generally speaking, how do you win an ex back? Is no contact a meme?

>>18668018
>generally speaking, how do you win an ex back?
If I knew I wouldn't be as self destructive as I am.
>Is no contact a meme?
Yes, all this does is give them time to not be mad at which point they might reach out again.

No contact isn't for getting them back, it's for getting over them

>>18668018
>winning an ex back
That's the meme right there friend-o

Cutting off contact is to help you move on. You broke up for a reason, learn from it and stop living in the idealized past.

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>>18668182
>didn't follow the advice
>admits self destructive tendencies
>still says the advice is bad

>>18668187
>did follow advice
>didn't work
Not all relationships are the same, nor are all people. Generic one size fits all advice is meme tier, especially with more serious and more long term relationships were the collapse of the relationship can impact many aspects of life outside of just the relationship.

I would like to know this aswell my gf of 6 years just broke up with me yesterday... saying she stopped loving me