My daughter got a 'feederism festish''

Not sure if you are joking but fetishes aren't really picked up by mere exposure or anything like that. Not to mention feeders isn't exactly the most commonly discussed or portrayed fetish.

For what it's worth, I actually have a similar fetish (though I like stuffing more than full on weight gain) and although of course I wasn't aware as a child, I felt "funny" about cartoon scenes with characters overeating for as long as I can remember.

Kill your daughter, checkem

>>18666664
Speak for yourself, you assumptive fuck.

>>18666664
How fucked up do you have to be to think this is a joke

>>18666649
>little boys gaining weight
So she will grow up to be lovely wife who will cook for her husband and get secretly off every time she will see how he slowly but surely turns fat.

Where is the problem?

>>18666685
You really think if you watched scat porn for a few hours you'd start to like it? There's a difference between discovering that you are into something because you see it in a sexual context for the first time, or starting to like it because you see it. Let alone when you are exposed to it rarely, as I said it's not exactly thrown around.

>>18666688
That you see that your daughter has saved hundreds of videos of something and your first thought is that she must have picked up a relatively uncommon fetish from a discussion board that occasionally features porn? It does sound odd to me yes.

>>18666694
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>>18666700
...so you've had different experiences? Then share them with OP. Could be useful.

>>18666699
There is no other possible sources beyond kids or school. We don't let her watch tv either

I don't think 4chan is a normal site for kids to just happen upon either

>>18666709
I wouldn't want to steal your thunder since you seem to know everything anyway.

>>18666715
She probably likes feeding people because you and her mother are obviously holding her back from things. You dont let her watch TV? I bet you dont let her do a lot of things, and shes now at an age where she can think for herself, and her subconscious is screaming out for basic "feed and nurture" mentality, because you sick fucks arent giving it to her.

>>18666715
There's a lot of porn about this on youtube for everyone to see. Look up feedee or gainer if you don't believe me, youtube doesn't care about porn as long as there's no actual NSFW body parts to be seen.

I'm not saying that it is impossible to me that she encountered the term here, or outright asked for it, but it just does not seem likely to me at all that she got into this to the point of starting an extensive private collection because she realized it existed and was hooked, rather than because of her own desires. Even if only because other fetishes get much more extensively and often discussed. But well apparently others have experienced it differently, at least you get my bump for further input and I do feel sorry for you that your daughter isn't discreet with her fetish shit.

>>18666721
What the fuck is your issue man? It is a discussion board, you post your opinion. Yes I should've said -as far as I'm aware- it doesn't happen from mere exposure. You are right. It would've been better and more carefully put.

Now just say whatever the fuck you think about it or go to another thread.

I'm sorry but I don't think I understand what advice you're looking for. Can you rephrase your question?

>>18666751
What is this, how did it happen, and what do I do about it

>>18666724
There is nothing remotely "nurturing" about what she's watched, sicko

Bro, 4chan is not the internet. I know the media seems to sell you these days on this site being the "end boss" but I'm gonna tell you right now to ditch all perception of that as I go on.

**The internet is a hive of fetishism.** No matter where you go, no matter what you do, you always have some risk of exposure. In game chat lobbies, over IRC networks, on forums, through Youtube comments, through Facebook or Twitter or Tumblr groups. It's everywhere! Nobody can control it. Governments can't, ISPs can't, people can't. The only thing you can do is to teach your daughter self-control. Self-control extends beyond just "stop browsing website x". It's an ethos and a commitment to mindfulness that reaches throughout the entirety of one's life. You can't win with "stop browsing website x", because this degenerate hive is larger then any one website. It's larger then any of us.

It's easy to give a commandment, it's harder to train mindfulness. You're too late to preempt the fetish. That's set for life now - only freak accidents of neurosurgery have been able to delete a fetish from the mind. If you started early and often enough, you could have been able to. Take it as a lesson in parentage learned. The key now is to mitigate the damage and encourage mindfulness before the fetish overwhelms the rational-logical functions of the mind and she does something very stupid in favor of the heart. Something that you will regret not stopping when you had the chance.

>>18666649
do you own a restaurant?

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>>18666758
>what is this
A kink, or fetish. Depends on how who you will ask.
>how did it happen
Kinks are hardwired in our brain. Same with ass vs boobs. Your kid simply won the loterry and for some reason she will love to feed cute boys to usa levels of obesity.
>what do i do about it
Absolutely nothing. It is not harmful, illegal or even shameful. Everybody has some fetish (even vanilla normies), but more than often they will never admit it to anyone.

And no you cant "gain" kink. You can only discover them. Sure, by excessive porn consumption you can start seeking harder categories and desentize your brain a bit, but that will pass after few months of no fap.

If you will ever comfort her about it, you will just show her you dont respect her privacy and that you dont trust her. So next time she will hide her secrets better from you.

Tldr your daughter will be fine.

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>Don't let your daughter watch TV
>Probably have other dumbass overly-protective rules
>Surprised when she turns out to be a weirdo
Ahahahahahaha reap what you sow, faggot.

>>18666677
...checked

>>18666788
Actually traumatic/childhood experiences can cause kinks. And if you masturbate to something it can become a permanent kink. Butts vs boobs is often times a societal thing too.

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>>18666808
>cause
Yeah. But you are talking about being raped, witnessing murder, torture and other super rare stuff.

It doesnt work like pic related. Some parents think their children are born as blank book and by carefull and precise upbringning they can decide everything from being right handed, favorite color to prefered husband, job and nusic style.

But it doesnt work like that. Even on kid 2 years old you can see their personalities. One kid will try to crawl around and eat every piece of leggo it will find while another will be scared in its crib and start weeping the moment it cant see its mom.

Good parents dont try to bend their kids into some ideals, but simply raise them as well rounded /fit/lit/ citizens and show them as much information as possible while trying to maximize their inborn positive traits and explaining them why they shouldnt act on their bad impulses.

And honestly, feeding your boyfriend is not an issue at all.

>>18666846
It becomes an issue when she knowingly seeks out vulnerable or submissive twinks to stuff because she needs WG to have an orgasm anymore.

You think it won't happen, but I know for truth how much a fetish can overwhelm your RL sexuality.

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>>18666866
Well, they tried to circumise boys to stop masturbation. He can try to do female variant and without clit she wont enjoy sex anymore and will be saved from her kink.
>this was sarcasm if you havent noticed
Simply live and let live. Op as a father cant do jack shit about her kink. It is like if he asked about how to turn his daughter from lesbo to straight.

>>18666893
He can give her some ground rules and some foundation so the fetish doesn't destroy her life.

You know, like a father is supposed to do.

>>18666897
Since you are so clever, can you write here how do you imagine said rules and foundation? I am curious, how would you discuss your daughter masturbation, porn material and tell her what is ok and what is not?

>>18666715
check if she's on deviantart, that website has some of the most fucked up fetishes for everyone out there yet

>>18666796
Anon, so cold yet so true
That's why Asians are so kinky too. They try to over protect their kids, shelter them, and in the end it makes them fucking weirdos

>>18666733
The dude is a cunt, just ignore him.

>>18667143
You're the cunt

I'm into violence and body horror stuff, I remember watching Akira when I was like 12 and it made me feel REAL funny.

I don't kill or vicissitude anybody, it just kinda gets me going. You don't have to get it, but your daughter got off light.

Har har

I feel like we aren't getting the full story here OP. I know you said earlier that you don't allow her to watch TV but you don't limit her internet time or watched her access before hand? Does she have a lot of friends are school? Any extra curriculars? Just being an armchair psychologist for a moment here, but if you completely reject the notation that she's just into it because she is, could she like the idea of having that level of control over someone because she feels like she's not in control? How much freedom is she actually allowed?

My next concern would be how she came across 4chan to begin with. Word of mouth? Migrated from another site? Someone at school told her? I don't know what websites are cool with school girls now but I doubt 4chan is one of them, and setting aside anything in regards to her fetish, there are far worse things she could see on here that I'd make getting her off of here more important than what get her rocks off.

As for her feeder fetish, you can try to approach her about it but realistically she's a teenage girl and it'll likely just make her more into it opposed to the opposite. I'd just see if it's something that passes, a lot of people have things that they are into that they would never do. She may have a thing for chubby guys but she may never act on actually becoming a feeder.

>>18666897
Suppressing it will only make things worse. The types of fetishists that end up becoming psychos are the types of people who were forced to suppress their impulses.
>>18666788
Basically this. As someone who actually has a fetish, I can't actually pinpoint a specific trigger for it. All I know is that I had this fetish from a very young age.

It's common to have kinks, OP's daughter just did a shit job of hiding it. There is no issue here.

>>18666715
>We don't let her watch tv either
Her fetish is the smallest problem in her life. First she needs a family that isn't garbage and a shrink

>>18666800
stop it

>>18666677
>>18666688
>>18666699
>>18666700
>>18666733
>>18666788
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>>18666866
>>18668455

damn is this a get thread?

How old is your daughter?
You should stop being so over protective, like others in this board said, suppressing it will just make it worse.
I'm assuming your daughter is still a teen, and trying to "teach" her out of the fetish is stupid, will cause her to hate you, and won't work, in fact, there is a huge chance it will do the opposite. I doubt she would try it out irl, as if she gets enough stimuli it won't happen. Relax, op. And stop punishing her over something she can't help. She'll just distance herself from you.

>>18669024
Checking those singles

She's learned from you that men are utter shite and not worth fucking after her last sexual encounter the boy demanded fellatio or else he wouldn't consider her relationship material, and besides her vibrator works wonders. Thus she now gets off to male torture. You are raising a fine young woman.

>>18666649
Best punishment?
Force feed her until when she bends over on all floors, her belly drags on the ground.
Then slap her silly.

If she keeps viewing these websites, even after you've ruined her delicate frame, punch her in the kidneys a few times.

>>18666715
Are there any fat kids at her school?
Go and ask them.

yeah I have a feederism/weight gain fetish and I remember that it developed a while before I started going on this website. It actually developed before I even had access to the internet so I remember I used to sneak onto my parents' computer and secretly look up weight gain stuff and then delete the history. Before that, even, I discovered weight gain stuff when I searched up "pictures of outer space" on google images (because I thought space looked cool back then) and "pictures of obese children" came up in the suggestions and I found myself strangely interested in it, I was in middle school at the time. The truth is that you can't do anything. You are at a point where you are confronting very personal boundaries. What your daughter's sexual preferences and kinks are are none of your business, even as her father.