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So I work in a co-working space. There's a tea/coffee area in the middle of the place where people make their drink and talk with eachother while doing it.
I want to get to know the other people there, and making tea everyday would undoubtedly lead to me having conversations with these people.
However, I'm terrible at talking - one of the worst conversationalists in the world. So I'm very hesitant to make tea and get into that situation.
What makes it even worse is that there's a girl I like there who makes her tea at the same time everyday. If I was braver I'd take advantage of this knowledge and make tea around the same time as her in order to get to know her and get her to warm to me. However I'm a coward.
Why is it so fucking hard for me to make a goddamn cup of tea and how can I get over myself?
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Just make the goddamn cup of tea and do what you've been planning on doing. Hardest part is to actually starting it.
Don't be hard to yourself if you think you fucked up. There's still more time to go and try again. Forgive yourself and keep it on.
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>>18664339
You're absolutely right anon, it's so hard to get over my fears but I have to. I won't get anywhere if I can't even make a simple cup of tea and talk with people.
Fuck, fuck, fuck I'm terrified at the prospect of seeing through my lame attempt at conversation.
Thanks anon, I'll try.
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>>18664305
>However, I'm terrible at talking - one of the worst conversationalists in the world.
That's not true. If you did something wrong, so what? It's not that terrible really.
>>18664364
>at the prospect of seeing through my lame attempt at conversation
You have zero idea about what goes through their head, let alone their opinions about you. And if they judged you, so what? You shouldn't validate yourself through others.
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