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First time poster, I really need useful advice on my situation since I've been struggling with depression and anxiety for some years.
I'm a soon-to-be 20 years old kissless virgin. I've tried to approach girls through my entire lifetime only to be ignored or looked down upon.
When I was younger, every single time I tried to start a conversation with a girl she would ignore me or simply leave, which damaged my confidence and self-esteem severely, eventually causing a depression after trying so much only to be rejected, and it has become an even worse problem recently.
I met a girl almost a year ago who happened to be really funny, smart and pretty and I made my best efforts to approach her. At first it seemed that I was finally making progress, we laughed together a lot and we shared many common interests. However after some weeks she began to ghost me completely, after I developed oneitis for her, making me feel like a completely useless piece of shit for the last months, since every single time I tried anything I'd just get down like that.
I'm not depressed by the fact that she rejected me like that anymore, I'm depressed by the fact that I'm still a kissless virgin at this stage of my life and I can't raise my confidence or my self-esteem to make any progress towards changing it since I've been ignored too much.
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Is you problem connecting limited to just girls or something you notice in other situations as well?
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Everyone goes at their own pace in life. You'll find someone just as awkward as you some day. I wouldn't worry about it. In fact I think worrying about it is your problem. Get help with your depression as that plays a massive impact with your personality. Get well soon mate there are plenty other people in your situation
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