same thing before "go fuck some slut and you'll feel better". So 3 years ago I made a tinder account thinking maybe my 2nd time would be better. Nope. The bitch made fun of me and turned me off of sex even more.

It's not my testosterone

>>18668966
You need to start loving yourself first. After that you got to realize that you shouldnt prevent yourself from enjoying what life has to offer. Even if women turn you down who gives a flying fuck? I'm still alive and your pussy don't prevent me from getting pussy.

>>18668966
And OP women condition you to have that reaction to them but most aren't smart enough to realize it. It's not ED, I don't need a cialis, I don't need testosterone, you just have to act like you want this dick. If not I'm sure that someone else will.

>>18669136

I am working on myself. I have really turned myself around a lot the past year or so. But the thought of me potentionally having a girlfriend seems bothersome. Like, I really don't believe it's something I'm suppose to have.

An example, this girl that I sort of know has been flirty with me lately, I don't reciprocate. I noticed she's been being more obvious now. When we were talking about the cooler weather she said "ohh that's better for cuddling" and gave me a grin. She's cute, so my natural instinct is saying one thing, but deep in my chest I have this feeling saying "don't do it". If I do I'll regret it. It's a very strong feeling and it conflicts with my natural male instinct

>>18669191
Trust me man I got of a divorce from a marriage that lasted over 10 years. What you're feeling is laid out on the MGTOW movement. You're trying to see the value of such interaction on the long term. Nothing wrong with that. But instead of priming yourself for negativity you got to think of it like this:

1. What risks are there if this goes south?

2. Don't give her anything you'd end up missing.

3. How much of a risk is she? What I mean by this is what risk is there in being with her.

Pretty much use cost vs benefit.

>>18669237

>You're trying to see the value of such interaction on the long term.

You're absolutely right about this. I see it as an investment.

>what are the risks?

Well the 2 biggest ones which are very serious concerns for me.. divorce and pregnancy. I really never want to be a father. I know in relationships mistakes happen, and that is a big reason people have kids. Because they got caught up in the moment and forgot to be careful, next thing you know, a kid comes out.

>>18668966
Religious and family morals bro, get rid of them. If you feel guilty than something is making you feel that way, focus on your thought process. e.g.
Have wank -> Think about what your parents would think if they caught you -> feel guilty

Have sex with man -> Think about religion -> YOU HAVE SINNED


Eliminate the middle process.

Have wank -> think everybody does it (probably even your parents or siblings do it, mostly girls cuz they can't get anough ammi raight? <3 DICK) -> feel relieved because now you feel fucking awesome and you have endorphins running around yo body

>>18669318

I'm not a family person nor am I religious

>>18668966

kys

>>18669688
Can recommend, done it couple of times always fucked it up now im stuck here with you guys

>>18669066
>>18669106
Unfortunately this happened to me. But the girl I bang actually was a hooker. This is bad advice.
I'm just hoping to find a girl that's actually nice that will be patient. That's what I hope for you too, op.

>>18669191
>>18669295
Are you me? We're you neglected as a child, by any chance OP?

Mm, after familiarizing myself with the Theravadan Buddhist sutras as I gave up on sex. Life's been a lot more enjoyable not worrying about women

>>18671290
I gave up on sex* It's a calm in my heart

>>18671286

Maybe a little. My parents went through a bad divorce when I was a teenager. So although I had food, clean room, and clothes. I was depressed all the time and never interacted with girls in school. I figured there was no point because if I got a girlfriend, I'd never want her to bring her home with all the fighting