So I dated a girl for one month. She was diagnosed with oral herpes. We broke up already. What are the chances I got oral herpes from just kissing? I always read a 4% chance but not sure if that's true. She never had any cold sores when we kissed either so yeah.
>>18667225
I don't think there's much chance u got it. Who cares tho, doesn't like everyone get oral herpes sooner or later?
you probably already had it
afaik it's only contagious should you make skin-contact when the infected person has an outbreak. If she didn't have an outbreak when you kissed her, you're likely fine.
>>18667369
This is a big lie.
You can still get it even when there's no visible outbreak.
Either way, don't stress.
Nothing you could do about it anyway.
>>18667369
False
You can get herpes even the infected person isn't having an outbreak, and even when using condoms.
Also, it can be spread from an infected person's mouth to a clean person's genitals. The only way to avoid getting it is avoid contact with infected people.
>>18667225
I terribly want to have casual sex, but then I'm reminded of shit like this and my dick shrivels up
Maybe I should just become a monk and stay celibate unless marriage
>>18667225
If she blew you or kissed you it's about a 10% chance each time.
Everybody has it. For someone it doesn't show up, for other it does. Source: I have it, my ex didn't and she never showed it up